okay..so i'm wondering if i should tell this guy that i like him..just come right out & tell him i like it..well..not right out..but casually..i'm afraid though of what he might say..we're pretty good friends..&& yeah..it's complicated..i dno..help maybe please?
go for it. life is much too short. the world would run a whole lot smoother if people were just honest with each other. you can't decide the way you feel.
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Hello, Last night me and 3 of my friends went out and did some stuff (nothing sexual). And well one of these friends I've liked for a little while now. And the whole time she was looking for boys. Her boyfriend left her for another girl about 2 or 3 weeks ago. And I guess I feel like giving up. I don't know if I should or not. Oh well, I just want some feedback. Please.
Thanks,
Nab.
I am so sorry it took me like...2 months to see this question. I havent been on advicenators in awhile.
I'm sure things have changed between you and her since this question was asked but if things are still the same well then I say say let her know how you feel...indirectly. By way of a friend or something. You can always deny it if she doesnt feel the same.
Hope things work out.
--Beth
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alright im really confused so anyone who can help me ill rate 5..here goes...kinda long
Okay i have really really liked this boy for like 4 months and over time i have gotten to know him more and when i see him we hang out..(i see him at church) ...but than theres this other girl who likes him also and he flirts with us about the same....but he grabbed her but which made me kind of mad.. but anyways he knowss i like him so he knows i get mad when he says oh "shes so hot" so he does that kind of stuff of purpose like joking around , but than i asked him for his necklace (it was a chain thinging you know?) and he gave it to me...not to have i dont think?..haha..alright well one time i was telling everyone a story and he was there and in the story cause i got in a fight with a girl and he said "oh your sticking up for me" and i siad no but i was and he said oh well i would have kissed you if you were...i dont know if he likes me, doesnt, or is just leading me on...and what do i do??!!? ..HELP.
i think he sounds like a dumbfuck, personally. since he grabbed the girl's ass and what not.
mm i gotta quote rod stewart here cause...i do that at any chance given.
"young hearts be free tonight; time is on your side."
you have nothing to lose. you should flirt like crazy with the kid until you know for sure he's fallen madly in love with you.
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hey well i have a boy friend right now n i was hearing things that he n his ex gurlfriend r like still dating or somthin n some ppl r sayin they're not but i dono who to bolieve soo pleaze help me !!
Ask him if he is and ask her (the ex) if she is dating him. If her and him say no then believe them, until you catch them yourself. Maybe someone just saw them talking and assumed something.
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ok so my couisn has these to friends that i have been talking to on the computer, we have hung out like 3 times or whatever, but that was before one of them and i started flirting, so i was talking to him and i was talking to him about my school bonfire/homecoming thing and i dont no how it happened but now he is coming, and i dont wnat him to feel lonely, because he really doesnt no anyone at my school, so do you think i should invite the other boy too and my cousin, but i dont want to make anything akward with them because we will be all flirty adn everything...so i dont no what to do i just need help...thanks!! xoxo
Well..you should ask him if he wants you to invite them. He shouldn't be too lonely if you're there with him though.
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okay...i'm very depressed. And a guy didnt even break up with me or sumthing. i just dont have a bf right now...and i really like this guy at school...we flirt ALOT..but i still have a feeling he doesnt like me...and ever since i've been really depressed...(plus, homecoming dance is coming up..that doesnt help)
is there anyway for me to get out of this funk?
depression is apart of adolescense..or whatever. =) ....mm...ask him to the homecoming dance. casually. "do you have anyone to go with....no?...we should go together."
Aw...I hope he says yes.
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How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? Is there any kind of physical movement or gestures?
A lot of girls act kind of more shy around the boys they like. Just...differently.
MM....I doubt I helped much.
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hey this is kinda embarassing but im 18 and im a virgin! most girls my age have lost there virginitys at age 14! i feel so lonley and left out! so i lie and say im not! its not that i cant find someone its just that im so picky! i want it to be special and want to be in love! wat should i do? should i lose it with some guy i dont know? or wait for the special one? and is this wiered? i really need some advice! i lie to so many ppl and i feel bad! i want to be honest with my friends but im to embarassed!
-HELP
babyll873
you should wait. i, personally, think you would regret just fucking some random guy so that you can say you lost your virginity. and also people would think you were a slut for doing so. so......my personal opinion is that you should wait. and your friends should be understanding. if they aren't well then....you can get better friends than that. good luck with this.
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ok well, i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like my bf and we have been going out for 4 months. i think he is going to break up with me because he hasnt called for 5 days now AND when we do talk he never really....talks. i seem to be the only one on the phone at times. im not sure what to think. do you guys think he is going to break up with me? should i break up with him first? im so confused so PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!! thanks a bunches!
if you are bothered that he hasn't called you than call him and ask him to go to a movie with you. don't break up with him because you think he is going to break up with you because what if he isn't?
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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!
why do you care so much about everyone hating you? why should they? you can't help your feelings.
but if you don't want "everyone hating you" than i guess you must just deny you liking your ex still and tell the kid you don't like to simply.....fuck off.
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
goodness. that makes me wonder why yall broke up in the first place. aw he'll love you for making the cake yourself. you could make a shirt that is all like "I
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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money?
If you truely have to ask this question then I don't believe you really love him and that you should find another man.
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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend."
Ask your friend who told you that he had a girlfriend how she knows that he does and ask her to point his girlfriend out. Then ask the girl that is supposibly his gf if they are going out. If they aren't then.....continue being his friend. If they are then you could still be the guy's friend (unless your mad enough at him for lieing). Just don't do "sexual" things with him anymore. And don't feel like a slut....you didn't know.
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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do?
When the right guy comes that you feel 100% right about kissing then it will happen. And the moment will be perfection.
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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together?
Obviously he doesn't mean enough to you for you to try to keep the relationship together by perhaps inviting him to these family filled events.....so just break up with him.
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is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks
Of course it is okay for you to be independent. But see it this way: If you really like him then you will let go of this "phobia" of letting guys pay for things and let him pay. I mean....he does want to. You aren't using him.
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well I have a girlfriend and I love her to death but idk if she knows that i love her as much as i do. how can i tell her how much i love her?
don't tell her...show her. if you love her as much as you say you do then you will know exactly how to show her. you know what she likes. be creative. Or maybe a list of 100 things you love about her.
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Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!
i would most definitely think he has some feelings for you. find out what bands he listens to from his friends or him or whoever and listen and talk to him about them. such as casually saying "i can't wait until the new...... cd comes out" and he being like "i can't believe you like them too".
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Well i was datin this boy *jamie*. and me and him got into a arguement over me braking up with him cause my parents split up. he said i broke up with him for a boy named *rodney* but i didn't me and rodney started talking 2 days later. cause he lives next to my mom. i was supposed to move in with my mom but i didn't and i wrote him a 4 paragraph note on icq. and sent it to him. explaining everything to him. but he still is all jumping down my throat. well i don't know what to do. cause i REALLY love *jamie*. he was my first love. and i can't move on with out him. i'd do anything for that boy. what can i say or do to make everything better.. the other thing is. that the other nite i think last saturday. we got into a arguement. and he threatened me and then his sister threatened me. but god nos i really love that boy. he nos it. i've cried since we broke up. should i talk to him or just move on (because of the threatening part). i don't know if he really meant what he said about him wanting me to die and junk. but what should i do.. i really think i'm inlove
*Confussed But Inlove*
Wow. I find it amazing that even after he said he wanted you to die you still love him. He may just be severely confused and regretting he said it.....but he may have meant it. You should move on and if he decides to stop being an ass and tells you that he really does still love you too well then, then you can get back together with him.
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