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Name: Josh
Birthday: December 16th
Sign: Sagitarius
Grade: 12th (Senior)
Nationalty: Lebanese
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Varies (depending on what I wear)
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Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Drink: Starbucks Hazenut Latte
Favorite Food: Lebanese Food!!! And mom's homecooked meals
I am junior in highschool at a small private school in NY. I am involved with many extra-ciricular activites at my school such as Mock Trial, Model UN, The Enviro-thon, Ecology Club, NCCJ, and I do alot of volunteering around my area. I have been told by friends many times before that I am a good listener / adivce giver and I have decided with the persuasion of a friend to try my talents out. Looking to answer your questions, and maybe to meet some new people.
Can't reach me here? Or do you have a private question? Feel free to IM me on AIM at AskTrevorWolf.
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: Entrepenuer
Age: 15
AIM: AskTrevorWolf
Member Since: October 4, 2004
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I fall asleep and i dream of the most hotties men, you could imagin of what i do with them :D
But i wake up and think of my best friend who is a women. Why?
i want to have sex with a man, i want them to hold me, i want to make out with men and i love it when men look at me.
But why do i worry about my friend June? I care about her, want to hold her, and when she leans on me i want to cuddle with her.
I know i became bi
but she is the only women that i only has eyes for.i dont look at other women in a sexual way, i compear myself with them.
i dont get it?
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ok. well it sounds like you are having a little difficulty determining what your sexuality is. My take on the situation is that, you're gay. No one is ever 100% gay or 100% straight, and even gay men have fantasies about women on rare occasions. So this may explain why you are having these "changes of heart" if you want to call them that. So i would not worry about anything, and just learn to accept it, which I am not sure if you have done already. It is confusing for everyone, but it will get easier as time goes along. Just choose what you want. I mean if it will help, tell June how you feel about her and about other people and you might be able to experiment and see what your true feelings actually are. Hope this was atleast somewhat helpful.
-Josh
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heyy i really liek this kid but he goz 2 a different school and i really like him at should i do? (link)
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My best advice is to see if you can get in touch with him, or see if any of your friends know him and/or hang out with him. The best way to get to know someone is to open up and talk to them. It's hard when someone is @ a different school and you don't talk much or have friends in common. You know? I understand how hard it is. It is kinda like forming a long distance bond or relationship. But try talking to him, and opening up to him. I am sure you can see him again, is he in your area? Hope I helped! Need more? Just ask me, or get my SN from my column. Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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okay, i just met this guy about 4 days ago and i really like his personality, so im starting to like him.. and he was kool earlier today untill now when hes acting like a jackass but in a flirty way. well i get mad easily so i got mad at him and asked him why he was acting like that and that i thought he liked me and he said he does, but he has yet to call me back or txt me or anything.. what should i do? was i too fast for liking him? (link)
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No, you are not to fast in liking him, but also you can't be to pushy. From personal experience, getting attached or being pushy about him calling, or texting you can lead to a major change in the relationship for the worst. My suggestion is just to take it easy and wait for things to happen. You have only know him for less than a week. Get to know him a little more, and really spend some time with him. Maybe he needs a little space to sort things out, and he is having trouble sorting out his feelings. Don't rush things and things are bound to fall in to place. Personal experience advice...trust me. =D Hope I helped! Need more? Just ask me, or get my SN from my column. Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming soon and I have no clue what to get him. Any suggestions? (link)
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My best advice is, getting something that he is interested in. It really doesn't matter the present as long as it is something special and picked out specially. Something he will be able to pick up a yr from now, and remember when, where, and who he got it from. That is the most important thing. Just try to go along with what he seems interested in. Music, sports, movies, and stuff like that is usually a safe bet. Also, for a simpler idea, gift cards are great. If you are realy unsure, then gift cards are the way to go. I always buy gift cards. =D Hope I helped! Need more...just ask me, or IM me. Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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ok i am i guess still dating this guy named david that lives in the uk but i live in the states way way far away and i kinda cheated on him with this girl that lives here should i dump him or not and if i dump him he haz wasted alot of time and EFFORT on me he even told hiz friends there that he was gay just sooo he could be with me i would appreciate it if u give me good answers and i also rate high for them soooo thank you lots P.S. and if u couldent tell i am a bi guy that lives in okla that (link)
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These types of questions are always tough to answer no matter what the circumstances. This is a tough question to explain without talking to you yourself. IM me on AIM if you want @ AskTrevorWolf, so I can better explain it. But it all comes down to how you really feel. I won't say that you should dump him, but you need to talk this over with him, and see what he thinks because of the distance between you two. How old are you by the way, because that also plays a role in the way that things swing. I would say that talk out the terms of your relationship, and see what you come out with. What are the chances of him cheating again...what are the chances of you two meeting...what are the chances he is re-thinking the relationship because of the location? These are all things you need to think about. But to make a final decision and give you a final answer, i need some more info..like how old you two are...that is a big thing. Hope I helped somewhat...IM me on AIM for me explain. Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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im a girl and im 16. my ex boyfriend and i are pratically going out again, as my 2nd chance. but theres this other guy. ive known him longer, and ive hooked up with him a few times. even tho its summer, i wanna hang out and see him, but i dont want to make my bf mad. i almost feel like i like this other kid, as i love my boyfriend. i have feelings that make me want to go out with this other kid, but i have a boyfriend that i love. what should i do? (link)
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Well, you have to follow what your heart tells you. Also, I wouldn't feel bad and think you will make your b/f mad if you hang out with this other kid over the summer. I mean it sounds like your belong to him, which you don't. If he does get mad over the situation with you hanging out with your other guy friend, then he isn't the one for you. A b/f should be supportive of his g/f's actions and always there for them, not getting mad @ them because they are hanging out with some friends. But, back to the liking both of them, thats a tough situation. You need to sort out the pro's and con's of both guys. Then you need to decide which one you think is the better guy based on personality, and kindness...and which one you like more, and can have fun with and be yourself. Not by looks...because then it will make it harder than ever. If you do this, it should be much easier for you to decide. Hope I helped! If you need anymore help, ask, or IM me @ AskTrevorWolf on AIM. Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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Ok well I like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and I’m well... kinda preppy. The only reason I’ve really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When I talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized I liked him. I really don’t know if he likes me because he's so different from guys I normally like.. And so different from me. Anyway we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and yea.. He always smiles and waves when he sees me and he is so nice. I mean from what I can tell I barely know him though... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now I have no classes with him... I’m really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyway.. I really want to talk to him and just get to know him better. But there are some problems... I’m pretty outgoing but I can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude... most of his friends totally hate me (mostly cuz I’m a little preppy, and smart).... And most of my friends don’t really know him (and I wont tell them who he is)... and I have no classes with him. He still waves to me though. I need advice on how to like talk to Frankie and like really have a conversation with him or just play around. I’m pretty creative, but with all the problems I dunno what 2 do.... And I’m just not very bold when it comes to guys... please help me find a way to talk to Frankie! (PS. in case it helps, I'm 13) (link)
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First...Are you a guy or a girl? And if you would like to talk more about this in private through IM that is totally fine with me. Sorry it has taken me so long to respond, I have been sooo busy, but I have to go because I have a long day tomorrow on a ecology club trip. PLEASE IM me!! I want to help, and for you to be happy! :)
-Trevor-Wolf
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I am 23 and have an awsome girlfriend, We have great sex but some times I don't really feel like having sex I don't get it? She is the most beautiful girl in the world very sexy and yet sometimes I just can't get in the mood it's not an erection problem it's just a mood problem. (link)
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Thats pretty common especially among people in their late teens or early twenties. Your horemones are still raging and your moods tend to go up and down. Is there a particular thing that gets you into the mood? Why don't you try something such as a nice night out for dinner downtown talking, talk a walk by the water or downtown, and "end" it with a nice invite back into your house for a romantic night. I think that would be something to get you into the mood. But I saw someone else said to use viagra...but obvoiusly they shoudln't be answering your question because viagra is for erection problems mostly, and you already expressed thats not what you have. Hope I helped, leave one in the inbox if you need anything else. :)
-Trevor-Wolf
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Sometimes my computer goes really fast and sometimes its soo slow. Well I was trying to go on advicenators and it wasint even loading then I tried another site and it worked fine. I then tried to go back onto advicenators, and it was going slow. Is it because my internet is sick of being on advicenators so much(lol) or what? I'm confused! I'm on right now because it just started getting fast again..so yeah anyone know whats going on? Its making me sooo mad :D!
xo_sherry_ox (link)
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Well, it may be your internet connection, depending on what type of connection you have. Also it may be your computers MEmory or Ghz depending on how old the computer is. Try restarting it and seeing how it works. With Adviceinators, it is a complex site with alot of things to load just like a journal site called Melodramatic. If you need more help or anything, leave one in my inbox. :)
-JTrevor
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Well i was in school and my two friends told me that this kid,told them that he likes me! and i was wicked excited cuz hes cute,hott,funny,smart etc. and i like him. But now he says its not the rite time to have a girlfriend because he just got over this girl that he liked for 3weeks cuz she was the biggest bitch ever! how do i show him that it is the rite time? or should i just wait for him to get over everything hes been through? i really like him and i don't know wut to do..omg please help...sorry its so long but pleaseee give me some advice (link)
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Yeah, just let him do his thing and let things take their course. You never know how people are going to react to "pushing" them into the right time for a relationship. He will soon realize that the time is right and that the other girl isnt worth pondering over anymore. When the time is right, then he will tell you and things will work their course. If something comes up and he happens to not say anything to you after he gets over his problem and goes to someone else, then it wasnt meant to be in he first place. I am sorry to bring you down, but it is true. There is no sense in forcing something that you dont is real or not. Hope I helped, and leave one in the inbox if you need to talk some more or anything. :)
-JTrevor
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my boyfriend and i broke up more than a month ago but we went out for almost a year. at first i wanted to stay friends with him, but now it seems like he doesnt want to. i still like him and he likes another girl, and i dont know what to do everytime i see him. i'm in high school (14) (link)
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These situations are tough. Where one side wants to be friends and the other doesn't or doesn't seem to want to. All I can tell you is to do what you feel is right. In most situations I have witnessed like this, both people got over each other and everything turned out for the best of them. On the subject of what you should do around him, my advice is just be yourself. He already knows you better than most people because you guys went out for so long. HE will realize that your a good person, and would like to be friends and not have a bad ending ruin things, and if he doesnt...hes an ass..:) Hope I helped. :)
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I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/
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NO your not stupid...not at all. You know how many movies I have watched and wished that thats how my life could be, and how that movie could be reality, specially with the people in it. Hehe. So, no...alot of people feel the same way as you do, including myself. Its just a way that people function. Movies are to over-rated thinking about it, things happen in them that don't happen in real life. It makes me depressed alot, but I get over it. Its the same things with songs that talk about love, and break-ups. But don't lett it get to you, your day will come...PROMISE! :)
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ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).
originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..
i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
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Thats tough. The best thing that I could think for you to do is to explain to him that you didn't mean for it to happen one way or another but things just kind of hit of with peter and you. Just re-assure him of your feelings for him and mayb explain to him that you all could be friends if you all wanted to be. Re-assuring him of things I think is the best way to get his attention and make him realize that he is really loved and cared for by you, and that now is now, and then was then. What is done is what's done.
P.S. - I would also try asking him what is bothering him. A sit down with him maybe an answer. My belief is that friendship and the ability to communicate is the best quality in a relationship. If you need me to break it down, feel free to message me. Check my column for info. Hope I helped. :)
*JT
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Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him? (link)
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No, there is really a very slim chance that you could actually be in love with someone you only met online. Love is something that needs to come from actually meeting and getting to know the person better....in person! The feeling you are having is most like infatuation or a crush, but probably not love. I don't mean to rain on your parade but from past stories being told to me like this, in the end...it never turns out to be love. Sorry, and I hope I was of some help. :)
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