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Question Posted Wednesday June 29 2005, 7:02 pm

ok i am i guess still dating this guy named david that lives in the uk but i live in the states way way far away and i kinda cheated on him with this girl that lives here should i dump him or not and if i dump him he haz wasted alot of time and EFFORT on me he even told hiz friends there that he was gay just sooo he could be with me i would appreciate it if u give me good answers and i also rate high for them soooo thank you lots P.S. and if u couldent tell i am a bi guy that lives in okla that

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Mackenzie answered Thursday June 30 2005, 9:41 am:
Online dating is never a good idea... and you can see why.

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Trevor-Wolf answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:51 pm:
These types of questions are always tough to answer no matter what the circumstances. This is a tough question to explain without talking to you yourself. IM me on AIM if you want @ AskTrevorWolf, so I can better explain it. But it all comes down to how you really feel. I won't say that you should dump him, but you need to talk this over with him, and see what he thinks because of the distance between you two. How old are you by the way, because that also plays a role in the way that things swing. I would say that talk out the terms of your relationship, and see what you come out with. What are the chances of him cheating again...what are the chances of you two meeting...what are the chances he is re-thinking the relationship because of the location? These are all things you need to think about. But to make a final decision and give you a final answer, i need some more info..like how old you two are...that is a big thing. Hope I helped somewhat...IM me on AIM for me explain. Rate!

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poa answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:48 pm:
You probably ruined his life already. You might as well marry the poor man.

You prick.

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NanakiBH answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:18 pm:
Well, it all comes down to love. Cheating on somebody is never right and you'll have to realise that. The only way that'll work out for you is if you really like/love the girl you were cheating on him with. The guy sounds really great though. If he's willing to put some of his personal life aside for you, then I just wouldn't take that for granted. It sounds like you'd break his heart if he made that much of an effort. You seem concerned, so it sounds to me like you're still interested in him. You hardly talked about that girl.

If you appreciate what he's done for you, and you'd still be willing, give him a longer chance and see if you're still digging him more than that chick.

Hope that helps ya a bit.

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cookierat123 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:18 pm:
you really should dump him. i mean how r you two gonna see eachother? you need to talk to him or send him a letter or something. tell him that its not gonna work out between you to bc that is a really far away relationship to carry on.
i really hop it helps you out.
leah

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