Okay my last thing about me thing thing made me seem like a flaming homosexual.
Let me start over. Ha.
My name's Derrek.
I'm turning 16 on June 29, 2007. :]
Yay.
I'm gay; you homophobes can go drink bleach for all I care.
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There is this boy named David that I have known as a babe and longer. He is a year older than me and I really like him and is wonderin if he likes me too. Lats year a the end of the year on the last day I saw him talking ALOT to this girl and I'm kinda jealous. What do I do?
P.S this year he is goin to jr. high I'm in middle school. (link)
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm in high school and the guy I like is in college, haha. He's 3 years older.
Tsktsk.
Okay, so yeah, the main key is to talk to him a lot but you HAVE to flirt or you'll just stay in the friend zone, and the friend zone sucks.
You can't be annoying or clingy, because he's older, and he'll just be like
"Ew. Little kid. How annoying." Like, he'll just be so full of himself and stuff. Boys are like that.
So, yeaaah, talk to him, flirt, don't seem too interested!
Because I know that some guys think that it's pretty attractive when girls seem not too interested, but then other guys think that she needs to get the stick out of her butt.
K,
Hope I helped.
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thanks and yeah i understadn i think i'll try and make the move and if it isnt right i'll find someone else until she decides what she wants. do you have a myspace?? (link)
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nah. i use my friends. i have aim though.
if you wanna add her you can. she likes friend requests haahah
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okay i have this friend that went out this guy for 6 months they broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with my friend because he HEARD a rumor that my friend wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that my friend wanted to brake up with him so they got back together and 2nd time was he broke up with her again because he doesnt have feelings for my friend because he liked someone else when they were going out but he didnt wanna tell my friend because he was scared that my friend is gonna hate him, so the girl he likes doesnt like him back, after that my friend and her ex are still friends and they would talk to each other a lot at night and her ex asked her if she got over him and she said no and he also said hes not over her too and he was saying that it was all his fault and stuff. the question is what do you think about this situation? they broke up 3-5 months ago but they are still talking and stuff (link)
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She should not let him get back with her, no matter how much she likes him. It's about dignity, he'll def. think that she's just his little toy that he can kick around, but will always be there.
I think he's using her to get a girlfriend because the other chick turned him down or something. Tell her it's about dignity and that she should say no about that kind of stuff.
Being used is a really messed up thing. I had that whole issue happen with me and my exboyfriend. I was the victim.. But with another ex, I was the one kind of pushing him around. It was around April, and he STILL likes me. It's really weird. hahaha. But, Yeah, tell her not to go out with him. Total loss of dignity, k? :]
Oh.
And not saying it's going to be easy.
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a crush on my friend and the subject said friends and love, well you said you agreedwith anwser one, for me to make the first move only problem me and my friend have been through all this stuff before where i was the first one to hold her hand and kiss her on the lips not make ou tthough, but thats where we are aming at. and me andher talked about it and i said well your the one that wants to start thisu p again you want something to happen you said it so yourself so you be the first one to make the move cause im not. so she already thinks that. i dnt want to be the first one to make the move just because everyone thinks im obsest wit hher already. sop i want her to prove to me she wanst this to. nut how? i have the tendancy to bring it up around her and she doesn twant to after cause she wanst to do it un expectly. but i alwasy think about it help? (link)
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Yeah, I understand. It's a hassle to have to wait for someone. Especially for something like that. I still think that she's shy and doesn't like KNOW how to just go in for it. Remember, kisses are pretty hard to do when the other person doesn't expect them, so give her a break. But, then again, you have waited a while. Maybe, if she doesn't come up with something soon you should try with someone else. I understand that you like or love this girl a lot, but you don't have to stop. You should just get a friends with benefits or someone to preoccupy your mind in the meantime. It's your friend's fault if you end up falling for someone else...
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ok so this is it, my fian lstraw! please help. me bestfriend and i, we are close, super close, and we like eachother, alot. only problems we are both girls.i of course like her more then she likes me she goes on and off but me i stick with it because i actually am in love with her. and you never forget your first love right?? well im just done imm well aware of whats goin on i keep getting hurt my heart keeps getting broken. like she opens the door and brings me closer but when i take my own step in she shuts it! and im just tired of it! the thing that makes me so upset is she is the one who brings this together every time. the 1st time the only reason we got so close was beacause she told me friend she wanted to go to winter formal with me , more then a friend. so we did that after a while we started holding hands at school and everything not caring what people thought. one day she stpped likin gme i said ok and stoped going after it we stayed bestfriends. but then about 3 weeks ago she told me after not likeing me for a month or two taht she liked me again, i said ok but she was like its diffrent i want something to happen this time. so once again she started. but we have this bet that she has to be the first one to make the move and make out with me before the end of summer, she has had so many oppertunitys but wont do it! why?? is she scarred she doesnt want to what? i eman she is the one taht wantes something to happen and trus tme so do i, i mean i like her alot! but i asked her toda ywhy last night(the lasnt night i'll see her before summer) she didnt do it and she was like becasue if it was ment to happen we will see and it will happen on its own, but i mean you have to put some effort into it! gosh i dont know please help. she likes to flir tand its wierd you think she would flirt with the ppl she likes more then ppl she doenst but its not. its the oppeset. is she teaasin gme what? plese help
16/f (link)
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Maybe she's confused. About her sexuality that is. I've had problems like that. Like, I think that I liked one of my guy friends but I couldn't say ANYTHING, I mean for all I know, he's straight, so that wouldn't work out too well. But he kind of does these things that hints that he's into me and all but I just think he's being friendly and such. It's really frustrating because deep down, you really do want something to happen... I agree with Answer 1, try making the first move. It's really hard, I know, but just try, kay?
You'll get something out of it. Even if that something isn't good...
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I am in Grade 12 now and will have to leave for another city in a few months. I'm in a very serious relation with my guy since an year. he's gonna be staying in our hometown after he's done with Grade 12. He doesn't want me to leave but it is very important for me to do so because I am lookin forward to become a fashion designer for which i have to be away for 4 years...I'm in a statew of dilemme because I dont know what to choose : My career or My love...! (link)
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Yes, love is a wonderous thing, but if it is true love, then you two will find your way to each other. Keep in mind that you will have vacations. The career will always be there for you and even though you are sure that he will always be there for you, the reality is, that he might not be. We don't know that, but I personally think that you should go with your career choice because it's successful, and like I said, if it really is love, then it'll find its way back slowly but surely. I hope this advice helps some. :]
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i know most girls like to be called pretty or beautiful, or at least i do.. but when a guy tells me that he thinks i am pretty, what should i say back other then thank you- like do guys like to be called hott? sexy? something else? i usually say that someone is very attractive but is there somthing that guys like to be called...? thanks (link)
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Just be like "Thanks, you're a cutiiieee." Or something. :]
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i have no love life and i like this guy...but i dont know who to get him to notice me! even if he doesnt notice me...i wish SOMEONE would! (link)
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You can't just find a guy for the point of finding a guy. A relationship like that will be bumpy, and kind of one-sided, because you won't really like him, for him, you'd like the idea or a guy being there to hold your hand, give you sweet hugs and kisses and be there whenever you need him to be. Try taking it slow, you never know, maybe you have someone you really like right under your nose..
To make him notice?
Talk to him, get to know him.
Just talk to him on Myspace, AIM, phone, person. Whatever you feel more comfortable with :]
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okay theres this boy i really like and im pretty sure he dosen't like me i have his msn and evrything but everytime i try to talk to him he acts so cold to me...hes not always like that sometimes hes sooo nice to me ...making me laugh and all that stuff, my friends say he likes me but im nt to sure and i really don't no what to say can i have some help on how to make me andhim become closer? (link)
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Babe, why would you want to like a guy that's mean to you? I understand that he's nice to you and tries to make you smile and such but it seems to me that he likes you more as a friend then as a girlfriend, in this case. You didn't really give me a bunch of details but that's just how things are. You can try to change that completely. Try asking him if he wants to hang out, it's summer and you two should have some time to hang out. See how that goes. Maybe you two can watch a movie with another couple, that way another girl won't hit on him or something, or bring a friend you know won't do anything. If that doesn't work out, you'll eventually loose interest but still keep a good friend. :] I'm sorry, I hope I helped a little.
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My brothers best friend is 19. I'm 15. He's four years older than me. Ever since I was 10 or 11 my aunts have been bugging me that he likes me and one day were going to fall in love and get married and all this shit. Well, for the past two years I have fell in love with him. He treats me so well and we have so much fun together. Even when my brother isn't around we hang out. I just want to know how I should tell him. I wrote him a 30 page letter about how I feel about him and everything, but I don't know when or how to give it to him. He leaves for college at Penn State in August for his sophmore year of college (I live outside of Philly) and I want to tell him before he goes, should i? (link)
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Okay, please don't send him the 30 page letter. Keep that to yourself. Haha. I mean, what if he doesn't feel the same way back?
Try hanging out with him, and just telling him yourself, it'll make it easier, and stuff. He is 19, and he is goign to college, so try not to go for a relationship right now... Try when he comes back for breaks, and if you don't even want a relationship then good.
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I just think you should tell him yourself, or on the phone, or something along those lines. I just don't think letters turn out to be a good idea afterwards...
Ummm...If you think that you really should give him the letter, then go for it. Try the last day he leaves, just hand it to him...
That way both of you can soak it in, and when he comes back you two can hang out just like before, and you'll know exactly how he feels about you, and if it doesn't go well then you have the rest of the time to get over it. I hope I helped, if this sounds mean or something... I didn't intend on it. I'm sorry if it was. :]
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Hey, I'm 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
He is the most amazing guy I have ever met. We have been dating for a few weeks, but we have been friends for months before that. We talk on the phone for hours beyond hours every night and he is just simply the most wonderful guy I have ever met =]. But the thing in, when we kiss, we both don't feel anything...at all. We have talked about it and we have made it clear that we both want to kiss each other, but we don't know what's wrong. It seems like we are missing the romantic aspect of a relationship. Everything else in the relationship is completely fine. We talked about how it sounds like we are just friends, but we came to the conclusion that if we were just friends, we would both like each other way too much.
I honestly think that it's somehow my fault that we aren't "feeling anything" when we kiss. Does anybody know how to fix that? I'm crazy about him, but maybe I'm just shy and maybe it's ruining the kiss? At this point I really have no idea.
Thanks for the help =] (link)
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If you kiss for a while, things would get heated up. I mean, if it's just a peck, don't expect anything. I never really feel anything with pecks, but when you like get into the whole kissing thing, then maybe you'll feel something. You're obviously feeling something if you want to kiss each other more though. I mean, I understand what you're going through. I kind of had the same problem, but him and I are just best friends again. Hahaha. Well, for now at least. Hahaa.
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Latley I've been so obsessed with - and depressed because of - looks. And I finally figured out my reason for feeling so bad. A guy. Pathetic, yes I know. I want this guy to be so proud of me that he wants to walk around the mall with me under his arm so he can show me off and people can envy him. I want to be his main pride. I want him to feel so lucky I'm his. So I've been killing myself dieting and searching for the perfect look. Now I have 2 questions..
1) How do I prevent this from happening EVERYTIME i like someone? I would like to be able to have a crush without hating myself..you know?
2) What makes a guy proud to show you off? Is it all about the nice ass and skinny body? Or is it looong curly beautiful hair that gets other guys attention?
I know he thinks I'm pretty (atleats I think so, otherwise he wouldnt even bother talking to me right?) so its just a matter of making him feel like he's got something others want - ME!!!
How do I do this? (link)
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-- You can't go out with a guy until you feel comfortable in your own skin.
Honestly, I like girls that are a little thick. I don't date girls or anything, but I can still think they're attractive, right? Haha. Okay, so I like the girls that have a little on them, I don't like the skinny look-like-they're-anorexic-but-aren't girls. That just grosses me out. If you want to make other guys jealous of your guy, you have to act amazing, looks are just a plus. Seriously, once a guy gets to know you, he really won't care how you look, if he's into your personality... And if he is, then screw him, you don't need that. He's obviously shallow and doesn't care. Okay, a shallow guy liking you sounds good until you start liking them, and thinking that they just might like you for your personality... Anyways, once this guy gets to know you and sees that you're a little insecure about this, he might not want to deal with it... That's just how guys are. When people say that confidence is the sexiest thing about a woman, they're not kidding. And, by the way, there's a fine line between confidence and cockiness. ;] Hahaa. I hope my rambling was of some help.
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i think that my bestfriend is bi sexual.
im not sure though what are the signs of it? (link)
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OKAY. NEW ANSWER:
Well, I mean wouldn't you get offended if she thought you were bisexual?! Jeez. At least try and see what I'm getting at.
Take it from a homo. THERE AREN'T REALLY ANY SIGNS.
But I mean, dude, if she's your friend it shouldn't matter. My friends could care less about my .. uh. sexuality.
I mean, yeah people care, but it shouldn't matter.
And being bi is like nothing.
You might offend her by just asking, but if you two are that close then go ahead.
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Okay. So I cheated on my boyfriend 2 months ago with one of my ex's, which i have not talked to since. And I told my boyfriend the next day. And I feel horrible about what I did, every time I think about it or he brings it up I end up crying and hating myself more and more. For about 2 weeks after it happend I cried myself to sleep every night and seriously could hardly live with what I had done. And now, 2 months later, he still has not forgoten it, well i dont expect him to forget it, but he still always brings it up and I want to hang out with one of my guy friends.... and my boyfriend got all mad that I wanted too and was like fine go be with him then and he is just worryed i will cheat on him again.... but I would never do that again, i can not risk loosing him one more time. So I guess my question is,
Is it wrong of me to want to hang out with my guy friends and expect him to let me after what I did?
Or is he being to uptight about it and is it wrong of him to tell me not to hang out with other guys and get all pissed when i even think about hanging out with another guy?
One thig I do know is, If I want to hang out with a guy, I am going to. And I AM GOING to PROOVE to him that someday he can trust me again with another guy.
SO yeah... any advise would help. (link)
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So pretty much, your boyfriend has lost his trust for you. I get that sometimes... I've never really cheated but I've done things that my ex's don't approve of. ... So, I think you have to wait it out, but if he still brings it up, then you need to just let him know, tell him straight out.
YOU'RE MY ONLY MAN, I REGRET DOING EVERYTHING I DID, AND I JUST NEED FOR YOU TO STOP BRINGING IT UP. IT'S IN THE PAST FOR A REASON. IT'S OVER, AND IT'S DONE WITH.
You need to let him know exactly how you feel, okay?
If he still does it then he just isn't worth the time. If he is allowed to hang out with girls, without you being there, then it's only fair that you hang out with your friends too.
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okay so i think i'm jealous of some of my friends with boyfriends. they've hooked up, and there all so happy together. and i feel like crying really hard. i've never even had a first kiss. and whenever a guy likes me it's when i dont like him. in 5th grade this guy asked me out and i liked him but said no because i was scared, and now i regret it like hell. i just wish i had someone special that cares about me. it burns inside to see my friends so happy. i dont know how to make myself happier. none of the guys like me, and i have friends who get dates with really popular guys, even though there not the most popular girls and there not mean. i just feel like an abandoned puppy. how come no one likes me? no one wants me..
how am i supposed to feel better about this?
:( (link)
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Sweetie, I can't even begin to tell you how much I hate relationships. When I was 13 I had my first one. His name was Mike. So, Mike and I went to different schools... And this was like the summer before 8th grade, I believe... And Mike and I never hung out, hahahaha. We would just talk on the phone and AIM it. It was so pathetic. It lasted a month. A month is my longest relationship and I've been in like 4. Hahahaha. I can't stand them. Okay, so anyways. I think that your first boyfriend is going to be really fun to be with and stuff, and it'll work out, I think. My best friend, and her boyfriend met in the beginning of 9th grade. No one had ever liked them, they had never had a first kiss.. Nothing. They've been going out for way more than a year, and they're still each other's first everything. It's really amazing to see things like that. It's cute :] But, listen, it's not that big of a deal. You seem young... I got my first kiss in like November of 8th grade, and I didn't hook up until like the middle of 9th. Hahaha. Don't worry about it. It's nothing fabulous. Just relax, you'll find someone in no time :]
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ok so im a 16/f and im going to call this guy that i like today. but okay i met him and talked to him twice. and he likes to skateboard and we also talked babout music. but bseides that what else should we talk about since we barely know eachother? and also i need some flirting tips! thnx (link)
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Um, I'm super open, so I'll just talk about my day a little, see how his was, and such. I mean, don't talk about yourself too much because then it gets boring. Try and tell him a story... Um... Flirt with him, and kid around. Like if he brings up a girl or something be like "Shit. I thought we were together!" And if he's like "???" Then wtf. I hate people like that. Haha.. Sorry. But, I mean if he goes along with it then that'll lead into a new conversation. Sex conversations are always entertaining. Hahaha. Good way to flirt too. If you two have myspaces, comment his pictures. :]
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ok so me and my ex broke up. (obviously haha) but yea, so sometimes i talk to him on aim. and he says that his life is messed up and stuff and he says he misses me. but he never calls me or writes to me on aim its always me first. i cant call him because i dont have his new number and i wont ask for it. but anyway yea so he always says that his life is messed up and he sounds depressed. what should i tell him? what should i do? i miss him so much. (link)
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Aww. Okay, so maybe IM him and be like
"Hey, feel like talking?"
I mean, that's what I would do.. haha... But, I'm me, and you're you, so I don't know what you would do.
Exes are usually close.. so you two should feel comfortable with each other :]
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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong? (link)
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NO. Not at all! Everyone loves a little attention, and not to get you jealous or anything but he probably thinks about other girls on the side, haha. Everyone has in a relationship! But yeah, you shouldn't worry about it!
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Hi,im a 15 year old girl that thought she never wanted a serious relationship but is now kind of wanting one at the same time >.< Anyway, theres this guy i met through myspace.i played it safe of course,talked to him on aim and the phone and such then i met up with him (with a few of my friends,again playing it safe)and it turns out im starting to get really interested.The only problem is that he works 5 days a week(hes 17 by the way) and can hardly ever hang out and stuff.We still talk alot on aim but id rather be able to get to know him in person.He says he likes me but doesnt really act like it and im so confused i dont know what to do or think especially since i have really low sef esteem so im constantly in doubt ... =/ (link)
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So, I'm 15 too, and this almost 18 year old like me. He was so creepy, like you have no idea. I just don't understand why an older guy would date a younger girl. I mean this guy doesn't seem like the average creepy, perverted freak... But you have to watch out because older guys are usually smooth. Just be sure to tell him you're not ready for certain things [if you aren't]. And he's almost going to college too... So... Hahaa... I mean, just don't get too attatched. Try and hang out with him more though. Get to know him a lot. Make sure he's cool.... And stuff. I might be wrong, he might be a beautiful soul.
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Okay this guy from my old school starts talking to me on msn so i invited him to my bithday party he came we had a blast he started hanging with me even though he knew like alot of people there and starting flirting with me. He was really nice and he said i was the most prettiest girl he's ever met. But thenthe next day he starts texting me all of a sudden sayin hey supp and makeing conversation. So then i got intrested so i told him he said oh well i do want to be with you but we don't see eachother if we start to see eachother more and more then their should be a chance between you and me. But it summer and in one week he's leaving for vacation so how can i show him that we can work even if we don't live near eachother in 7 days? i mean ofcourse he'll want to spend time with me but he probabaly would rather spend time with his other friends for his last week here... and when he comes back thats going to be way too long and i reaally like him...
i can invite hime once out of that 7 days but i don't wanna seem desprate :( what should i do?
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Well, I mean you can wait until he comes back or you can just hang out like 2 days while he's here. If he wants to hang out more he'll tell you... I mean, if he's an outgoing type of guy. But yeahh. Just talk to him a lot. Kbyeee.
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