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This amazing guy
Hey, I'm 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m.
He is the most amazing guy I have ever met. We have been dating for a few weeks, but we have been friends for months before that. We talk on the phone for hours beyond hours every night and he is just simply the most wonderful guy I have ever met =]. But the thing in, when we kiss, we both don't feel anything...at all. We have talked about it and we have made it clear that we both want to kiss each other, but we don't know what's wrong. It seems like we are missing the romantic aspect of a relationship. Everything else in the relationship is completely fine. We talked about how it sounds like we are just friends, but we came to the conclusion that if we were just friends, we would both like each other way too much.
I honestly think that it's somehow my fault that we aren't "feeling anything" when we kiss. Does anybody know how to fix that? I'm crazy about him, but maybe I'm just shy and maybe it's ruining the kiss? At this point I really have no idea.
Thanks for the help =]
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you can not FIX a kiss, if you and that guy were meant to be together, there would be feelin to that kiss... ask yourself, when you say youre CRAZY about him, does it mean you love him or you simply are obsessed with him...do you have that yearning feelin when your not together?... because there is a guy out there that will kiss you with feelin, and think about you every minute...
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hey, well i agree with the dood below. if your just pecking, your not going to feel anything. you need to go into deep making out. get really into it. try sitting on top of him while making out. switch up the hand placements. put your hand on his shoulder, back, or head. run your hand through his hair and play with it. do your best to make it sexy/passionate. also long makeout sessions tend to get more romantic. =]
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If you kiss for a while, things would get heated up. I mean, if it's just a peck, don't expect anything. I never really feel anything with pecks, but when you like get into the whole kissing thing, then maybe you'll feel something. You're obviously feeling something if you want to kiss each other more though. I mean, I understand what you're going through. I kind of had the same problem, but him and I are just best friends again. Hahaha. Well, for now at least. Hahaa.
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