My brothers best friend is 19. I'm 15. He's four years older than me. Ever since I was 10 or 11 my aunts have been bugging me that he likes me and one day were going to fall in love and get married and all this shit. Well, for the past two years I have fell in love with him. He treats me so well and we have so much fun together. Even when my brother isn't around we hang out. I just want to know how I should tell him. I wrote him a 30 page letter about how I feel about him and everything, but I don't know when or how to give it to him. He leaves for college at Penn State in August for his sophmore year of college (I live outside of Philly) and I want to tell him before he goes, should i?
runawayxlove answered Saturday June 30 2007, 7:52 pm: hey, well dont give him that letter. thats just creepy. if any guy gave me a 30 page letter, i would be scared, haha. anyways, hes going away to college. college guys hookup with college girls at partys etc. you might be thinking "oh no, hes not like that", but hunny, every college guy at least hooks up with one girl and im just trying to save you the heartbreak. there is a 1% chance that he got all of his hooking up done in freshman year and that hes mature. if thats him, i still wouldnt give him the letter. i would tell him yourself in person and if all goes well, give him a kiss. goodluck kid =].
TillToniteDoUsPart answered Saturday June 30 2007, 7:18 pm: Okay, please don't send him the 30 page letter. Keep that to yourself. Haha. I mean, what if he doesn't feel the same way back?
Try hanging out with him, and just telling him yourself, it'll make it easier, and stuff. He is 19, and he is goign to college, so try not to go for a relationship right now... Try when he comes back for breaks, and if you don't even want a relationship then good.
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I just think you should tell him yourself, or on the phone, or something along those lines. I just don't think letters turn out to be a good idea afterwards...
Ummm...If you think that you really should give him the letter, then go for it. Try the last day he leaves, just hand it to him...
That way both of you can soak it in, and when he comes back you two can hang out just like before, and you'll know exactly how he feels about you, and if it doesn't go well then you have the rest of the time to get over it. I hope I helped, if this sounds mean or something... I didn't intend on it. I'm sorry if it was. :] [ TillToniteDoUsPart's advice column | Ask TillToniteDoUsPart A Question ]
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