Hi,im a 15 year old girl that thought she never wanted a serious relationship but is now kind of wanting one at the same time >.< Anyway, theres this guy i met through myspace.i played it safe of course,talked to him on aim and the phone and such then i met up with him (with a few of my friends,again playing it safe)and it turns out im starting to get really interested.The only problem is that he works 5 days a week(hes 17 by the way) and can hardly ever hang out and stuff.We still talk alot on aim but id rather be able to get to know him in person.He says he likes me but doesnt really act like it and im so confused i dont know what to do or think especially since i have really low sef esteem so im constantly in doubt ... =/
OhDangImKate answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:51 am: okay so basically you have a "Crush" and trust me, i meet my guys through myspace sometimes. i think that what you need to do is straight out tell him how you feel. its hard but sometimes you just need to gather up the guts.. say something along the lines of
" I know you said that oyu liked me.. but i dont really get that vibe from you. if your feeling have cahnged, would you please just tell me because its kind of bothering me alot." [ OhDangImKate's advice column | Ask OhDangImKate A Question ]
TillToniteDoUsPart answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 1:40 am: So, I'm 15 too, and this almost 18 year old like me. He was so creepy, like you have no idea. I just don't understand why an older guy would date a younger girl. I mean this guy doesn't seem like the average creepy, perverted freak... But you have to watch out because older guys are usually smooth. Just be sure to tell him you're not ready for certain things [if you aren't]. And he's almost going to college too... So... Hahaa... I mean, just don't get too attatched. Try and hang out with him more though. Get to know him a lot. Make sure he's cool.... And stuff. I might be wrong, he might be a beautiful soul. [ TillToniteDoUsPart's advice column | Ask TillToniteDoUsPart A Question ]
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