i go to a small high school and i pretty much know most of the people. me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 3 months ago and i think its time for me to meet new people....but idk how to do this? like you don't just go out on the road and yell when you see a goodlooking guy and i don't wanna seem desperate...so how do i meet new people my age? and i dont know of any underage clubs or anything..
I know soo many people are tired of hearing this,- But be yourself. Try to make friends with a guy you like, or kind of start hanging out with some of your friends' friends. Befriend the guys, and start hanging out with them. ((Or him)) They'll start liking you, and then you start to do a little subtle flirting. ((you can start out that way too)) but make sure its SUBTLE. Don't completely come onto him because usually that does not work out and you don't want to be embarrassed lol. But slowly build up the relationship and maybe ask them ((him)) out somewhere, like the movies or the bowling alley. ((I say start out with the bowling alley)) Hope I helped :]
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I am going to be hanging out with a friend this weekend who I really like and who turns me on. We're both attracted to each other but I want to make a move on him. How do I cross the line without being cheesy and how do I deal with it if he turns me down?
Okay Okay! Something really good to get the hint to him is hug him and don't let go. Kind of like a side-ish hug, but enough to put your head on the inside of his shoulder! Keep saying "i'm not letting go! I'm not letting go!" And then after a little while of doing that, peck him on the cheek. The rest will fall into place :] This worked with my best friend (now my boyfriend) And it's a cute way to get that kiss :] Hope I helped!
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Im 15f. ok there is this guy i have been texting. He likes me and told me he loved me, but i dont trust that easily. he is shy and barely ever talks to me in school, but he will txt me. everyone in school knows he likes me anyways but i think its becuase he is just shy. he told me he bought me a necklace for christmas. i dont know him real well so idk wat to get him. i dont think i want to get him candy so i jus have no idea. can someone please help me with ideas? please give as many as you can!
my grandma always said "when you don't know what to get a man....get him a kick ass t-shirt" ha ha :]
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The man I want to marry wants a prenup. He has been married 2 times before and both of his wifes left him. He says that I dont trust him but doesnt a prenup say that he doesnt trust me to?
I'm going to tell you what my grandmother told me. "Honey, if a man wants you to sign a prenup when you get married, he expects things to fall apart." I believe this, whereas if a man does not want you to sign a prenup, he is marrying you for your love, rather than if he'll keep all his things when you leave.
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I'm 19/f, and I've been dating my boyfriend (also 19) for almost a year.
We recently had a little "break" because we kept fighting and arguing. Now that we're back together, he's starting to drive me crazy again. Only this time, he's being way too clingy. I love him and I appreciate the fact that he's trying to remain close and intimate, but it's gotten to the point to where he whines when I have to go home and he holds me so tight and kisses me all over my face that I can barely breathe. Whenever we're alone he squeezes me and puts up a fight when I try to literally PRY him off. When we're on the phone I'll say I have to go and he'll say "BUT I LOVE YOU" over and over again.
When I tell him he needs to chill and just turn the possessiveness down, he pouts and whines and says he feels rejected, and he gives me huge guilt trips. But I don't even want to have sex anymore- I just want an arms-length of room.
It's making me not look forward to seeing him, because I know he's gonna be RIGHT THERE in my face, he'll even grab my head and turn it so I have to face him when we're watching TV. How do I get this to stop without hurting his *delicate* feelings? PLease help..
Well, personally I think you should appreciate it. Now I'm not saying this is easy, but it's obvious he doesn't want to lose you again. So next time you see him, sit him down and say something like "look, you are being way too clingy. I mean I love you too, but you don't need to be in my face every second of every day. I'm not going anywhere so chill out." Maybe that will do the trick? Hope i helped :]
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Hi 16yr old guy again sorry if i wasnt clear enough i just wanted to know how i can stay hard for a longer period? how can i maintain an erection?
Well it really all depends on what your girl does. if you find something that turns you on, ask your girl to do it. it might be awkward at first, just make sure what you are asking isn't too crazy. this may be weird to say, but if you *cough* ((masturbate)) and or ((watch porn)) and think about it for a long time that can help maintain the erection. you have to find something that turns you on a lot, and get it performed, perform it yourself, or think about it a lot.
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16/male my girlfriend also 16 have had sex twice
and well i didnt last that long my penis went soft after a few minutes and i couldnt get another erection it really embarrassing what can i do?
Well it depends on what you mean by "what can i do" can you clarify before i try to answer?
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so im 16 F, since summer me and this guy C have had a thing. its obvious and everybody can tell. we went to homecoming together and over summer we hung out almost everyday. his friends have said that he says he likes me so much, and i like him. we spent the night together, but didn't do anything but make out. he is the type of guy who falls in love with girls, not just hook up. but he has had a history in the past with hooking up. whenever its me and him and his friends, he is so serious and romantic with me. but whenever its my friends hes never serious and is always kinda flirty to all of them, except me! so yesterday i went to one of his friends houses and we watched a movie. its been a while since we had hung out before the and he was like holding my hand and playing with my bangs the whole time... idk what to do or what to think... any advice? and any idea what hes thinking?
Hm..You have to think. Alot of peple are flirty without knowing. what would you do in a group full of guys?? i mean, not necessarily with him there, but think about it. He may not be trying to hurt you, but he gets a liiiiiiiitle flirty without knowing it. I mean, he's a guy...in a group full of girls...see where i'm heading here? And plus, guys always act different around their girl's friends. as do they when around their friends. he feels more comfortable around his friends. He may be actually trying to peove that he loves you to his friends. ((Guy's friends are always skeptical)
So just wait it out. And if it still makes you uncomfortable..do what I did. Just talk to him about it. Maybe say "Why do you act like that around my friends?" And He'll Say: "Like What?" And Then You Say "Well, You Kind Of FLirt WIth Them." ANd He'll Either Say "I Do?" or "No I Dont" Lolz. But Just Talk To Him Okay? Hope i helped :]
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My girlfriend and i are thinking about having sex were both 16 weve been together for almost 9 months and im worried about my penis size
im not sure if i will be any good and able to please her my penis is about 5.5 inches long is that an ok size?
Its Not About The Size, Its What You Do With It. A Man Could Be 8 inches long and not know what to do with it, and is please your girl. 5.5 i saiy would be fine, but as long as you know what to do with it, you'll be good! if it worries you that much, just try to thrust a little harder ((not too much)) you dont wanna hurt nobody lol. okay? hope i helped :]
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Im 15 a girl my boyfriensd is 15 and weve been together 6 months and hes insecure about his penis size weve only made out he doesnt want to do anything else i told him i love him i dont mind about his size hes almost 5 inches long is that about average for his age?
15? almost 5? Typically normal- but he could also be a late bloomer. and chik, it aint the mans size. he could be 8 inches long but it dont mean a thing unless he knows wut to do with it!! so your guy may be 5 in. but if he knows what do do with it than everythings okay!!
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Ok, i have been talking to this girl since the beginning of the semester this year at college. We met in our english class. I have developed feelings for this girl. We hung out last week and had a really good time. I want to hangout with her again this week. If we hangout do you think that it would be appropriate for me to try and kiss her? Why or why not.
Thank you.
Haha Cheek Kiss-Yes. Mouth Kiss-MAybe((after The Ceek Kiss)) Tongue Kiss-hmmm probably not. when you guys are hanging out sit close to her..then out of nowhere just kiss her on the cheek. she wil be surprised :] and then if she doesnt completely freak out THATS the time you should kiss her on the lips. and MAYBE tongue afterwards. But Dont Get Too Far Cuz Then She Might Think You Are A Jerk. Reason Why You SHould? Your Not Getting Any Younger. :] hehe.
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I like this girl that goes to my sckool and stuff we have alot of classes together we talk and stuff and she invites me to go places with her friends but i always say no because im scared to go somewere with her friends and i want to know if i should go with her or what should i just ask her out pls help me
this can simply be solved in writing :] give her a note asking her out :] Or You Can JUST DO IT!! The Worst Thing She Can Say Is No And If She Does ""Which I Guarantee You She WONT" You Can Drop The Worry! I Mean I Know Asking SOmone Out ISnt Easy..But U ARE NOT GETTING ANY YOUNGER!! Get Her Before Someone Else Does BEcause You WIll REGRET IT!!
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14 yr old girl my boyfriend is 15 weve been together 5 months hes a bit shy weve only made out nothing else a couple of days ago we were making out and i noticed he got an erection he got really embarrassed tried to cover it up i told him its ok but he was embarrassed and he took off i havent seen him in the last 2 days should i say anything about it or just leave it?
Okay, this shouldnt be avoided. Because if it is he will think that you think he's a punk and that you left him. maybe you should call him? you need to let him know that everything is okay and there nothing to be nervous about!! shy people need to be taught to be unshy!! (i used to be shy)) i had no fun lol!! so just assure him that everything is okay! alot of shy guys think they went too far just by getting an erectioN! thats probably what he thinks! he ran off, probably, because he's not used to getting an "E" and he had never felt that way! so get it in his mind that its okay and not to be shy with you! hope i helped :]!! Peaceā„
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So I've been talking to this guy for awhile We hang out every weekend.. we both don't hang out or hook up with anyother guys/girls. And I like him alot... but problem.. He denies likeing me and won't date me... He claims that he can't like/date anyone because he got hurt bad in his past, but people that know him says He's never stuck with one girl for this long and usually he'd at least hook up with other people too so I dont know what to do... Oh and worst of all... I lost my virginity to him. What do I do with him ? Hellllllllp ? please & thank you :)
dude he wouldnt date you and he claims he doesnt like you but u had sex with him??? wtf?? that wasnt really smart at all --not tryna put you down here-- but he's probably one of those sex crazed guys that are into hook-ups and not relationships. he probably can tell that you like him alot and he's probably scared that you expect him to be in a committed realtionship/
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my girlfriend told me that I make her feel like a part time girlfriend or shes a barbie on the shelf and when im done playing with her i put her back and th is isnt true! I have a stressful job and I work 10 hr days so on my 2 days off during the week i stay with her and i work every other weekend but on that sat i work i stay with her saturday night and the weekends im off i stay with her. she gets mad if i wanna leave at like 9pm to visit with my mom whom i still live with. how can i make her not feel like that and what am i doing wrong?
theres only one way to handle this you have to talk to her about it. because if you dont she wont understand anytime soon. the reason she feels like this really is because she wants you all the time and shes afraid you'll leave her. this is why she constantly thinks she's being neglected. but in her mind she knows your schedule, but she just wishes you could spend more time with her!!
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okay so im 14 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me..the thing is i never kissed anyone before and im really nervous and i dont wanna screw it up or do it wrong. please helpp :)
i always had this problem. these things are easily solved by message :D hehe. maybe message him and say.."hey, um. so i kinda think we should kiss" or something liek that. its so much easier by message. when messaging you can "just do it" while in person you have to be all nervous and all nyeh. haha. but by doing this, he'll have it in his mind and he'll keep trying to kiss you even if you dont know it. another methode ((the on i did)) was that i'd hug him alot and play with him and then after a little while, while i was hugging him i'd just kiss him on the cheek. after that he kissed me on the lips :D so hmm..you can try thaat. oooor.....just put your face close to his alot. and after or while your mind will go into that "just do it" state and you'll probably end up kissing him. even if its on the cheek, youll probably surprise him and make him want to kiss you. oh and another thing, he wants to kiss you too. theres no doubt about it. so why don't you make his wish come true? :] oh and dont worry about messing up. its your first kiss. first kisses SHOULD NOT be frenches anyway. and when you do start doing that its not hard at all. "a peach is a peach, a plum is a plum. a kiss isnt a kiss without some tongue" lol. its simple. just stick it in and move it around!!! lol. hope i helped ya out! peace :]
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So I was in this amazing relationship back in July-August and I loved every minute of it. He was an amazing guy that made me happy and I made him happy and everything was perfect in our relationship. Except for the fact that his parents did not like me (mainly his father because he thought I was just using him because I was "too pretty) and his brother who hates me because he thinks I'm a slut. Oh yeah and our classmates don't like us together either. They constantly gossip about me and call me horrible names (mainly girls) because I was dating him. Why did our amazing relationship end you ask? Well because I had enough of the drama and stress that came from our relationship and I ended it and I regretted it ever since. Like to this day I still get butterflies when I pass him in the hallway, in class, etc. I don't know why though :/ I can't stop thinking him either which is weird. I'm zoning out in class because he pops into my head frequently which is crazy right? I'm usually an A student with all AP Classes but lately I've been just out of it :/ So anyone wanna help me out here/give me tips/advice?
you still like him because you werent ready to end the relationship obviously. in all honesty ((not trying to put you down)) but it was stupid to break up with him because of other people...if you still feel such a way about him that probably means that you are in love with him and you just couldnt take the pressure of the outside world against your relationship. it's very understandable tho.
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This summer I spent a month with my brothers friend on vacation, he came along with my family. I had already liked this boy for quite some time and naturally being with him for so long caused me to want him even more. Well the last week of the vacation we hooked up, I mean we got up to third base and all and I usually dont see myself as that kind of person doing the whole hook up thing I just feel kind of dirty I guess. Well about a week after we got back he asked me out and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and I was the happiest girl in the world. Now we've been going out for a month and a half and I've been super happy but he keeps pressuring me to...go back to third base and I know we've had the physical aspect of a relationship familiarized before but I cant help thinking that 1. its too soon in our relationship to get so hot and heavy, 2. he might just want me because I'll give him physical attention and he might not like me as I like him so much and 3. since he already has gotten me to go to third base with him he going to expect it all the time. Anways I'm just really confused, Im 16 and I feel like maybe I'm too young? I'm not sure, any advice or experience that you may have with this would be really helpful! Thank you so much!
well first of all just say something like "look, i know we've done this before but i kinda think we should wait for that again..i was just in the moment" and if he doesnt respect that or breaks up with u then ur just sum booty. buuut if he says "ok" or agrees then he's fine :] some guys are just like that he actually may not be doing it on purpose. he could actually just be really attracted to you :] so just ask him to wait and see how it goes :] hope i helped :]
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15/f
i like this boy who is a swimmer and he is a year older than me and he is really hot but the problem is, we have never once talked before. i'm pretty sure he doesn't even know who i am. i asked him to be my friend on facebook randomly, he goes to my school. he is not very social, and he has a twin brother who i hear is his best friend. sometimes i see him at lunch, he sits a table away from me with an asain boy (also a swimmer), and they barley talk. he is really shy. its really weird, we look at eachother sometimes and make eye contact, but thats all. we've never said hi. the people i sit with at lunch dont know i like him. i really want to say hi and talk to him or something but i dont know if he'll think im weird or something or i don't know. will he? is that weird to do? since we totally dont know eachother? were not in any classes together. i also wanna talk to him on facebook chat or something but i don't know what to say. any ideas? i saw him going into art one time and i'm in art too so i could be like hey i saw you holding a sketchbook, do you like art? but i don't know if that's weird to like randomly say. help please!!! anything will help.
what i do when i want to meet someone is i actually jsut go up to them and say "Hi I'm _____!!" and usually they get freaked out but thats fine. you will see them more often and just say "hi". and then when you think of something like "hey did you go to that football game last week" or something like that go ask him!! little things such as that help generate convos and will get yall as friends. and thennn.....the rest is whatever you make it :] Hope i helped :]
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basically i joined a sixth form college a couple of weeks ago and for the first few days this guy would look and smile at me all the time, would always make an effort to speak with me and seemed geniunely interested in what i had to say, would jokingly tease me all the time and would constantly try and impress me, plus all his friends would always tease him when i was around. then afterwards he just seemed to pay less attention to me, and he suddenly became really shy whenver i tried to speak to him- he's started hanging out in the same group of people as me but i now have to make more of an effort to sepak to him as he is always with other people.
i really like this guy, but now im really unsure as to how he feels about me right now, how should i deal with this???
Well I Think Its CLEAR That He Likes You. Sometimes People feel Confident, And Then All Of A Sudden They break Down Into Shyness. Sometimes People Feel More COnfident Around Certain People. And Since He's Hanging Out With Your Crowd They May HAve Told Him That You Liked Him And Now He's Nervous :] Just Go Old School And Get One Of Your Friends To Ask Him If He Likes You :] You'll Be Surprised of How Effective It Still Is :] Hope I Helped :]
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