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part time girlfriend?
my girlfriend told me that I make her feel like a part time girlfriend or shes a barbie on the shelf and when im done playing with her i put her back and th is isnt true! I have a stressful job and I work 10 hr days so on my 2 days off during the week i stay with her and i work every other weekend but on that sat i work i stay with her saturday night and the weekends im off i stay with her. she gets mad if i wanna leave at like 9pm to visit with my mom whom i still live with. how can i make her not feel like that and what am i doing wrong?
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girls like attention from their boyfriends.im kinda in a relationship like that at the moment and he works all the time and when hes home he just goes to sleep because hes soo exausted.i can understand plus im not a hardout girly girl so i can take it but it does make me feel better when i get text messages from him on his lunch breaks saying sweet things to me.even txt her in another language saying how beautiful she is...like my bf just randomly txted me this.."oi te vez muti boneta" (hes learning spanish and he told me it mean "today you are beautiful"lol yes yes i did think "hang on dont you think im beautiful everyday??" but it was just really sweet. just give her attention in anyway possible not just neglect her till the weekend shell feel like shes unloved.like even go to her house and drop a rose on her car so in the morning when she drives soemwhere shell see it...little things do matter!
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theres only one way to handle this you have to talk to her about it. because if you dont she wont understand anytime soon. the reason she feels like this really is because she wants you all the time and shes afraid you'll leave her. this is why she constantly thinks she's being neglected. but in her mind she knows your schedule, but she just wishes you could spend more time with her!!
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