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There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
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he probably likes you. people only say mean things when they are jealous or not so nice things if they want you =P i do it all the time with hot guys hahha
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wat are some good kind of sad songs..that you can listen to while you broke up with some1 (link)
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so sick - ne-yo
4 minutes - avant
bad day - daniel powter
a whole new world - (from aladin)
our last night - better than ezra
never felt this way - brian mcknight
more than words - frankie j
the point - hidden in plain view
is there no truth in beauty - just surrender
i don't want to know - mario winans
the next time you go - eugene edwards
hope i helped :)
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ok, this friend of mine told me that this girl i really like deosnt like me but a friend of hers said she likes me , but shes afraid to hurt me if she brakes up with me. her friend said i should ask her out but my friend said i shouldnt. should i take the chance and listen to her friend and ask her out or not and listen to her friend? (link)
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take the chance. your going to have to take risks in your life. and if she says no at least you've tried. :)
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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused
sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =] (link)
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i know this isnt answering your question. but if this isn't the first time something has happend like this then he might be bi-polar. you're going to have to talk to him face to face to get him to answer you back though, it seems.
i wish you luck . thats a big problem
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he is always making me uspet even over little things. im really over sensitive so i just leave it alone.
today he told my firend he didnt like the "rules i was giving him and all i asked as these so called "rules" was he didnt smoke or drink and didnt ignore me when friends were over and he goes and tells my best friend he is mad at me cause i asked those "rules" so he lied and told me he was never mad and yells at her. so now she hates me and he is mad at me and im crying my eyese out. i dont know what to do. please help me im crying. :) thanks a lot. (link)
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you probably dont want to, but i think you should dump him. if he cant meet with your few needs then how is he going to love you? i know its harsh but you can find someone who wont do the things you don't want them to and will make a point not to because they care about you enough. and if he's going to lie then you will never be able to trust him anyway
i hope i helped ...cheer up :)
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Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person? (link)
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over the phone is probably the best but it really depends on the person. i prefer breaking up over the phone because your talking face to face but not really so you wont feel as bad. dont EVER let someone else do your dumping for you though. thats the worst thing you could do and dont do it online. either phone or face to face but if you do it in person it will most likely hurt them more
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Ok so i like this girl, but she has a bf and i got her a present a while ago but i couldnt bring it to school since i barely see her...so i wanna hang out with her to give it to her but she told me she shouldnt really hang out with me because she has a bf and she doesnt want him to get mad at her..first of all we wouldnt even hook up cuz she has a bf, he wouldnt find out because he lives 45 minutes away and what difference does it make....so my question is what should i do? (link)
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go to her house and surprise her, its REALLY sweet and she'll be in shock but dont stay long otherwise she'll think that you came over to hang out without her permission(which is rude) but stay long enough to have a short sweet conversation and give her your present. then tell her you'd better go because you don't want her boyfriend to get mad but you'll talk to her later and smile sweetly then leave and see what she does. she might even tell you to stay longer anyway!
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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥ (link)
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keep an eye on what he wears or try to figure out if he likes something you do. then one day go up to him and start talking about it. wait for a day when maybe you see him wearing something that reminds you of something and be like "wow you like that too?" mix it up. make it seem like your interested the first time but dont make it OBVIOUS. and dont act dumb, all of my guy friends tell me its a total turn off
hope i helped
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hey i have a problem, lately i noticed im not happy and high spirited as usual. i mean i have things ive always wanted, I.E.-an awesome boyfriend, pretty good grades, doing well in basketball, a lot of friends. but problem is, im not like...happy or high spirited like i used to be. is there any way to fix that? (link)
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maybe your just getting bored. this has happened to me before. you just have to go out with a whole bunch of friends and do something totally different than you would ever do. it helped me. or maybe throw a big party . that always seems to bring me back to my good mood.
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I've almost been with my gf for 1 year and was wondering what i should do for our 1 year aniversary... thanks (link)
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well you could either go do something fun or romantic. if its for your anniversary maybe you could take her out to eat and bring her a rose or something like that and maybe i pretty bracelet or necklace. if you want to go do something more on the fun side you could go to an amusement park or somewhere different that you both have never been to before.
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This boy that i love...yes for real...we went out about 4 times and the last time he broke up with me because he liked another girl.He doesn't like that same girl anymore but he likes another one. Anyways, we still talk a lot like we're very good friends. But he found out that I kinda liked one of his friends and ever since he found out all he says to me is about me liking his friend. It's getting annoying like we talked 3 times yesterday and all he said was " oohh you like *****.." "I saw you around **** sittin with him i saw you.." "i know you want *****" and i dont know why that's all he ever talks about now. I asked a couple of friends and they think he's just jealous. Do any of you guys know why he does this?? If you need any more information just write it in the answer and I'll tell you. THANKKK YOUU (link)
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he's definitely jealous. give him a little more attention and make him see that there isn't anything to be jealous about.
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I really want to find the right guy (link)
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im terribly sorry. you're a very strong person.
keep hangin on. don't change yourself to fit what other's want. if you keep yourself available the right guy will come to you. ignore the rumors because when that guy does come he was obviously ignoring them as well.
stay strong :)
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i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do? (link)
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talk back! omggosh. this is the perfect opportunity for you. don't waste it. go with the flow. find something you have in common so that you will have something to talk about if he does talk to you.
also, you should ask him. boys don't know what your thinking. they have no idea. you just have to come out and say it. but don't get pms-y and don't make yourself sound pathetic. be confident and flirty. and make sure you look good when your around him. guys most of the time don't even notice if you are wearing make-up! but do what you think you need to to get his attention at the game.
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I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
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you should say yes to them and go with the flow. if you're worried about what your parents think then you may have to do some lieing. but most of the time it will be totally worth it. honesty is the best policy, but when your a teen its basically your job to do crazy things and test the world around you to see how far you can go and get away with things.
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Hey everyone. Just a heads up, this might be somewhat long! Ok, well me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) started going out on 10/12/04. Well, on 8/11/05 he broke up with me. Didn't give me reasons, out of the blue, and i said w/e and went on with my life. I had feeligns for him still and we stopeed talking. He went out with this girl named Linden, i got mad and went with a boy named Tyler, and both couples broke up in about a month. Well, near the end of October, me and my ex-boyfriend started getting cool again and we became more of friends with benefits. Suddenly, my 1st friend decided to stab me in the back and go and flirt with him and make out with him in my face, so me and my ex stopped talking again. Well, then we started talking again around the end of December and go real good again, friends with benefits and all that stuff, then a second friend did the same thing pretty much the first one did. Now shes telling me, he never liked me, he wants to get with her, and we broke upa while ago so get over him, and yea... so now i dont talk 2 her and my ex is mad at me for not talking to her. Well, i guess my question is, what should i say to him or how should i handle this situation? it really is none of his business, but i still have strong feelings for him. The second question i have is that I get mad when he flirts with other girls, and he gets mad at me when i flirt with other guys. So, that means he still has feelings for me to right?!? Some of this may be obvious to you, but my ex doesnt like to share feelings, thats why i am not sure. thanks a lot, 1 for answering, and 2 for reading it all!!! (link)
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if he gets jealous just like you then he must like you. thats the good thing, and your friends obviously were bitches, plain and simple, if they would do that to you. i think you should tell him how you feel. you have nothing to lose, because you seem to stop talking and then talk again so you dont have to worry about never talking again. if he keeps coming back to you then there must be a connection. hope i helped
ps. it wasnt too long to read =P haha
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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something? (link)
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girls like guys that are gentlemen and know how to treat a girl right, but at the same time they have to be exciting, funny, daring, outgoing, etc.
maybe you should try to be more outgoing and "against the system" if you know what i mean. rebel. haha thats what we like =P
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What age do you think is the best for having a first boyfriend? :)
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my first boyfriend was in 5th grade. it depends on if you like the person or not. i mean, my first relationship lasted 1 1/2 years. you can have a first boyfriend at any age :)
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me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do? (link)
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its your choice to do it or not. he cant make you. but if i were you i would. even if you don't like him, a little practice never hurt anyone =P
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Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...) (link)
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if i were you i wouldn't rush into anything. you two are young still and you haven't even been going out for a whole year. make sure he wasnt joking about getting married. he probably wasn't if you feel that he probably will by the way he said it, it isn't something to joke about. but if he's the kind of person that would do something like that..
i dont doubt the fact that you two are in love but he is almost out of highschool. you still have a few more years. but you have to take in the fact that you may meet someone you love a bajillion times more when you go to college or in your senior year. i'm not sure marriage would be the best thing to do at your age and for the time you've been going out
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Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean i'm probably sending mixed signals or something but how do I get him to make a move? (link)
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i think that you should make the first move. he might not feel that you want to make a move but it seems like he likes you so he probably DOES want to do something. either that or he's waiting for the perfect time.. valentines day is coming up, ya know!
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