Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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16/f
Me and my bf have been together for a while and we would like to have sex soon...and that's where the story starts...
A year ago,we were in a relationship for 8 months...but then he let me down and I was really dying inside but I didn't let it show.it's a long story really.Now,a year has passed and the old flame has started burning,for both him and me...he really changed and is treating me right...but because I was hurting the way I did,I always think he doesn't love me and wants to use me...even though he never tried anything without my permission...I love him a lot and I wanna give in to my desire but I'm so afraid of him leaving me when he gets what he wants.We have talked about this a lot and he told me a million times he's not like that (which I believe because he had a lot of chances which he didn't take because he knew I'd be hurt by his actions)but still I can't get myself to trust him,but I know I love him.I'm scared of being hurt.Why am I feeling like this? (link)
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Hello, the way you are feeling is totally expected and understandable, you have every right to be slightly paranoid because he gave you a reason to make you think that way unfortunately. So now in your brain it is hard wired to associate those negative feelings he made you feel with him. The good thing is that you are discussing it with him so that he will know why exactly it is that you are slightly afraid to have sex with him, so he knows how upset he made you. I think by you discussing this with him he can understand just how upset his actions made you and if he cares enough about you he will know not to do it again as to salvage your feelings. I have been in this situation before in which it took me a long time to trust my current boyfriend of 1 year to not leave me or hurt me but eventually after time passed he showed me that I had nothing to worry about through his actions and the way he cared for me. I honestly think It will take time for you to be comfortable and trust him again because even though what he did happened in the past it still stuck with you because it hurt you so much. My advice would be to wait it out until you feel comfortable with him and begin to trust him again before you have sex, because it is going to take some time. Another route would be if you feel like he has showed you enough to where you believe he loves you with all his heart and wouldn't dare hurt you again, you should give him a chance and have sex with him, if he seems worthy enough you should because everyone deserves a second chance when they have proved that they have learned their lesson at least. Having sex with him might even strengthen your relationship, because first of all it would bring you closer physically and emotionally, and after you guys have sex when you are still together and he hasn't hurt you it will take all those negative thoughts of him just using you away. You can go with any route I discussed, just do what feels right for you and whatever makes you happy and comfortable. I hope this helped, and if you need any further advice on any of the routes you chose to take or what to do after you have made your decision please don't hesitate to contact me :)..Good luck with everything I'm sure everything will work out for the best!
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I was just wondering, what do you think about girls that are taller than their boyfriends? Do they look ridiculous?...I'm not sure what to believe and this problem pretty much affects my love/dating life as it wasn't only once when i've never given guys s thought for being shorter than me. I'm 5'9" (aka 175cm ).
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Hello, honestly height should not be something you are worried about when choosing a mate. This occurence of people thinking that its weird for a girl to be taller than their male counterpart is just a socially created stigma. Unfortunatley a stigma that effects a woman and even a mans choice in a mate, this only serves to limit the options for men and women to find their significant other. You dont want this to be the determing factor in choosing a mate, you could be missing out on a great guy due to this. The worse that could happen is the two of you may get a few stares every now and then from people but that isnt so bad, as long as you are happy, what people think does not matter at all....make your happiness a priority, if you find a shorter guy that meets or even exceeds your standards you should go for it, but if you feel being stared at a few times by the public will make you uncomfortable then try to find a guy your height or taller because I know social pre;ssures can cause you to be just as unhappy..do whatever makes you comfortable and content. I hope this helped, if you need further advice I would be happy to help..goodluck with everything you will find the right guy..he's out there :)
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hey guys, so i haven't been on this site in a while, but i would really appreciate the help.
i'm 17/f and enjoying life right now.
about 7 monthhs ago, right before my birthday, new job, license..etc. my boyfriend/ex (of a a year and ahalff) broke up with me. it was a horrible break up, and we've talked on and off, but now its horrible. he hates me so much, and never wants to speak to me again because i called him out. he lied to all of his friends and i told him he doesn't have to , to be accepted. he now hates me. the past 7 months have been so bad, i would hate myself, and not think i was good enough.
but now i'm almost there, almost over him and the whole thing. there's this new guy ( not really tho because he was my first kiss in 7thh grade and boyfriend, etc.) i honestly don't know where this is going, but i don't know what to do. has anyone ever felt confused about what to do, which direction to go? i think i just need a slap in a face from someone who's been there and who knows what'll happen. i just wanna have hope.
thanks! (sorrya bout the novel i just wrote) (link)
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Hello, firstly please dont hate yourself, there is no need too, I honestly beleive you did the right thing by calling your ex out. You werent doing it to hurt him you were just saying what you felt. I know it can be hard to have someone that you were so close to at one point hate you but unfortunaltey it happens. I know exactly where you are coming from, I have had a few guys in my life that I was rather close to be very hurtful to me just for something I said that unintnetionally made them upset.Its a real bummer to loose someone that way but hey there is really nothing you can do now. You just move forward with your life and try your best to forget about them because obviously they dont want you in there lives anymore. Your ex seems very immature for treating you this way, he was not the guy for you..this immaturity would have shown up further along in your relationship if you guys were still together eventually, so it was probably for the best that you guys broke up.
As for the new guy, if you are still trying to get over your ex you could just keep the relationship you have with him at a friend level.You have been through alot and maybe you arent ready to be involved in a relationship yet. However, if you feel like you may be ready to dive back into the dating seen, this guy might be a good distraction for you to get over your ex. If this new guy seems like he has potential to be a start to something great then you should go for it. Go with your gut feeling, if you feel you are ready go for it, if you dont then continue to be friends, there will probably be no one on this site that could tell you exactly what would happen based on the decision you choose because life can be very unpredictable. But if you go with your gut everything is sure to work itself out eventually.I really hope this helped, if you have any idea what decision you are leaning toward you can leave me a private message and I could give you further advice if you so need it. Goodluck with everything, im sure you will make the right decision for yourself :)
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Hello 14 f PLEASE ANSWER SOON...its really important nd i dont have much time :/
Well tomorrow I might be seeing my ex, and this ex made me miserable a traumatizing experience for me. Now he's always at my towns city pool every day in the summer..im going there with my cousins, my aunt and my grandmother. Every time I go, with my best friend or anyone I get so nervous and sick to my stomach because I have bad memories there. How should I face him, because I really despise this guy, he doesn't like me much..so I don't know what to do..sense my boy friend won't be with me. My friend says to show off what he's missing. hahah >.> Seriously though what should i do? please reply soon..i only have today.. (link)
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Hello, I honestly think your friends advice was right, I think you should deifnitley flaunt and show off what he is missing... a guy always wants what he cant have:)..I think thatis as far as you should go though.If you have such negative feelings toward him and he emotionally hurt you I dont think you should give him the time of day. I suggest no eye contact and there is no need to approach or talk to him because there is not much to say. He is in the past and should stay there, talking to him will only bring up those bad memories even more and upset you. If he comes up to you,which he may not since you metnioned that he doesnt like you much. But if he does you should be very short with him and not engage in conversation with him, because really the only thing you probably want to hear from him is an apology for hurting you as to gain some sort of closure. However, if there is no apology, there is no need to talk to him, just try to pretend like he is not there and enjoy your family, he is no longer apart of your life and it should stay that way. You dont want someone who brings negativity to your life, it will only bring you down. So try to forget about him and enjoy your day at the pool. Hope this helped, if you have any specific questions you can send me a private message if you would like, goodluck with everything!..Everything will turn out fine, no worries :)
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when i see a hot guy my mouth waters. why is this? is it normal? lol. (link)
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Hello, I would say that this reaction you are having when you see a hot guy is fairly normal. I say this because everyone is chemically and phsyically wired differently, this is simply your body's physiological response to extreme attraction to a guy. Maybe this is occuring because when you see a hot guy, you are unconcsiously thinking of kissing him causing your mouth to water in preperation for this kiss...just a thought. All in all, your body is simply releasing certain chemicals that allow for this mouth watering sensation when you get visually stimulated by an attractive guy.I actually think this occurence is pretty cool because it is rather uncommon. You have nothing to worry about :). Hope this helped and if you have any further questions you can send me a private message if you would like! :)
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what will happen if i masterbate with a water jet. i am from the united kingdom (link)
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Hello well firstly it is totally normal to masterbate fairly often because everyone has different sexual drives and needs. You in particular may be a very sexual person. I would also like to state that I myself in my younger years found that I masterbated a very large amount, mainly because I was a very sexual person and had alot of time on my hands. Masterbation is a wonderful thing, it gives you the all the pleasure without having to worry about certain consequences having sex would cause- such as; STD's and pregnancy. However, I did notice as I continued to masterbate often I found that I wanted to try a number of different ways, because masterbeating in the same way can get dull and monotonous. In regards to water jets, it indeed feels pleasureable due to the large amount of pressure. However, this large amount of pressure can also turn into a negative, the pressure from the water jet can slowly tear through the skin of your clitoris after contitnuous use, if you do it a few times a year the pressure wont effect your clitoris. However, once you start it can be hard to stop due to the pleasureful feeling it provides. All in all, I suggest that the water jet should not be used unless there is an option for you to lower the pressure of the water. I hope this helped.If you have any further questions or would like different ideas for masterbation techniques you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help. Goodluck with everything! :)
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Im almost 19, and saturday my boyfriend broke up with me. He's 20 and honestly he was my first love. I dont know what to do, we were both crying so much, and he kept saying how much he still cares about me, and how he just does'nt want to be in a relationship, at all right now, and that he could be making a huge mistake, but he just does'nt know. but that he just needs time, that he wants to still talk to me, and hang out with me. I am so lost. it hurts so bad, but im just going to wait it out and see what happens.
but can you guys help me out, what can i do to make him want to work this out again? to make him miss me so much??? please help out with any advice.
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Hello,well first off I want to tell you that I understand how hurt you must be, i hurts to lose your first love and be cinfused and upset. i Know it is hard to get through this and may feel rather empty not being with him but everything happens for reason rather its godo or bad. You should try to savor the fact that he still care for you and wants to soend time with you. He obviously wants time apart for a reason..once you know that reason you fel soo much better. You should talk to him about this because it will tear you apart. You have to respect his decision in not wanting to be in a relationship and hng on to that fact that he would still like to have that relationship with you without the seriousness of it all. He may be going through something and doesnt want what he is going through to effect your relationship. I think you should definitley give him his space and let him come around. Remember those who really care for you will stick aroundand you wont have to worryabout looing them completley.You cant make someone miss you but you can however not give them as uch attention as before and give them the space that they need to get things together. If things are meant to be then the two of you will end up together,however I am sure things will workout for the best,just try to keep yourself busy so you wont be focused on the fact that you two arent together anymore beause it will only serve to make things worse. I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) :)
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My name is mark i am 29 and my girl is 26 and i am a freak in bed and i dont think my girl can handle all of this because i want to have sex at least everyday or every other day even 3 days its not just about me i make sure i please her rather its oral or what ever but she does not do the same for me what should i do??????? A man in need of passion in the deep abyess of her soul!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Hello,well as you know everyone is different when it comes to step..as you say you are a freak in bed and you put it all out there..thats your style.On the other hand your gf is juat not the same as you are when it comes to sex but likes to be pleasured by you..In any relationship communication is important so you shoukd discuss this with her if you arent feeling satisfied in bed.Sex is an important factor in a relationship especially when u have been together for a long time it is best that both partners are satisfied when it comes to intimacy.Dont be shy to bring this up because if you feel a certain way then your partnr should know and she should understand,the both of you ca come up with an equally pleasing compromise which should helps this situation overall.I hope this helped and the best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) ;)
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17, guy, no gf for 4 years
Ok this is an unsual one but the girl i once liked.. her BF just cheated on her about 5 days ago i finnaly got over her after realising shes kinda annoying and not really my type (I started liking her randomly for no reason and i didnt know her, then i got to know her and regretted it a bit) anyways just in case i start liking her again (which will probably happen kus im a lonley bastard) how do i stop those feelings? i dont know her enough anyways and our "friendsip" hasnt really happend even though i tried thankas for ya answers (link)
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Hello,well in my opinion I doubt if you actually have real feelings for her especially since you clearly stated that she is not your type and kind of annoying. Everyone has thier faults but when it comes to someone not being your type completley then those feelings arent true.I beleive those feelings you are having are feelings of lonliness and this makes you think that you have feelings for her. She is probably the closest girl for you to even thunk about having feelings for since you havent met anyone new.I think you should try to change your your irrational thinking..by you calling yourself a "lonley bastard" it puts you down in a way and is self defeating thinking..this can hinder you from meeting that special girl.I think once you try to change your thinking to a more positive outlook things will start looking up for you.However,I totally understand yoir feelings it can be really frustrating not having anyone for a long time but remeber your time will come.Im sure you are a speacial guy with tons to offer..you just have to wait it out to find that one for you so think positive and keep busy!!I hope this helped and I wish you the best
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:):)
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Hi!
Why do people think you need to ask someone or be asked "Do you want to go out with me?" or "Will you go out with me?" Can you just start going out with someone, or is it not official if you don't or are not asked? My ex-boyfriend and I decided that we were just going out, but I've heard that you can't go out unless someone asks or you ask someone, is that true?
Oh, and is saying "I really like you" the same as asking someone out? Or is it when both you and the person you're dating think your going out?
I'm sorry this is kind of confusing.
Thank you very much.
13/f
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Hello,you should never assume you are just going out with somoeone unless the feelings are mutual,because someone can say they really like you and you might not like them as much and you dont want to be in a relationship with them. A relationship is a serious step and if you want to be in one then both you and your partner should feel the same way. If you are unable to portray these emotions of wanting to be in a relationship to your partner then maybe you arent ready to be in a relationship because communication is important. Usually when it comes to a realtionship someone asks or the two of you sit down and have a heart to heart conversation about the way you feel for eachother and if it feels right then you can be in that relationship.But remember you dont want to be in a relationship with just anyone so just take your time and find that right person because a relationship is a big step and you dont want to waist it on just anyone...I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would love to be of aid to you.If I was not detailed enough or you want more information on this topic you can always send me a private message and I will get back to you as soon as possible..The best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Okay there's this guy that I've been talking to since August of 2008.... I'm blk and 21 yrs old, he's whte and 31 (if it helps any). He has a son by a woman who cheated on him with his best friend which he was engaged to at the time (so if he dosen't really tust women I understand).
Anyhow I have to admit we're pretty close now... we've gotten closer I would say since New Year's... we've been on a few dates, and what not and overall you can tell there's a vibe between us and it seems as if we've known eachother for years. I'm proud to say we've taken things really slow until recently...
Well just this past saturday we both went to a party together where we FINALLY shared our first kiss and then we went and got a hotel together and had a "night cap" (yes with the happy ending)... I can honestly say I love him... and I know he cares alot about me... and nothing is awkard between us even though it happened...
So I was wondering what could be done to get us to that next level... I'm ready if he ready, but we still both two shy and stubborn people... any ideas?
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Hello well you guys have been talking for quite sometime and seem to care for eachother alot. Remember communication in any relationship is important and I know its so hard for a girl to wait for the guy to make the decision to go to the next level,it gets kind of frustrating but you know with his past and everything it will be alittle difficult to take this next step with you because he has been hurt in the past and ofcourse doesnt want it to happen again. It is always good to take things slow and as of now you can continue to show that you will be there for him and,that you are truthful,and that you care for him through words and action. If you are really ready for this next level with him then you should go for it,wait for the right moment though, a special moment and just open up to him and tell him how you feel,guys find comfort in a girl that is willing to be open and honest with them. As you may know guys are not one for commitment but its worth a shot,if he is not ready you can always wait it out and see where things take you,everything happens for a reason and if it is meant to be then you two will go to that next level. i see you say that you are shy but I am sure you are pretty comfortable with him so you will find the right way to bring it up,he wont judge you especially if he cares for you as it seems he does,dont worry!I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would be more than hapy to help you,you can send a private message if you would like me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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My boyfriend and I haven't been together long but we were very close friends before we became a couple. We met just after I split up with my ex, who I was very upset about and took a long time to get over. I liked my current boyfriend for a long time although I still wasn't over my ex. When we finally got together, I was really happy and I can safely say that I no longer have any feelings towards my ex.
My current boyfriend and I both have alot of problems at home and always look to each other for support. However, recently I find that all I want is some stability, not a boyfriend who has just as many issues as me. We always have some form of problem with each other and I'm constantly finding faults in him. I worry that I'm only with him because I don't want to be on my own. I love him and he is like my best friend but I can't continue to do this all the time.
I really am at a loss as to what to do. I don't want to break up with him, but deep down I keep thinking I have to. I'm considering asking him for a break from each other, so we can both think about our real feelings but I'm worried that will cause more problems. What should I do? (link)
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Hello well in life we all have obstacles and issues to go through in life.Sometimes the hardest decisions are the best decisions we can make. I personally think you should go with your instinct and do what is best for you. if you feel like you are going through too much and your boyfriend constantly makes it worse then in my opinion a break would be the best idea.Communication is key in any relationship so you should definitley tell him how you feel truly,I am sure he doesnt know he is making you feel this way. What you are feeling is totally understandable when humans go through hard times at home or through any issue they want to know that they have someone there for them and have some sort of security and stability. Once you open up with him and tell him how you honestly feel about this situation the two of you will come to a decision that is best for the both of you. A break is always good just to help to organize your thoughts and feelings. During the break you guys dont have to stop talking or anything,you can still be there for eachother because after all thats what you really want and need. I am sure he cares for you deeply and wouldnt mind being there for you when you need him,remember every relationship has its ups and downs but sooner or later everything will settle down for the best.Remember you are the main person to be worried about,how you feel and what you think is best is very important because if you arent happy then things wont go as they should,so all in all you should do what is best for you at this time and things will happen as they should,everything happens for a reason and everything will be just fine. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions or would like me to be more detailed you can send me a private message at any time I would be happy to help,the best of luck to you!:)
SINCERLT,DIAMOND:)
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okay so me and my boyfriend of 6 months live about 20-30 mins away from each other and he doesn't really seem to care as much when we're apart..like he says he'll call and he never does and im usually always the one that has to text him.. but like when we're together he'll just like look into my eyes for the longest time with that look on his face that makes me just wanna melt...i just dont know what to do =/ ive talked to him about it and he said to just text him whenever i wanna talk, but he doesn't understand the point...any advice?
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Hello,I think this relationship is fairly normal simply because oyu guys have been together for quite sometime. He is use to you texting or calling him first so he feels there is no need to c hange things around.Guys like to pretty much stay the same and if they dont see aproblem then they most likely wont change. I am pretty sure he doesnt know this is bothering you so my advice,if you really want things to change, is to confront him and tell him how you fell,that you feel like you arent getting enough attention from him that you feel you should. Communication is vital in any realtionship and if you go on likt this without telling him,he will never know and you wont get the attention you deserve. Every girl should be treated the best by there boyfriend and you should be treated how you deserve because you are special. So just talk to him about it and see how things go..a huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders once you do and you finally get the attention you want and deserve..go for it.I hope this helped and the best of luck to you..If you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic for that matter.you can send me a private message..:).p.s.Dont worry about the outcome because if he really cares for you he will be willing to change for you to make you happy so dont worry !!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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I was wondering when a guy asks somebody to be his girlfriend do the ladies still give you a yes or no answer or do you just automaticly assume that you are together or are you just suppose to know or how does it work now? (link)
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Hello,well a relationship is a big step but most take relationships for granted.I advise you to get to know the girl fairly well and be friends with her before you even think about taking that step to be in a relationship. Once you get to know eachother you will know how the girl feels about the situatuion between you two.Usually girls are upfront about if they want to be in a relaitonship or not.if you ask it usually is either simply a yes or no more or less because after all what girl would say yes to be in a relationship if they didnt want to.You should never automatically assume you are in a realtionship you have to see how the other person stands in this situation.Communication is important so it is vital that the both of your feelings are mutual and if you cant sit down and communicate about being in a relaitonship then maybe you arent ready to be in a relaitonship with that person.Whoever this girl is you should talk to her about how you feel if you want to be in a relationship with her and see how she feels,its the only solution :).I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck.If oyu have any further questions or would like me to be more detailed you can send me another message,I would be happy to help :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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i just wanted to know how do girls cum? like how do you see it? can it stay inside the girls vagina, or does it have to fluid out of it?? i don't really get it.. i don't really know when i cum either? how do i know when i do cum...how does it look or feel? what color is it, is it white like boys or is like white-ish clear..? im still lost.. can you explain to me the whole thing please. (link)
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Hello,well when a girl is aroused she automatically secrets fluid,this is through out the sexual process whether you are just touching her and or having sex with her. The fluid usually remains in the vagina however,some girls squirt the fluid out from their vagina when they orgasm. Females vaginal secretions are usually a clear sticky solution,almost like saliva...so you will produce "cum" throught the sexual process and when you are aroused but you usually secrete more cum(vagianl secretion) when you reach orgasm,sn orgasm is hard to explain though it is an extreme feeling of pleasure in which your vagianl muscles contract..when a female reaches orgasm they react in different ways but when you reach orgasm you will know the feeling and never forget it :).I hope this helped and if you have any further questions on this topic,such as how to reach orgasm or just for me to be more detailed you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help you :)I wish you the best of luck!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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So me and this guy like eachother I have a feeling he will ask me out on valentines day because he already recently tried but i said i wouldnt just yet. My best friend absolutely doesnt like him for me whatsoever. Shes told me soo many times that she doesnt want us together because hes not right for me and ill get hurt and etc. I listened to what she had to say, considered her advice, but im going to do what i want to do in the end. So lately i have been keeping her out of the loop, i didnt tell her that he told me he likes me or that i told him the same thing. I havnt told her about our conversations or him trying to ask me out or anything happening. One time we talked about if me and him went out and she said shed have to see it to believe me. So i kind of want to surprise her one day, like in school all of a sudden she will just see us together. It will be unexpected and a little shocking considering all the information she hasnt been hearing. She wont be happy and im thinking she will even talk to me less or give me those looks like rolling her eyes. Only thing is..other people might find out before she does because if they see us in the halls and I dont have any classes with her, So shed be even more upset if other people knew before she did. Should i surprise her or does this not sound like a good idea ? (link)
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Hello,well comunication in any relationship whether with a friend or with a guy is very importatnt. I am sure your bestfriend is very important to you and she already doesnt want you to be with the guy so if she finds out you are with him,others find out before her,and realize all the information you have been witholding from her then she will be extremely hurt. I am sure you in no way want to hurt your friend right,she was after all just trying to give you advice and help you..she thinks he is horrible for you so that will be a suprise enough,if you are willing to lose her over a guy then you can do that but if you care for her and you two are real,true best friends then you should do nothing of the sort. You should just tell her how you feel and try ti convety to her that you are making the best decison for yourself,if she cant accapt this then maybe she isnt the best friend you thought she was. You know what is best for you and what will make you happy so go with what you want just because she thinks he is horrible doesnt mean you should, I mean she hasnt had the conversations you two have and she just doesnt know him like you know him. I am sure you will make the right decsion just follow your heart:I hope this helped,if you have any further questions I would me more than happy to help,hust send me a private message.I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Hi
I need some romantic idea specially for valentine day for longdistance relationship and also some tips on lingerie
I am 25 and my sweetheart is 31 and he loves football
Any tips or ideas ..pls
thx :) (link)
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Hello,well guys love surprises and they lvoe when you notice there interests and use it to there advantage.Tips on lingerie,I think you should dress up like a sexy referee or a football cheerleader that way it can be three in one lol,he wil have the girl he loves,the sport he loves,and the sexual/visual pleasure all in one.What more could a guy want lol.Especially since you guys dont see eachother alot a suprise like that would be special and I am sure he will enjoy it.I hope this helpee,if you have any further questions on this topic or want more ideas you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to help:).The best of luck to you and I am sure you will have a beautiful and fun valentines day!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Ok so i recently had sex with a jerk who i don't talk to anymore now i am still sort of interested in my very first love he goes to high school with me but is a freshmen because he failed but he has always been thier for me and did love me at one time i would like to have him back in my life but of course he has new girls and has moved on also so should i send him a myspace message because i don't have his cell anymore and tell him how i feel and see if we could rekindle what we had or should i not and just let it be (link)
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Hello,Absolutley I think you should send him a message to tell him exact;y how you feel,after all he will never know how you feel until you tell him,you guys had strong feelings for eachother previously so most likely those feelings still there but maybe in a smal amount. You never know what could happen,its always worth a shot especially when it is something you really want.You should always try just to see the outsome because later in you may end uo wondering what if I would have sent him that message what would have happened, It eases your mind alittle when you let someone know how you feel and let them do with it what they will. You guys could end up together or just good friends. Make sure you explain exactly how you feel so he will have a good idea of how you feel exactly.Communication is key in any relationshiup and if you cant explain your feelings to him now then you probably wont be able to when you get back into a relaionship,so just be open and honest in the message and I'm sure you will have a good outcome,if he is the right one for you then it will happen but if not you just move on and find someone that really wants to be with you and treat you like the beautiful young lady that you are,you deserve the best never forget that.I hope this helpe and I wish you the best of luck,if you have anymore questions or need advice on this topic or any other topic dont hesitate to contact me,just send a private message and I would be happy to help!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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how does someone get a g/f? how doesone keep a g/f? how is one supposed to act with a g/f? how is a g/f supposed to act with a b/f? what are some signs to look for that will tell you if she is flirting with you? (link)
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Hello,well as you may know there ae no specific rules for keeping,getting,and keeping and gf/bf if it was that way eeryone would be in great relationships,however, this is the total opposite because alot of relationships run short,people change and things can just go wrong. You shouldnt just want to be in a realtionship with anyone,relationships should be special and you should know the person fairly well before getting into relationship. Jumping and rushing into a relationship is one of the worst things you can do and usually leads to a very short relationship. I am sure you are fairly young and you dont have to worry about being in a realtionship as much because you are going to have tons of experiences with this.Until you get about 16 to 18 you dont usually have a real relationship because most in middle school and highschool just because they are pressured to and it is the norm.But a real relationship is about communication,having a connection,respect,giving your all to that person and knowing that they will be there for you no matter what,it built on trust and honesty,you spend time with that person and no them very well in everyway.You have to be a mature person to have a good relationship in order to share and open your heart to another. Well since you dont want just any gf,you will know which one you might potentialy might want to get to know and be in a relationship with,all you have to do is get to know a girl that you are interested in and be yourself and see where things go.When it comes to being in a relationship you either want to be with them or not there is no way to act specifically,you just have to be yourself and be comfortable with that person and everything will be pretty good.When you are in a relationship you have to show that person that you care,through words and actions,you spend time with that person and you should always be there to listen to them.Make sure you have good communication in a relationship because this is the most important, if you cant convey the way you feel,what you like and dont like,and cant be open with that person then the relationship wont work as well. You can tell if someone is flirting you simply by the way they look at you,It is a certain look that shows that they are intersted,when you guys talk or even when she just glances at you. Some people give diffrent signs that they are intrested,some are mean some are very nice and give compliments.You will know if they are interested or not,if there behavior becomes a pattern then you will know that they are flirting.I hope this helped and I wish you the very best,if you have any further questions on this topic you can always end another message,you can always update me on the situations and I can help you further in any way,dont hesitate to contact me!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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should there be a certain age difference between a b/f and g/f? (link)
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Hello,well as you know girls mature faster than boys so if you are thinkg of dating someone younger than you I dont think it is ideal but you do find love in the oddest of places,love takes no shape or form so if you have a special connection with someone than I dont think age should matter.The only way I thinka ge might really matter is if you are youngr than 18 and dating someone older than 18, I only say this because legal issue come into play and the guy could get in serious truoble. Think about it this way if the guy is too old and you know you would have to sneak aroundwith him that wouldnt be as fun because you wouldnt get the great experirnce of actually spending time with them,having fun and getting to know them. I hope this helped alittle but if I knew both of your ages I could help you even more and be more specific if you would like that.The best of luck to you and you should go with what you fel is right and what is the best decision for you,Your happiness is very important:). If you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be more than happy to help you dont hesitate to contact me:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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