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Q: my bf is being weird!! up until very recently he was always talking to me and stuff but all of the sudden he isnt talking to me very much and doesnt seem interested. Sunday was only our 2nd month! we have been best friends for a couple yrs and liked each other on and off the whole time. we love each other very much but idk what to do about this. also i really need to talk to him! so what should i do?? thanks
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omg.. i had the same problem, and honestly i dont really know what to do.. but just chill out and give him time, the last time my bf was being like that he was just stressed out going through alot for school and such.. so just chill out and if things dont get better in about a week, talk to him about it.
hope i helpedd.
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Q: i love my bf 2 death bit i dont like kissing him is that wierd? like bein around him i get butterflys but kissing him its like eh nuthing. is it bad that i told him this? and duz this mean i dont reely like him?
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well you shoudlnt have told him that haha. now he probably thinks that he's a bad kisser.
but this doesnt mean that you dont like him. you're just a little shy when it comes to doing physical things.. just loosen up around him more. you'll get used to it.
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Q: I like my best guy friend. He doesn't know it. But I get extremely jealous when he spends time with this one girl. I don't care if he spends time with girls, there's just this certain girl I'm worried about. I KNOW they're just friends, and that he for sure doesn't like her, but why do I get so jealous? I cry myself to sleep every night they hang out/talk. I know I can't control him, he's not mine. We've talked about it, he knows I don't like her, etc. Whenever they talk/hang out I never get mad I just get seriously depressed, I can cry for up to 2 hours. What is wrong with me? I think I just don't understand why he's spending time with her, and not me, but I'm not sure. Is there any tips you guys can give me about how to calm down when I get jealous? Thanks.
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write about it.. or just tell him how u feel.. i mean he IS ur b/f n he should understand.
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Q: ok. i dont get anymore. im in love with this guy, and he said he was in love with me. so i thought everything was going to turn out happily ever after. but i was wrong. we havent been getting along lately. and yet i dont know i keep remembering how we use to be soo in love. soo everytime i think of the old times, no matter how mad i am at him, i think of it and i begin to get over it and think he is still in love with me. so its ok..for like..10 minutes then we just get in a argument and everythign turns horrible. no matter how many times he says he loves me, i cant believe it anymore, but yet i tell him i love him back cause i really do. i just dont know what to do about the arguements without having to like..break up anything between us. i still want us to work out. i just need some advice to keep it working out. help please =(
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♥ Well it should work out on its own.. the more you try to fix it the worse it'll be.. just let it fix itself
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Q: Okay, first of all, I am aware that Christmas is already over. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 weeks, but 5 months before...last february to june...I love him so much. I still haven't gotten his present for Christmas cuz I am so busy, and he understands that. He told me I didn't need to get him anything, but I want to. I want to give him something that says I love him but won't creep him out....He got me a ring (from walmart), lipgloss, and a giftcard to the bookstore....so he spent like $25...I want to give him the perfect present and I don't know, I want him to tell me he loves me....We dated for 5 months before, then we broke up for 5 months, now we are 2 weeks. Sorry this doesnt make any sense. I guess I am asking: What should I buy my boyfriend that says I love him without creeping him out? Oh yeah, we are both 16.
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♥ buy him.. maybe some sneakers.. a necklace.. a nice shirt.. or a hoodie.. and heres a hint.. boys are slow so nothing you buy them wil say i love you to them..
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Q: We'll im kinda sick of my boyfriend. Hes getting really clingy & just acting like were going to get married. Plus im not sure I like him anymore. I want to be single again, yet I still want him as a friend because hes really nice & understanding. Im not going to be a jerk and break up with him online because thats just anonying, but can anyone suggest other ways I could possibly end it with him? i'll rate & im 14/f
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♥ well you could tell him on the phone.. orin person.. or in a note.. orrrrrrrrr u can make him break up wth you.. like.. be EVERYTHING he hates and thne im pretty sure hell eventually dump you
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: So i have been dating this guy for more than 3 months now and valentines day will be comming up in two mnths. What do guys like to get on Valentines day?
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♥... hmmm good one.. guys are really hard to shop for.. so i say to just give him money to buy w/e h wants.. or just ask him what he wants.. sry if i wasnt much help
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: I Got mad today at my Best Friend Amber. The guy I like (Which Is my Ex) is my friend to. They were flirting all day! He would chase her and poke her in the chest and I got mad and she grabbed my coat and I said "DAMMIT AMBER GET OFF MY FRIGGEN COAT!!!!!!" Really Loud and My ex Kody was standing right behind her and I looked at him and he looked at me! And she already has a boyfriend. But They Won't Stop! He might be trying to make me jelous cause there was a insadent at the ballgame where he moved VERY close to me and I said "Fuk You!" and he looked at me and smiled and said "I know you want to fuck me. But We can't right here!" Soo Whats Going on with this guy??? If anyone can Help Send me A Private Message and I will tell you what happend. The WHOLE Story!
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♥ he's either trying to make you jealous or he likes your friend
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: your said : well i think the only way to conquer that is to talk to him..like get to know him ALOTT and talk to him..then hell think of you as like a friend then a close friend then a best friend..then hell start liking you..just flirt non-stop in a pushy way..dont play hard to get but dont be all like OMG I LIKE HIM!! just be cool..and you can make it a LITTLE obvious that you like him..like he knows you like him but then he doesnt know..like make it like that..make him curious about you dont tell hima lotta stuff either then hell wanna know and he willw ant to get closer to you..sry if i wasnt much helpp :)
im saying : the only thing is, like i said, he is an immature boy! so really the only time i talk to him is when he is saying " emily! i did your mom, a favor, by making you, a sandwhich".
its just jokes he makes. and i dont sit next to him in any class.
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♥..oh well i mean all guys joke just rack a joke back and say something like THAT WASNT MY MOM YOU ASS!!! THAT WAS ME!! haha..so uhm yeahh haha..sry if i wasnt much help
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: out of my whole school there is only once or two boys i like! one of them i have liked for 2 years now! he knows but i dont know if he likes me! EVERY SINGLE GIRL IN THE SCHOOL LIKES HIM! and im sure there are more pretty girls than me! o talk to him but hes one of those immature boys! i dont know what to do! im way to shy to tell him i like him, and i'm SOOOOOOOO tired of waiting to see if he likes me!
what do i do!?
im waayyyyy to shy,
santawillrule
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♥ well i think the only way to conquer that is to talk to him..like get to know him ALOTT and talk to him..then hell think of you as like a friend then a close friend then a best friend..then hell start liking you..just flirt non-stop in a pushy way..dont play hard to get but dont be all like OMG I LIKE HIM!! just be cool..and you can make it a LITTLE obvious that you like him..like he knows you like him but then he doesnt know..like make it like that..make him curious about you dont tell hima lotta stuff either then hell wanna know and he willw ant to get closer to you..sry if i wasnt much helpp :)
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?
What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?
x0-
Kelsssss
(K2204)
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♥ Bowling is GREATT!!!! the best way to get your mind off of a guy is another guy! a nice guy..so you meet the nice guy and yall wil be havin so much fun you wont even think about the guy..
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: My past relationship hurt me so bad, that all I want to do know is be cool with everyone. The only thing is a lot of boys want to go with me and I want to talk to them but everytime I think about the hurt that this last boy caused me that I don't want to go through it again. Can someone help me think of ways to get over it. Thank YOu
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♥ the way to get over it is to explore your options go out with the guys who wanna go out with you..i mean if you dont go out with someone your always gonna think about you ex but if you go out with someone then youll think about the guy who treated you well..sry i couldnt help much :(
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: i like this guy, hes 17, and he has a gf. i was hanging out with my friends yesterday and he was there, i new him from lik 3 years a go because i tired to get the hook up with him, but he ended up going out with my best friend, and that was totally kool wit me. and now 3 years lata i see him. and i didnt reconize him. but then i relized it was him and me and him were ahngin out. well him and his 2 friends had to leave, and he asked if i woudl walk him out to his car so i was lik yea. i did and we walked up the street a lil, and he asked for my number i gave it too him and he said that him and his friends made a bet that he couldnt kiss a girl tonight, so he asked for a kiss and i gave him a kiss, and we made out a lil, not people are saying im a slut because i made out with a guy that i liked but i wasnt goin out with him, and they said it was stupid of me because i new it was a bet, well i new it was a bet and i dont really mind bcuz it was a win win situation, i got a kiss and he won the bet i dont understand the big deal is. y would ppl call me a slut ad stuff just because i kissed him? wats the big deal?
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♥ Honestly hun..i dont think its a big deal..you like him right..so you gotta get what you want..which is HIM!all those people who call you a slut are bitches who need to get the fuck out of your life..so what if you werent goin out with him..atleast you dont got around makin out with EVERY guy..but the advice im gonna give you is not to worry about them dont let that shit phase you..but when you get the guy..you wont even care about it..because then that'll mean that u kissing him was worth it..
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: okay...i luv this guy and he promised me im were ganna go on our first date friday..were not goin out but we did..he moved to cobb. but he alwayz calls me tellin me he loves me and i luv him so were in love:) but...he lives so far away and i knw that i cant keep bien stuck to a guy who is not coming back and stuff...so now i think i lyk this other guy and he lyks me and he was ganna ask me out buti dont no if to go with the one i luv but never get to see or the one ilyk but dot love..help!
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♥ this is hard..uhmm..well if you love him..i mean go out with him..but if you never see him that must suck..but you kno they say "never leave the one you love for the one you like"..but I'm really sorry i couldnt help..
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
=/ anyone thinks they can help me?
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♥ just go and stick it..suck it up..just be fun..dont just like sit there and stare at him..but dont do anything that you dont feel comfortable with just explain to him that you dont feel comfortable..and if he gets pissed..thats a sign of a bad temper..or that hes using you..but i recommend you kiss him..cuz yall go out so you have to do SOMETHING!!
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: is it unusial for a guy 2 cry over his girl
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♥ not really unless you havent been together long..but if she told you she loved you and you said it back and you were IN LOVE then its not unusual..I think its sweet..if you two were in love..but if a guy who just likes me cried over me i would be like freaked out..
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: Okay. I like this kid at my high school. He's a year older then me and I'm 16 so that makes him 17. Well Okay so we were talking online and stuff and I see him at school and one day him and his friends seen me and my friend shooting some hoops so him and his friends came up to us and said, " do you want to play knockout (its a bball game) " and we said sure. So we played and me and him were at the end and of course I let him win. haha! so well I talk to him ALOT online now! And well we seem to be getting closer! And like hes been on every night and we talk to one another but he still never says or asks me out. I have been getting my friends to talk to him for me and they have been saying they think he definately likes me. and my one friend asked him if he would like to hang out with me on a weekend and she said he said he was busy this weekend but maybe another weekend. So sorry its soooo long but I really need your help! What do you think?? Does he like me or am I just wasting my time????? I'll rate high for useful answers!
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♥ it doesnt matter whether he likes you or not at this point..he's no good..my reason for saying this is that he says hes busy when your friend asked him if he wanted to hang out with you or whatever..so if yall ended up going out he would most likely always be busy..im not saying he has to suck up to you..but i think if he liked you that he would atleast drop ONE plan to hang out with you..unless it was a family thing..and about the talking online thing..boys are BIG FLIRTS! and sometimes you think theyre leading you on..when their intention is completely opposite..but hey you're gonna do what you want to do anyway..
x3-Janee`
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Q: ok...i have a serious boy problem...lets call my jus broke off boyfriend(tyler)and my ex before him (lee) ok tyler and i went out alil over 2 months and i fell so hard for him but lee kept coming in the way...i went out wit lee for about a year and now i just want to be friends with him nothing more but tyler cant understand that.tyler heard that i was with lee the other week and just broke up with me without wanting to talk it out but it wasnt true and i tried to tell him that but he wont listen...he told my bestfriend that we was gonna get back 2gether but he needs time 2 think...should i wait or move on?
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♥ ok hun, im not gonna give you that follow your heart shit cuz i dont believe that will help you one bit..if you feel for tyler..wait..but theres a possibility that he may change his mind and not go back out with you..so this is what you do..you flirt with other guys a little..like ya know search for options then youll eventually find a guy you like..besides tyler..JUST INCASE tyler doesnt wanna get back with you ya know..and on the other side still wait for tyler for a little while..wait for about 3 weeks..and if he doesnt come around you wont be lonely because youll still have that other guy..but DONT go out with Lee because from what you said tyler broke up with you because of suspicions about you and Lee so then he will like probably hate you..then he'll wanna get back at you and there will be DRAMA!
x3-Janee`
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Q: How do i get in good with the boys? I want every guy to notice me and i want them all to love me.. but how do i get a guys attention and how do i make that work. What makes a girl love a girl as a friend?
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♥ be one of them..like dont dress all boyish..because that will ruin it..be cute and fun and flirty..and make sure they can get along with you well like find some kinda way to like what they like..but keep it cute n flirty then theyll love you!
x3-Janee'
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Q: hi... well im 19/f and I'm getting married 1 week from today.. I know it's only a little bit away and a stupid time to be asking this but anyway My fiance has been like accusing me of cheating on him because im involved with the football team at the highschool because i coach it... how can i stop him from thinking this? Also I've been becoming really attracted to this 1 guy where i work.. is this normal?
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♥ YOU SLUT!!!!! you're engaged..getting married in a week...use your brain..if you even have one!
x3-Janee'
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My name Is Janee` I'm 17 years old. im in love & its the best. Just ask me a question, and i will try my best to answer with help :)
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Lawrenceville,Georgia Occupation: Student Age: 17 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: November 6, 2004 Answers: 169 Last Update: February 27, 2008 Visitors: 13282
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