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duz it mean i dont like him?


Question Posted Wednesday January 3 2007, 1:37 am

i love my bf 2 death bit i dont like kissing him is that wierd? like bein around him i get butterflys but kissing him its like eh nuthing. is it bad that i told him this? and duz this mean i dont reely like him?

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gigi313 answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 9:19 am:
Kissing is the important key to a relationship, I think. Prostitutes even charge more for a kiss than for intercourse, because it is considered much more intimate. Consider: do you have romantic feelings for him or simply deep, deep friendship toward him?
I am a grandmother; I was a single mother for a long time and I have dated a lot of men (I even married one.) In my personal opinion, if you don't want to kiss him, then those "butterflies" are nerves--maybe you're even fearing the inevitable kiss!
Of course, none of this applies if the reason you don't want to kiss him is that he has bad breath from smoking, etc. Buy some tic tacs to share in that case, and enjoy the feelings that only come with a loving kiss. Gigi

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SxyLilPoo47 answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 6:10 am:
well you shoudlnt have told him that haha. now he probably thinks that he's a bad kisser.

but this doesnt mean that you dont like him. you're just a little shy when it comes to doing physical things.. just loosen up around him more. you'll get used to it.

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Altruistic answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 2:34 am:
Not wanting to kiss him has nothing to do with whether or not you really love him. Kissing is just another part of relationships and it IS possible to have one without kissing (obviously most people dont not kiss). Kissing is just another way to show affection. It just could be that hes a bad kisser, his breath smells, etc that makes you not want to kiss him. Telling him might be a good thing so that he doesnt constantly wonder why you dont kiss him anymore. But yeah, not wanting to kiss him doesnt mean you dont love him still.

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