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falling in love
Okay. So I have been really good friends with this guy for a long time. I'm 17 and hes 21. Hes such a great guy. He's really smart and funny and caring and amazing. I lost my virginity to him in early December and we decided we were just friends before this happened and whatever happened was just for fun. I told him that I wasnt like all the other girls who get attached after hooking up with friends. But when we had sex, I was still fine. We hooked up about twice a week since then. Then all of a sudden when I started going over to his apartment, he started treating me like more than just a hook up. He was doign really sweet things for me. Example... New years eve I stayed the night at his apartment and told my parents I was staying over at a friends. We hung out all night talking about life and watching funny things on tv. We really connected. We were having a lot of fun. We had sex again. He played guitar for me. He kept holding me and holding my hand and kissing me. He scratched my back until I fell asleep and he even gave me the good side of the bed even tho I offered it to him.
When I woke up in the morning, he made me breakfast. Then we watched some more funny videos. But then he was holding me and told me that my friend Monica asked him if we were a thing. He said he told her that I am going away to college in 7 months and he doesnt want to start a relationship when I'm leaving. Like a dummy, I just said "yeah" even though I have totally TOTALLY fallen for him. My college is only 2 hours away and I will still see him just as often. What do I do now? I dont want to ruin everything and lose what we have by risking it! But he's perfect. I'm going crazy.
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if you are going to see him just as often then you might as well become a thing ;P i meen its obvious that he reallt likes you and im sure he would like to be your bf,so just tell him how u feel..im positive it will all work out great! :D Good Luck && hope i helped :) xxx
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see, friends with benifits is generarly a bad idea. in almost every case, one person ends up getting atached. just tell him how you feel, because he could be saying those things because he thinks its what you want.
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tell him that you don't want to continue just having sex with him if your nothing but friends! cause it's like see for example okay so your friends and he can have sex with you and do all that king of things that people do when they are on a relationship so why would he ask you to be something more if you're already giving him all that he can get from your relationship. he just can have you whenever he wants and if he wants to date other girls meanwhile it won't matter cause your just "friends" talk to him about this 'cause it would be like using you with no comittment good luck!
Diane
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