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Im a really cool person who loves to talk and give advice.i love volley ball and soccer and im makin all As and Bs in school(finnaly)!!!i am currently single and supa excited to finnaly be in highschool!-anyway I am really good at writing and really want to wright a book but i know i dont have the patients for it. ive been through alot of stuff and im still here so im thankfull for that. i truelly hate people who constantly complain about the things they have because they want something better. Kids are much more fortunate than many people in other contries.they should be proud they have the freedom they enjoy and the beautiful life they live. i apprciate everybreath i have and every day that i am on this earth living the good life i live. heres some advice to people who need it now. if you have a problem always ask for help. dont think you can solve any problem on your own. youll just make the situation worse. also dont think less of yourself at all. some people dont understand that u are as powerful as the most powerfullest person in the world if you just beleive in yourself. feel free to ask a question because i will answer!!!!!!!!!!!! lots of luv ! peace!!!!!!!!!!

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i have this really good friend and i was wondering how can i flirt with him? or just drop some hints without telling him to his face, also when the time is right i was thinking of giving him a note saying how i feel about him but like what would i write? and would that be a good idea? i never done this before please help, thanks

16/f

well....flirting for me has always been playful hoarseplaying!!jus hit him for no reason or kick him in the tush(but not hard!!).if he laughs then continue but if he seems annoyed thats a good sighn to stop!or instead of kicking and hitting like start poking him or tickling him!!if you are a rather shy person a note is a great way to express your feelings clearly and the way you want to!first say that you really enjoy being his friend and how his friendship meens more to you then anything.then simly say to him that--- these pass couple of weeks ive felt closer to you and grown to like you as i think more then just a friend.i was just wondering if you possibly share these same feelings as i do?---make sure that you metion that no matter what his answer you dont want this to change the tight friendship you guys have!!well hope this helped and good luck!!!

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Well I REALLY like this guy that 'used to' go to my school, but then he got expelled so now he's going to another school!
And we don't see eachother outside of school...So right now I'm like really depressed and I miss him and there's like no one I can talk to because some people are tired of hearing about him and others might think I'm pathetic or something if I tell them how much I miss him! So how should I deal with this? I hate being depressed (obviously), but I can't help it!
I miss him SO much!!!!!!
What should I do???!!!
Any advice would be GREAT! Thanks!

trust me this depression will surely pass!it might seem like youll neva stop missing him but trust me you will!i bet you the next sexy boy who walks by you will deffinately get you sayn 'billy' who??lol!so just try to mend that broken heart because as soon as you do you will be more open to meet new people!cuz when your in the doldrums it can make you some what unattractive and unavailable to those sexy boys youve been waitn for that are looking for a lady!!lol!but if for some reason you cant get over this lost love...find out if he has a myspace or e-mail or try to get his number then you can talk to him and maybe spark some chemistry with this lad!!lol!!well whatever you do i hoped i helped and good luck!!!

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should I be upset if all my boyfriend (of over one year) is "supposidly" getting me a postar for valentines day? I mean, I feel it's a taky gift. Or am I being spoiled. Cause I mean even my friends who havent beeen with their bfs that long are getting more than a POSTER. COme on people. Flowes say I'm sorry. Choclates say I love you, and a poster says i'm an imature little boy who needs to grow up. SO any comments?

grl I DNT KNO WUTS RONG W/ HIM BUT.. no seriously
yes i hate to say we are being spoiled. but i would be the same way. a boy who i dont even go out with [yet] is geting me more. did you ask for something or did you say surprise me? has he really given you a poster?? who knows it might be better then you think. just TRY not to seem sad when you get it ;-)

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so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!

ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf)

try to be confident but not to confident!guys like it when girls are a little confident.they dont like it when girls are always complaining about something they dont like about themselves so try not to do that.to start a convo just be like-"hey what did you make on that test/quiz the other day?And go from there-or you could ask if hes playing any spring sports.-Compliment him on something-it could be the littlest thing like his handwriting or some peice of jewlry he might be wearing-talk about something funny that happned that day or yesterday that you both know about or something he might not know about but you think is funny-be like--"omg did you see when(blank)tripped in the halway this morning!it was sooo funny!or tell him some jokes you think are funny!just be yourself and try to keep the convo going because the minute you rely on him to start a convo is the minute he becomes bored and uninterested!well good luck and i hope this helped!!!!!

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Hi, i really like this boy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me.My best friend said ok well he likes you because she said his best friend told her! "I'm like omg!!YES!" But then sometimes i wonder if that is really true. Like most of the days at school i look at him, he looks at me for like 7 seconds then looks away right after. If i flash him a smile he gives me a weird crooked smile. We don't talk after since elemantary school and were both in middle school.He knows i like him 2.

So is he sending me mixed signals!?
Does he like me?!

please give me advice a.s.a.p

at this tender age guys are very weird with communicating with the opposite sex.he most ikely does like you but is not aware of how to show it without being weird.your young and still in middle school so i say you should be the one to brake the ice!just ask him i he likes you.life is to short and you dont want to go on for the rest of your life wondering if there could have been something good between you to.trus me it is easier said then done but he is just one guy.if it turns out he doesnt like you move on to someone else.and be carefull about what people tell you.hearing news threw the grapevine is almost never accurate so you really dont want to rush to conclusions.the best thing to do is just ask him yourself then youll know for a fact.if your to shy to ask him,write him!well good luck!

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I need to know if i'm in over my head. I have this boyfriend, that I love very much. But there's a problem. When he's not around, like going to a friend's house. I like freak out. I start crying for a long time. and I call him as soon as he leave's. I didn't want him to go. But the day after that I left and spent the night over my cousin's house. and I felt bad about going some where. and not letting him go any where. He went but he came back and got me, and I went will him. Is that bad? I can't do anything without him. That I can't be away from him for a day. I don't know what to do. I'm losing my mind. What do ya'll think?

i think you might be emotinally unstable. im not sure what caused this but you should first find out why you cant go one day without him---it could be your not getting the love you need from your family---youve never had a bf treat you good and you might blame yourself so your doin everything to make sure this one works! im not saying any of these are the reasons but just think about them! i think what you need to do is take time away from him! being to clingy can scare him away and i know you dont want to loose him! one thing a guy treauseres is his privacy and personal space like a woman does also and when woman start interfearing with that they get upset! i know being away from him will be extremely hard mentally and maybe physically for you but you have to learn that he isnt going to be able to be with you every second of everyday and once you learn that youll be much better off! hope this helped! best of luck!

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I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?

wow! this is a toughy! only because i prob wouldnt talk to you ethier but...im going to try to put myself in your girlfriends shoes!okay she, i think would first prob be angry at the fact that you didnt tell her!i totally understand that people make mistakes but you dont have a true realationship if you dont have trust!she trusted you and in her eyes you have failed her!if you really love her like you say tell her how you feel! explain to her that you were extrmely drunk and dindt know what the hell you were doing! explain to her that youd rather die then loose her and that it was the biggest mistake youve ever made.explain how you wouldnt be able to live if she werent in your life.tell her your miserable without her!tell her that your so sorry you didnt tell her and that youd do anything to go back and change what happned!and finnally tell her that you love her with all your heart and make sure she knows you meen it!i believe you are sorry for what you did and i believe that you really love her... now all thats left is to make her believe!just dont be afraid to por out your feelings to her! it might seem kinda gay but its the manliest thing to do in a womans eyes!especially in this situation!

well i hope this helped you in some way and good luck to you!

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hey

ok i just moved to a new school and so there is this guy i really really really like and i have neva seen anybody nore cuter than him but the point is that he likes me but he flirts with me too but othere poeple too and i flirt back but everybody dont want me to go out with him but everybody tells me that hes a perv.!!!
but idk
i really like him but at school im always hyper and i cant calm down everday i try to but i cant!!!
and i really want him but this girl likes him too and my sister likes him too and my sister always gets the guys

please help me guys!!!!

let me tell you this...there is a time when you need to go off your own feelings and there is also a time when you need to listen to what others are feeling! if by the slightest chance you even think he is intemently flirting with other girls and also you, you really dont need him! guys that flirt with every girl they can, are dogs! i know at this point in time he might seem like the cutest guy you have ever seen but if he doesnt respect you he dosent deserve you.boys like that play with girls emotion.boys like that use girls and trust me it hurts bad to be used!please dont find out the hard way because you will get your heart broken and it is a painfull thing! he doesnt like you if he flirts with other girls!trust me!now sometimes guys just try to be nice to every girl and it might come off as seeming like flirting!what you need to do is test him!see if he really has strong feelings for you and know one else.dont worry about how your sister gets every guys she wants!if you really want him hes yours and if he really likes you he wont even glance at your sister.

to tell you the truth unfortanately when other people start to tell you that he flirts with everybody 95% of the time those people are right so please make your dicision wisely!

hope this helped!

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so there was this guy and like i really like him and stuff.. and he told me before he likes my friend.. but now he says he doesnt.. and yesterday we hung out and like he had his arms around me like the whole time. and then right before he left he kissed me.. it wasnt like a big kiss but still it was like my frist kiss and like theres a "secret" that my friend told him which was to ask me out..and like i just kept trying to get it out of him and he said when he gets back he'll tell me... but hes in mexico now until next wednesday.. and im scared he wont like me when he gets back...so am i just being paranoid or will he prolly do it??

lol! what makes you think he wont like you? trust me u dont kiss somebody go off to a different country for a week and forget it all happned unless you get some sort of brain damage and loose all your memory! but i highly doubt that! dont sweat it! he will deff still like you!and its not like hes gonna meet the love of his life over in mexico!hes only gonna be gone for 7days! just think...hes probably counting the seconds till he gets to see your face again!try not to be so paranoid!please!

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Me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year what are some sexy ways i can get him hard. It's not like I can't but I wanna try something unexpected. Got any ideas?

lol! well u can try giving him a lap dance or like phone sex or something! or some sexy dances with him( u know like grinding or something like that)!hope this helps!

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alright so this might sound really stupid. ok well i go to this daycamp thing and there's this kid that's 11 and going into 6th grade. and im 13 and going in 8th. so he's really cute. and he likes me. and i like him. is it weird if we went out because of the age difference? and also he's short for his age, but i don't mind. thankss

absolutely not!!i jus got out of a realtionship like that!i was in the 8th and he was in the 6th!but trust me people will tease you but just ignore them cus there only jelous cus they dont have anyone for themselves!i accually am currently datin an 18 year old and im 14!lifes to short to not take chances!who knows, maby you guys will be togetrher forever!just remeber that its not always the age that matters, its the way he treats you and makes you feel that matters!i say go for it before its to late! good luck!!

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How do you impress a guy you really like?? I need to know because I really like him soo much, Im falling for him. What should I do to impress him???
I need ideas anything will work, even to make him flash his sexy smile. HELP!!
♥KASSIDY

try not to be the girl in the corner that he doesnt know is in the room(if u know what i meen). always try to talk to him and make sure he knows you are listening and you care about what hes saying(give him feedback). dont be afraid to talk to him but dont hang around him every minute. any time he might glance at you give him a slight smile(a flirty smile) thats the sure way to let a guy know your interested. last thing is try not to be a stocker. know when its right to be around him and when its right to just back off a little and give him his space. GOOD LUCK!!!!! HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!

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hey gurl whats up. do you think i should go baq out with justin. i really like him and i really miss him!! so what do you think???

o well if you say that you do really like him and you do really miss him then heck yeah you should go bac with him. but only do it if these are ur true feelings 4 him and ur sure he feels the sme way about you!! good luck grl! TWEETY

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my boyfreind recently told me he still kindof liked his ex..
and i asked him but do you like her like that?
and he said kindof
what do i do?
im balling.


i seriously think we could get married.
and hes like my soulmate..
PLEASE HELP ME!

ok heres what you need to do. ask him does he like his ex more than he likes you and if he doesnt say no than you really need to brake it off.he cant say oh well kinof or sorta a jus alittle. it has to be straight foward no. in order to have a true relationship both people have to fell the same way about each other and not have doubts about others lke their ex. if he doesnt feel the same way about you as you do about him then i deffinatley think you should brake it off before you get hurt and i jus cant stand to see any body go through that.you need to really think about whats best for both of you and the relationship.well good luck!(tell me how it goes k)hope this helps.TWEETY

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Aight i liked this girl and we went out a couple of times to the movies and dinner but i dont know how or if i should make a move to kiss her. We go out to the movies a lot so when would be the perfect time to make my move???? PLZ HELP!!!

ok you have to wait for her to glance at you which she should at some point and when she does just look at her and smile and leen in slowly and plant your kiss. dont wait to long cus she might turn bac around. another time that would be good is during a kissing scene or sex scene. well good luck! hope this helps!TWEETY

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Ok, the thing is I've become pretty good friends with my crush. We've hung out many times, and I've brought my friends at times too and he's met them. But now school is starting, and I'm afraid of him meeting some of my other friends, because honestly, I'm afraid he might start liking them. A lot of them are prettier and have good personalities. I know it's an insecurity of mine, but it's really bothering me. I don't know what to do, any advice will be helpful.

i know exactly what you meen. what you need to do is get closer to him. hang out with him more and try to see if he might have any feelings for you at all and if you think he does make your move!ask him out before he even has a chance to think about liking any of your other friends. good luck!hope this helps!TWEETY

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i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help

most commenly ask them what they did this summer.if there knew ask them what school did they used to go to.or what kind of music do you like to listen to. the first thing you should say is hi im (blank) whats your name? so your knew here? what school did you cme from? well how do you lke are school so far?then jus start informing him on students ad teachers because every new student lkes to be informed. this way youll make a new guy friend and hopefully later turn into something more but you hav to be patient esspicially with guys. you dont want to rush into anythng huge because its has a 90% chance of not doing very well.well hope this helps and good luck!!!and remember confedence is the key!!! TWEETY

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14/f..

ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.

& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"

do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?

should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP.

omg that is so cute!ofcorse he likes you.i know from experience because ive done it like 5 times!if the guy would come into my classroom all m freinds and every body that knew i liked him would start calling my name,poking me,staring at me,and giggling like hyenas!i think you should get to try to know him-hell love that.your best guy friend i so rite-he does not at all hate you and of corse he likes you but the worst thing you could do is ignore him!good luck!and again that is so cute(talk about puppy love)hope this helps!TWEETY

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why r u so damn cute.(your boyfriend *GUS*)

I DONT LIKE U ANYMORE!!!
DOM & TWEETY
PS: y r u so damn ugly
PS:PS: dom wrote. but tweety says to leave it up.

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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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omg!ive totally been in the exact same relationship.you know what i told him i said look here its eathier me or her.i will not be anybodys bitch because thats exacly what hes he treating you like.he loves you my ass.that boy does not love you because if he did he wouldnt dare share his love whith anyone else.the definition of a relationship is a boy and a girl who like and respect each other and does not include three plpl.you know hes going bac to his friends and bragging.you tell him i will not let you treat me like a third will jerk and dump his a@#!hope this helps!TWEETY

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