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i love my friend <3


Question Posted Monday March 31 2008, 7:32 pm

i have this really good friend and i was wondering how can i flirt with him? or just drop some hints without telling him to his face, also when the time is right i was thinking of giving him a note saying how i feel about him but like what would i write? and would that be a good idea? i never done this before please help, thanks

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Bestfriendswithimforever answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 10:32 am:
Well, to flirt with him make it a gradual process, so if he does not feel the same way its not a flat out disappointment for you. Like do a little at first: maybe touching his arm, horsing around by jumping on his back, talk to him on the phone, make flirty jokes. Then if he doenst resist, start maybe leaning your head on his shoulders, hugging him closely, making jokes that could be interpreted as flirting or not, . And keep on progressing, then when you get really close to him, and able to be really comfortable with each other, and you think he's taking the bait, ask HIM (not you first) how he feels about you, and you may even volunteer some of your feeligns on him. I hope all goes well. I am actually doing it now, and its all about trial and error, gradually egetting forward and blunt. I think I'm doing good so far...so I have faith you will end up with your friend if that is what you want

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SDC answered Monday March 31 2008, 9:45 pm:
well....flirting for me has always been playful hoarseplaying!!jus hit him for no reason or kick him in the tush(but not hard!!).if he laughs then continue but if he seems annoyed thats a good sighn to stop!or instead of kicking and hitting like start poking him or tickling him!!if you are a rather shy person a note is a great way to express your feelings clearly and the way you want to!first say that you really enjoy being his friend and how his friendship meens more to you then anything.then simly say to him that--- these pass couple of weeks ive felt closer to you and grown to like you as i think more then just a friend.i was just wondering if you possibly share these same feelings as i do?---make sure that you metion that no matter what his answer you dont want this to change the tight friendship you guys have!!well hope this helped and good luck!!!

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