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Hi Ya'll. My name is Jen feel free to e-mail me, im me whatever. I am very friendly and love new friends. You can ask me questions about anything and I will try my best. Yee-haw! advice
Okay, i like alot of guys, but i'm told there is someone
out there for me. I wan't things to happen so fast, but that's not right.My question is how do you know when
the right guy for you is possibly the one right in front of you. sincerely, Lacey.
You should like a lot of guys. While you are waiting for the right one you should have fun with the wrong ones. Some people say that you just know when you meet your soul mate but I'm going to tell you now Lacey there's gonna be a lot of boys who you think are "the one" but they won't be. Just have to have hope that you meet your soulmate sooner than later and have fun dating. Good luck!
Hey it's me yet again with yet another problem.
There's this kid who I have strong feelings for, and we were into each other for the longest time. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he's miserable because he cared about her... gurr it makes me so jealous!
He's ignored me for the past month... just all of a sudden stopped liking me. I care about him SOOO much. Should I be mad for his ingoring me like that and going out with someone else... and just avoid him? Or try, now that he's single... to get his attention again????
If I could make a movie or a book out of my high school years this would be the main plot. Give him another shot. "You wrong me once, shame on you. Wrong me twice, shame on me."
I like my best guy friend alot.. but the thing is i set him up w/his g/f and shes a friend of mine.. and i have a b/f who i also like.. what do I do?
Wow..that's a tough one. What I would do is..leave the guy alone. You set him up with your friend and you have a boyfriend. I don't know how old you are or anything but what I have learned is that friends are much more important than guys. Guys come and go. Friends are usually there always. And you have a guy who you like and it isn't causing any problems with your friend. Good luck and if you need anything else let me know :)
Love, Jen
i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do?
You can't make someone feel what they don't. Talk to him..be yourself and be his friend but don't push anything and if it's meant to be he will let you know when he's ready. But don't waste your time on somebody who won't waste their time on you. Good luck!
my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!!
I am from south jersey and my ex lives in Long Island. It was hard but it worked out for few years. It wasn't the best relationship I had but it ranked pretty high up there. I was about 14 when he moved. I am 18 now we both knew that we were going to be going to college moving further away and that it just wasn't going to work. Your young there's plenty of people in this world. You can give it a shot if you really want to but remember it's hard and your young. Hope I helped.
hi i am currlie and i am 15 there is this guy that i really like but i dont know what to do. we have so much in common and are really good friends we always hang out to. I am not the kind of girl to ask a guy out so i hape that someone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it
thanks , currlie
Bite the bullet and go for it. I have never been one to ask guys out or call them or anything and the one time I did-we ended up dating for a while and having the time of our lives at my Senior Prom. Just give him little hints that you like him or do sweet things when you are together. You gotta tell him. When you get older you are gonna regret all those things you didn't do soo much more than those you did! Good luck :)
today i saw my boy friend with another gurl at the movies...they weren't even watching it!!! (if u kno wat i mean) Wat should I do?!?! I was thinking about breaking up with him but i love him way too much!!!! Plz help me!!!
thanx,
~*RiSs*~
If your boyfriend was at the movies with another girl making out, he doesn't deserve your love. My sister was head over heels for a guy who was cheating on her and she didn't do anything about it. Now she's stuck with 10 YEARS of hurt and a child which he doesn't have much to do with. Stick up for yourself but be sure it was him and not just your head telling you things. Good luck, if you need anything let me know and I will try to help :)
hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!!
If I were you, I wouldn't take the chance. Most guys who cheat continue to cheat. My sister's ex cheated and everytime he was caught he said he would never do it again. She was cheated on for 10 years. But you gotta stay true to yourself and follow your heart. Good luck.
ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??
Having a boyfriend is hard on your friendships. Most people go from one extreme to another. Just talk to your friends about the fact that you do have a boyfriend and you wanna give it the chance it deserves but you want to spend time with them to. Maybe one afternoon or one night you can be with the girls. Just don't lose your friendships for some boy who might turn out to be a jerk in the end. Good luck!
to help you guys out ok we all meet i have a husband too. im going behind my husbands back and sleeping with this couple.ok when me and the couple agreeed on this it was me and her do it together me and him do it together and all 3 of us ok. well be fore we even did it the frist time i fell for her husband which he knows ok about a week ago her husband was here to pick something up his trie to his truck ok. well things lead to something which was sex well he didnt tell his wife yet but we all are barely talking anymore for some reason i dont know my husband dont know nothing anyway we all slept togther before but her husband said after we did it he felt guilty but she has gave us permission to do it what should i do stop seeing them both or what help....
thank you
Def. stop sneaking around alls it does in the end is hurt everyone. Come clean with your husband and move on. If you and your husband need help because he might lose trust in you..go see a counselor. Good luck with everything.
There is a guy I like his name is PJ but Im not sure If he likes me.WE hang out together we share snacks we are both afraid to go off the highdive and we always want to sit next to eachother are we better off as friends or should I start flirting more??
If you like him, go for it. When you get older you are gonna regret those little things you didn't do then the ones you did. What is the worst thing that can happen? He might not like you and it will scare him away but you can still maintain your friendship, which is better than nothing. Good luck!
Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions??
You should certainly talk to him! I grew up very close to my sister who was cheated on for 10 years and never did anything about it. Chances are if he is talking to girls in front of you he isn't cheating but there is still a chance. Talk to him before things go too far and you worry about it too much. Good luck!