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Heyloooo. I'm really not that cool. lol. Ask me anything though! I'm 13 but I'm good at answering love life questions. I can answe ranything you throw at me.
Well anyway, about me.... HmMmMMmmm. My name is Rachel, Rach or Rachee for short. I like the band Yellowcard so0o0o0o much they rock ass. I also like Taking back sunday, The Used, Boys Like Girls andSimple Plan etc.... My favorite books are Hana Kimi ( it's manga. I haven't finished the series so don't tell me what happens!!!!!!!!) I also like Chobits. I am a hugeeeeeee fan of the video game kingdom hearts! I'm in love with Axel!! "Got it memorized?" Lmao! Yeah I'm pretty dorky. I like basket ball. I play a foward, sometimes a guard. I enjoy skateboarding too. I have to teach myself though! Lol I suck at it. (don't take my advice on that lol) I also am praticing to be a catcher for softball. Oh and if you haven't noticed I'm a girl! HAhahahahaaa. Yeah, my 'label' is probably punk or scene. I hate stupid preps who are like I'm emo, meanwhile they are in a f---in' pink miniskirt with their stupid blech blonde hair and obnoxious laugh. Lol. Just don't be something your not around me !! I hate that! Oh yeah and boys-- I'm single!!! jkjkjk lolololol. WEll I am single (=[).... BUT NOT FOR LONG!!!! I've got my eye on someone lolol. Anyway I've been through alot SO ask me anythanggg

I have exprienced:
Being bullied.
Death of a friend(s)/ Family member(s).
Losing friends.
Horrible teahcers.
Crazy Mom.
Crazy Siblings (I have six older ones. I should know.LMFAO)
Peer pressure.
And a bunch of other stuff I just can't think of right now HAHahhahahahahahahaha lol I love you!!
Rachee

advice

hey i like this boy who is 16. does he likes me. he calls me , he talks to me on the computer. he texts my cell. it doesnt seem he does. he told me he likes me a lil...he wanted me to go to the powerhouse with him but my dad is not letting me go. i told him that and all he said was ok.. but i want to know does he like me ..... i will be on aol if u want to talk...bbj394 is my sn... please help and i will rate u

It sounds like he is interested in you, but not completely convinced. Keep talking to him and flirt,flirt,flirting with him!!!

As for your daddy, explain to him that this kid is very nice and sweet and that your other [girl] friends would be their. That way he might feel more comfortable, if he knows your not going to be alone with a 16 year old boy. =]]]

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Okay; im Jessica. and theres this boy his name is will, and we went out for a while. but there was no love in there (well for me). we broke up. i wasnt heart broken or nothing. we stayed friends. then we started talking in school and online alotttt.. like a couple days later he told me he was moving to florida. and he left at lunch. hhe pulled me out of the cafeteria and huggedd me tightttly. and he said hes gonna miss me .. then i started crying my eyes out right there. and ever since he left. i cant eat. sleep or nothing. i cry all day idk what to do. =[
help me!

Talk to him on the phone or over the internet, write him letters and maybe convince your parents to let you visit him over the summer! I hope you feel better. =]

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f/13

as you guys know , the end of the school year is coming up this week. I will be going to high school.
ANyway... there are these two guys that i like. Sam and Tyler. Tyler has been flirting a lot but has not asked me out. Sam is my friend and he hasn't asked me out either. Oh well. The problem is is that every day on teh bus... Sam sits next seat over and one up so we are diagonal. We will talk a lot intill his friends come on. But when his friend gets on he keeps on looking at me,,,i cant describe it but he looks at me as if he is seeing what i am doing,,, or asking for my approval on what they are talking about.
What should I do?
The school is almost over and I cant stand thinking abotu not seeing them for another 3 months.

Ask him if he wants to go to the movies with you and your friends, tell him he can invite his friends too, and then slowly limit the number of friends... then TA-DA! you've got a bf!

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i pulled a chair from underneath a guy and he fell and everyone laughed and then he laughed too as he got up. and then he gets up and sits right next to someone else and he barely talked to me when i asked him if he was mad at me.

i later found out he was embarassed? WTF? i wouldn't get embarassed if that happened. whats up with guys? do they really get embarassed that easily?

Believe it or not-- Guys have feelings! lol. I did almost the same thing with my friend. He USED to tuck the front of his shirt in so you could see his belt buckle and I said reallly loud by accident, "Your belt looks really dumb like that." And he doesn't do it anymore and didn't talk to me for the rest of that day! So what I'm trying to say is, Yup guys get embrassed that easily. =]]]]]

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so im a 16 m been with my girlfriend for 6 going on 7 years im crazy about her i love her with all my heart but weve been having some probems she makes all the wrongs in my life dissappear she takes my breath away she tells me she loves me but every time she cries i cant help but get upset and bame myself i love her the happiest day of our relatonship was yesterdy i asked her to marry me the other day she said yes we plan to get married after college but the thing is i want more than just love dont get me wrong weve only ever hadsex 4 time which was rcntly about in the last 2 weeks but i want it to be better not just love i want her to need me does that make sense

Yes it does make sense. =] The only reason a girl would say yes to marrying a guy is if she needed him. It's sounds like you have a great relationship and she is probably very very thankful to have you in her life.
=]]]]]

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15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?

Chase after whom ever you like. You might even be bi. Just trust your heart!It's okay if your gay or bi. Don't worry over it, you'll find the right man or woman.

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17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S

It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.

Help?

Don't worry so much. Everybody makes mistakes. People are just people, if you mess up they probabyl won't even notice or remember. Just be yourself. Don't get all nervous.

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well today i told my boyfriend that i had sex with another guy back in december when i cheated on him and he called me a slut but then he was the one who had like 25 girlfriends and slept with all of them i feel really bad for sleeping with the person i cheated with. am i a slut or did he make a bad judgement

He might have just been joking---
If he wasn't then he is still probably upset that you cheated on him. See- He insults you to make himself feel better. Just try not to let it get to you. =]]]]]

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what do you do when you're with a guy that you liked for a long time and were so much fun together but when you started going out everything went down hill. nowadays after only 4ish months there's just as many bad times as good, if not more. when we're good, we're great. but when we're bad, it sucks arse. like ridiculous. what do you think, does the good cancel out for the bad?

It depends how good the goods are and how bad the bads are. Write down all the issues and rate them on a scale from 1-10 depending on how important they are . Add up the good ones and then add up the bad ones. If the good ones are higher then there's ur answer. =]]]]]]],]

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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more

Wait, I have a question. Are you cheating on him? If you are just pick one guy your really like and stick with him. Nobody deserves to be cheated on.

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okaay so i want to talk to a guy on my way home on the bus. the thing is that i dont know what to saay.
we've never talked before.
i was thinking about asking him for a quarter or something :P
any ideas?
and how should i keep the convo going, be sympathic and make him like me?

Drop a notebook on top of him "by accident". Then just pretend not to notice. And when he gives it back be like oh thanks sooo much it would have been so bad if i lost it! Hope everything works out =]]]]]

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okay well, i have liked this kid lets call him alex and im pretty sure he likes me too, he's always flirting with me, always iming me, always waiting after class for me we sort of have a thing. except none of us are really brave to admit it. i dont EXACTLY know if he likes me though which is kinda annoying, maybe he just thinks we are really good friends.
anyway in english i sit at a table with JUST him and his friend chad. well alex didnt come to english today and stuff and i knew he was in band and they made an announcement saying they were gonna be late so i was just like oh okay.. so i was just sitting there with chad (we are really good friends) and one of the student teachers was like "wheres alex?" and i was like, "oh i think he is at band" and out of no where chad goes "oooooohh you know his shecdule" and i was like "actually he told me he had band?" and then like i kept looking at the door cause he wasnt there and i was getting kind of nervouss haha so chad goes again "awww getting kind of nervouss?!" whicih is totally weird, he never ever made comments like this before. Then when alex finally came and sat down at our table stupid Chad goes "awww your baby is backk! you like him so much" luckily for me, i had sunburn and you couldnt see my face turning bright red so i was just like "you know what chad, i dont like him, your a retard and can you shutup for once in your life?" and he said sorry and stuff, i dont know if alex heard me or not though.. cause he seemed like he wasnt paying attention but the rest of the period he was REALLY upset and he didn't even talk AT ALL ,or flirt like usual. But like i didn't know what else to do! i couldnt just admit to everyone i really do like him so i just said i didnt. i just think this is kinda weird tho! cause chad never ever ever talks to me about liking him EVER and me and alex have been
"flirting" for a long time now! why would he chose now to do it? does maybe alex like me?

Maybe Alex told chad he likes you, and asked chad to find out if you like alex, so he said all that stuff to see if you would crack and admit it. Then maybe Alex iver heard you saying you don't like him and got upset. That's just a theory. Don't trust me. I hope it works out!! =]]

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17/f and he's 17/m. i broke up with my first bf cause i really felt nothing for the 4 months we've dated. it was mostly lust. i felt no love. it was more of a status thing. i did like him though. thus, i didnt feel bad when i broke it off.
well, first, he acted all cool like..whatever, man. i could get 10 chicks better than you in a day. so i'm like..ehh who cares..?
and so now...he's beginning to act like a begging dog. he stares at me with these puppy eyes..and gives me looks and weird gestures..and when he hugs me..he hugs me unusually tight and touches me like when we were in a relationship...its not a friendly hug. which is exactly what we are right now. friends. yet he doesnt understand this...
well, today..he told me that im perfect..and asked me to reconsider my decision..i didnt say anything. and then he told me to tell him whether or not i love him anymore.
honestly, i don't know what to do about him. i like him...but i wouldn't wanna go back. how do i let him down easily? cause i'm not too sure he's being serious either.
thank you!

Okay there are a couple of situations here.
1: He could really want you back just because he can't get another girl
OR
2:He may really love you. You can either give him another chance or to let him down you could just say no but i want to be good friends. If he still acts like your still in a relationship, then talk to him. Tell him you feel weird when he acts like that. =]]]]

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14/f.
Lastnight me and this guy G were going to go to the movies, he said he would call me. So he never did but i went anyways with my friends, after my movie was over we went outside and i saw him there with some other chick. I looked at him so coldly, then he tried to play everything off like it was cool. His friend was there too, which i also was talking too, but i didn't know they were friends. So I went in the movie with them and then I told G something which had happened that morning involving him, so I sat down on the other side of him since the girl he was with sat where I was. He told me "you can sit down if you want to". At that point i was so pissed that I just left, and he called me this morning. I was asleep but idk if I should call back or what. Any advice on what I should do?

Dump him! He's a jerk.

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i really like this boy and he just acts as a friend around me and i would like to make it more. How can i get him to notice me and flirt back with me?

Smile alot and be not realllly girly. Like be able to get dirty. Goodluck!
R☺chee

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Okay... there is this guy who goes to my school and we were talking online and i know he liked me because he asked me if we wanted to hang out and we even made plans and he seemed realllly excited. but then he messaged me this morning and was like sorry this isnt going to work its just going to be too awkward im sorry to lead you on. (weve never hung out in person before)
I know my ex bf left me a comment that was kinna angry because he knew about this new guy. So that may have added to him sending me this message. But like he just seemed SO excited about hanging out and i KNOW he liked me. I told him i agree and I could see myself liking him but it might be too soon. And he said we should be friends for now.
The friends for NOW still gave me hope.. but im just really confused. Im thinking he may have just like freaked out or something. Ahh what you you guys think? Thanks soo much.

Yeah he probably fraked out about your ex's message.Ask him if that is the problem. Good luck!
R☺chee

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well i got out of a bad but serious relationship if you know what i mean. hard to explain, but now i like this kid. im preppy and he is emo adn were total opposites. but we both love writing and the only time we really talk personally is on myspace. well he reall is proud of me for my success with my poetry and no one else feels as excited as i do. except him. idk... what should i do.. my writing is my one and only love. i can say what i truly feel and not be jugded, adn i always thought no one would understand that. plus my family doesnt know that i got a scholarship for poetry cuz they want me to continue the fam business of being a cop. how do i tell them the way i feel about writing .... and how do i react to this secretly sexy guy

Date The guy! lol. IF you want too. You could break the news to your parents by saying being a cop would be great but you want to do something else with your life. Good Luck!!
R☺chee

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Ok I have been told that I am a good kisser, but I have never french kissed before. People say its easy but it seems like its hard. My boyfriend tries to french kiss me and I dunno what to do help!

http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
Go to that link and it should help you! Good luck!
R☺chee

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I am depressed. I cant a get boyfriend worth jack skippy. Ima tell u about myself. I am 5'2. 245lbs. Im black but light skin like Chris Brown or Alicia Keys and shoulder length hair thats a dark brown. i have regular brown eyes and a nice big smile. I dress in hoodies and jeans a lot. I dont like showing a lot of skin because im fat. Dont wanna look nasty and trashy. I dont wear make up. I was born with a disease that make me hairy so I got thick eyebrows and sideburns and i got a light musache and i grow a few strains of hair on my chin. i use to go get my chin and eyebrows professionally waxed but the woman were talkin about me.

Not to be mean, but if you aren't happy with your wait you could eat healthy and/ or workout more moften. You could grow the hair on top of your head longer and go to a different salon an get your eyebrows done. Good luck!
R☺chee

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So , Many of you may remember my past post , About likeing someone and not being to happy with it XDD
Well , I have come to face the fact , I do like him . And there's nothing to do to prevent it , Just let it fade .
ANYWAYS , So I found out this other girl likes him XD . And she seems to think that he likes her aswell , In her oppionon . All of this because there were no spots left in the gym and he sat beside her . Not the point though .
Now , I don't think he likes me . Butt , I think we might have something ;] .
You see , I had to dance with him in dance . Butt , Ughh I was kind of nervous . So , Was he .
Sometimes I catch him staring -.- .
Andd , We also both play the same sport , Not many females play this sport .
Now anywyas , Just an advice from what this sounds like ?
-Jamie

Sounds like he might like you. Keep talking and hanging out with him. Good luck!
R☺chee

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