Okay... there is this guy who goes to my school and we were talking online and i know he liked me because he asked me if we wanted to hang out and we even made plans and he seemed realllly excited. but then he messaged me this morning and was like sorry this isnt going to work its just going to be too awkward im sorry to lead you on. (weve never hung out in person before)
I know my ex bf left me a comment that was kinna angry because he knew about this new guy. So that may have added to him sending me this message. But like he just seemed SO excited about hanging out and i KNOW he liked me. I told him i agree and I could see myself liking him but it might be too soon. And he said we should be friends for now.
The friends for NOW still gave me hope.. but im just really confused. Im thinking he may have just like freaked out or something. Ahh what you you guys think? Thanks soo much.
PinkLady101 answered Friday December 21 2007, 8:08 pm: guys sometimes do act upon instinct. they will make plans without thinking and then realize that they actually did have something else to do with the family or something. my brother is exactly like that.
does this new guy know your old bf? maybe he felt he would be betraying him by hanging out with you. just make it clear to him that you just want to be friends. If you send that vibe out first, he won't feel bad and you may evolve into more!
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