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just need help with my talkingg :P
okaay so i want to talk to a guy on my way home on the bus. the thing is that i dont know what to saay.
we've never talked before.
i was thinking about asking him for a quarter or something :P
any ideas?
and how should i keep the convo going, be sympathic and make him like me?
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You don't have to research him, that is what you do once the relationship starts up. You have the perfect opening coming up, Summer break. sit down next to him on the bus and ask him what he's going to do this summer, if he tells you somethings he's planning on and it is something you could do too, say, "that sounds fun, could I join you some time?" If he gives you nothing to work with, tell him something you want to do and ask if he's ever done it. If he has, say, "do you think we could go out sometime so you could show me how it's done?" If not, ask him if he'd like to go out and try it with you. Doesn't matter if you have done it or not, guys have always reacted to this kind of thing, appeals to the man in them. No offense but it's the helpless female thing, hey if it works, right?
Don't lead off with your name, that's for business, leave some mystery there at first, tell him inside the conversation, or as it is ending. Make sure you have pen and paper on you, so you can give him your phone number, but make it look like you didn't plan it say, "I think I have a pen and paper here", shuffle for it a little and say, "ya, here it is", when you find it.
He doesn't have to know how planned the whole thing is, if it goes far enough, you can both laugh about it when your older.
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Be prepared! Find out what you can about this guy, so you'll have things to talk to him about. Things like hobbies, sports, music, etc.
Once you have something to talk to him about, just approach him and introduce yourself. Guys like a girl with confidence so don't be scared. Just be like, "Hi I'm (your name), i heard that your really into/good at (fill in the blank).
And remember don't show how musch you like him, you don't want to come over love sick. Just be calm, and most importantly be yourself. Remember this guy is a person just like you so don't let it make you too nervous.
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Drop a notebook on top of him "by accident". Then just pretend not to notice. And when he gives it back be like oh thanks sooo much it would have been so bad if i lost it! Hope everything works out =]]]]]
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