alright, so i moved into my new school last year (7th grade) and i didnt start of with a good reputation, because i was the new girl. but now a year later i have a very good reputation. i mean, i am friends with the populair people, i cant compiments, and people always say they want to be me.
there is this kid in one of my classes, and i have gotten a very big crush on him. he is nice, sweet, and very cute. i did some asking around and i have found he is a loser. like .. dork kid. hanging out with other dorks.
i think dating him might effect my reputation, but should i go for him anyways?
some one please help me.
My thoughts on your question is...if you like the guy then go for it because for one...the "popular" kids are not the ones who will be dateing him and are not the ones whos happiness it involves...and if the "popular" kids are going to judge you on who you date then their not good friends to begin with, see the problem with alot of people in this world today is they are TO worried about what other people think and for one...its not the outside or the persons rep that counts its the inside and no matter if the guy isnt popular who cares? Problem in schools these days also is people are all about whos popular and whos not...I mean if so called popular people told you it would be cool to jump off a bridge....would you do it?...I would hope not but anyways what I am trying to say is...dont worry about what other people think and dont try to impress them just by dateing someone whos a little bit more their style because at the end of the day you wont be happy. Your gonna meet alot of guys and alot of friends guys and friends both come and go but if your friends stop being your friend if you date this guy then their not worth being friends with to begin with...I hope you understand what I am trying to say but anyways go for it...you shouldnt care about what other people think anyways because its your life not theirs...hope this helps.
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ALRIGHT PEOPLE! I need your help! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if i ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him! and I have a crush on him.. and hes funny and everything! but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me for me and not just for sexual stuff!!
Hey, well one way to find out if he's not just useing you for sex is if he's always wanting to do it like 24/7, then you should know that hes just in the relationship for sex and if you dont want that then make him wate for a long time befor you do anything with him besides kissing and huging and everything, and if he wates for you and wates untill you are ready to do anything sexual then he will wate and that would mean he cares and that hes not just in the relationship for sex....believe me thats the best way no matter if you want to do it or not, make him wate. I hope this advice helps,...Please rate.
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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly.
I'd say do something nice for her like if your old enough to cook her dinner and everything then do something like that, and one day out of the blue buy her red or white roses, white roses mean love, but every girl loves roses and tell her everyday how much you love her and never want to lose her and let her know how the little things she does for you are special to you and tell her how you cant live with out the thought of her being there by yourside...I say if you do anything I have written down then you will make your girl happy!...The roses thing will surely work, try getting 12 roses or more and make a special night for you and her like with some of the roses you buy and let the roses lead to you. If not that then you can print roses over the internet and tape the paper on the ground leading her to where your at...just do something really sweet for her to let her know how much you care for her. I hope this helps...if you need anything send me a question...Bye Bye-NikNik
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Hey im happy i can actually ask this to someone my age. I am a freshman and the boy i like is a junior. I have liked him for a while now, but i can never talk to him. I feel like i will just emberass myself or sound really stupid. He recently has started dating another girl so i kinda dont want to be asking this. We have so many things in common and alot of people say we would make a good couple. So if him and his girlfriend ever break up, im gonna need to be one of his friends. lol..... So for now..what should i do to talk to him...what should i say.......and how should i approach him..........plzz help
Ok, What I would do if I were you is I would just go up to him and have a conversation with him and if everything thinks you and him would make a good couple well then who knows maybe yall will hook up..maybe he doesnt know that your interested, and if he did then he would more then likely be with you instead of the girl who hes with now. But just be a good friend to him now and talk to him whenever you get the chance, hang out and i'm sure whenever him and his girlfriend break up then yes he will need to you be a friend to him and he will notice that you care about him because your there for him you know and you have to be good friends befor you can have a long lasting relationship. Just you know talk to him whenever you get the chance ya know and say well hey hows your day and everything i'm sure if you do that then everything will work out the way you want it to. Always remember..the best things come to those who wate so this is your chance. I hope this helps. If you need anything else just know i'm here. Bye-Niknik
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My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time??
Ok for one if I were you I wouldnt put your name on anything thats on the internet because there are some crazy people out there who could track you down and get any information about you they want but thats besides the point. I couldnt really tell you if he would come back or not but if he truely loves and cares for you then he will come back. But if he doesnt then that just means that hes not worth it. Theres a saying I have heard many times befor..."If you love someone let them go, if they come back it was ment to be and if they dont come back then it never was" Just look at it like this if he comes back then it means he truely cares for you. He could be wateing it out or something trying to figure out what he wants but just give him time and dont get your hopes up because alot of guys are jerks and they wont think twice about hurting a girl. I hope this advice helps! If you need anything just send me a message to my Inbox and tell me how everything goes! Bye-NikNik
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I have been talking ot a junior for 3 weeks. Im a freshman and we both go to the same school. He told me that he likes me and i said i liek him to i really do though but i kinda dont anymore. I dont know if i should give hima chance or what. I usuallyalways lead guys on becuause i liek them at one point then the other i dont. what should i do.
Just tell the guy that you just want to stay friends with him, dont lead guys on because it doesnt feel good and it hurts them when a girl leads them on, so just tell him how you feel and tell him that you just wanna stay good friends and see where that takes you! I hope this helps!-Nikki
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do?
Kiss the boy, whats the harm in kissing? How old are you anyways that could be A reason why your mom doesnt want you kissing anyone like if your really young or something but if your not really really young then I dont see why it would be A big deal kissing your boyfriend, I mean you have been dateing him for 2 months so just talk to your mom about it and see why she doesnt want you and your boyfriend to kiss because its not harmful or anything so just kiss your boyfriend, if I were dateing A guy I would kiss him specially after 2 months, thats long to be dateing someone when yall havent kissed so I say yall are doing A good job...just be careful and good luck!-Nikki
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ?
I had A friend in which she had a boyfriend who would be playing around and hit her and then he would get mad at her and hit her and at the end say he didnt know what he was thinking and that he was sorry and it would end up getting worse and he would hit her more and more and wouldnt want her hanging out with hre friends or anything and what I told her is that she needs to break up with him befor he ends up really hurting her and if they grew up and got married then he would beat her and beat her kids as well, so if i were you i would leave this guy, hes not worth it, if any guy can hit a girl then they are not worth it at all because a real man wouldnt hit a girl no matter if they were playing or not, one minute its playing then the next its serious, so dump this guy, thats the best thing you can do and just stay away from him. I hope this helps!-Nikki....*Feedback is greatly appreciated*
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my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do?
He more then likely just said he didnt have time for a girlfriend because he couldnt think of a better way to tell you that he wanted to break up, if i were you i wouldnt even worry about it, i'm sure you can find you someone else, and if hes haveing hoes at his house theres no telling what he could be doing with them and they could have STD's or something else and he could have sex with them and then if yall got back together if yall had sex he could give it to you, so if i were you i would just move on!..I hope this advice helps, tell me how everything goes!-Nikki..
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I am very new to this site and have only heard GREAT things about it. I have a very important question… I have never had a date on Valentine’s Day EVER!!! What can I do to make guys like me? I am very outgoing and intelligent. I am not the prettiest person in the world but definitely not the ugliest. If anyone can help, I would love to hear someone else’s opinion. Any help will do...Thanks!
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Honestly, I have never had a date for Valentine's Day either, but I dont let it get to me, I would say to try tlaking to some guys ya know and get to know guys and let them get to know you and just try to be really outgoing and i'm sure someone will ask you out on A date if no one ask's you out on a date on Valentines day, dont worry everything will be okay, i'm sure you will get a date with someone, when the time is right, remember Great things come to those who wate! But just be yourself and i'm sure everything will work out fine, keep your head up and try not to let not getting a date for Valentines day get to you, I hope this advice helps! Let me know how things go!-Nikki
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
wow, 15 thats very young to have a baby and to get married thats the age I am...But what I would do if I was yall was tell your parents, their going to have to know one way or another because your girlfriend cant get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption because thats not right, and if I were yall I would keep the baby, tell both of your parents and talk to them about if they think yall should get married and if yall are not ready to get married then just stay boyfriend and girlfriend and support your girlfriend the best way you can, yall cant hide it from your parents because it will eat you up inside and I think it would be best to tell them whats going on and that yall are scared and dont know what to do and dont want them to throw yall out on the streets or anything, I hope this advice helps, if you need anything else just feel free to ask me and i'll help you out the best way I can!-Nikki
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I dont know what to do I just moved to this new school. I still like this kid from my old school, and I know it might sound stupid but I really think we can be good together!! even though I might not see him again I still think about what we could of had.*help*
Jordan
I've moved pleanty of times in my Life and i'm only 15 and I did it all in 4 years to different states and everything and I had to leave the guys I thought would have been great for me but if your serious about him and hes serious about you then you could try to get together and if it doesnt work out then at least you'll know and it wont hold you back from meeting anyone new and haveing a relationship with someone at your new school...I hope this advice helps!-Nikki
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So I like this guy and everyone knows except him, and I am friends with him and all and I really have no idea what to do!! help!!
Just sit down with the guy and talk to him and tell him you like him or get one or your friends to tell him for you or...you could write him a note or letter telling him that you like him and you were wondering how he felt about you, and then see how everything goes because ya never know he could like you as well and if you dont tell him then yall would never get together so just tell him...I hope this helps!-Nikki
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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Just get up the courage and tell him...someone once told me that if you love someone you better tell them in case you lose them so just tell him how you feel and you will feel much better! I hope this helps-Nikki
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Me and my boyfriend were talking tonight i asked him what was wrong.. and he said nothing.. well im trying to figure out.. its been 8 months.. and idk if he wants to break up.. how do i ask him.. without it seeming like I want to break up?!
Talk to him about it more, tell him you and him need to meet in person because theres something you need to talk to him about and when yall get in person tell him that there has to be something wrong because hes not really telling you whats going on tell him that yall have to talk in order to have a relationship...and that he needs to be stright up and honest with you and he needs to tell you whats going on, whats bothering him and everything tell him you feel like hes not telling you whats going on and its makeing you feel like you've done something wrong, ask him if hes still happy with you and just sit down with him and talk to him and see how it goes, i hope this helps...feel free to ask my anything else you need help with!..-Nikki
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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there.
for one...the right guy will come to you when the time is right just lay back and have fun and dont worry about finding the right guy...he will find you,...dont hook up with guys untill you get to know them and untill you find yourself really likeing them and they find their selfs likeing you belive me theres someone out there for everyone but sometimes people try to hard...good things come to those who wate so wate it out and i'm sure Mr. Right will find you. i hope i helped! -Nikki
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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????
I see it like this your only 14 years old and that is not even right..That kind of age does not belong with a 25 year old man I think your mom did do the right thing by calling the police on him.. If you was my kid I would beat your ass and his..along with it.. Because all older guys want from younger girls is to get in their pants...You might have not had sex with him but I know it will happen sooner or later.. you don't need to be talking to this 25 year old much less dateing him...hes is way to old for you and you shouldnt even be friends with this guy because there is a such thing as rape...and thats what its called even if he hugs you, kisses you or even holds your hand! He's only acting like hes mad at you to make you be more interested in him and if i were you i would find someone my own age. i hope this may have gotten through to you because other wise you would end up hurt, or killed by this dude, or raped, or pregnant, i dont care if yall havent had sex yet..theres a such thing as pressering someone into doing anything with them,.Signed-Nikki & Heather
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ok so im goin to start off with the story..me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year and 9 months...and this new gurl popped up in the picture and shes "just a friend"...and me im not liking this..well one night he left my house and acted like he was goin home and goes over to her house to show her his new car soo he says..well i fliped out and yelled at him..soo now its been about 2 months and this is still goin on and i have told him i didnt like it and to stop..but its like he doesnt care what i say they hug in the hall talk on the phone text eachother when im with him..and i cant take it anymore..i have tried to talk to her about it and told her she need to lay off but she just dont get it..i need to know what to do about this cause im all out of clues..please help me soon..thanks..--BabyGurl--
The only thing I can tell you if he won't stop and all just break up with him and find u someone that will treat you a hell of a lot better then what he is doing to you now..So just get rid of him and move on with ur life..Hope I helped...
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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
no matter how nice he may seem he still wants the same thing every guy wants and i dont wanna offend you in away or anything and you have prob heard this befor but hes only wanting one thing, hes to old for you, hes trying to earn your trust so you will think he wont do anything, believe me i know i've dateing a guy who was 22 and he only wanted one thing although he didnt get it but the point in the matter is you dont need to give this guy a chance hes way to old for you, and he could go to jail for yall even talking to eachother. Find someone who is around your age that way no one will go to jail!...Your parents prob dont like the fact that your talking to a 22 year old because they know he only wants one thing and if the wron person found out about it then this guy would go to jail, hideing something from your parents isnt good because you would be sneaking around to try to be with this guy, chances are it wont work. i'm sorry if what i'm saying is rude or anything but i'm just telling you stright up. i hope you take this advice into consideration...just be friends with the guy, then no one will get hurt. Tell him if he wants to be with you to wate untill you a little bit older.-Nikki
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me and my ex went out for almost 9 months...he asked me out at the end of the school year and all summer long we never even saw each other..all we did was talk on the phone and he was always out with his friends partying and stuff and then school came and yeah things were great but it always seemed like i loved him more or i wanted to talk on the phone with him more than he wanted to talk to me...and like sometimes at school he would say we are definately hanging out this weekend..well the weekend would come and most of the time he would never call to say he was coming over so he practically ditched me...well i mean he wasnt that shitty but when we were together everything was so perfect and all our problems went away..and then when the 6th month came that we were going out is when we first actually started to do things with each other and have sex..and we argued over the stupidest stuff all the time and we would get over it..like it was an every day thing.. we would argue but we would talk about it and everything would be okay..and then all semester i was at home because i was grounded and i couldnt go anywhere but my parents let him come stay the night with me and stuff..yeah he did come over and hang out but it seemed like he liked his friends more than me..well he broke up with me 2 days after my birthday because he didnt want a girlfriend where we had sex everything would be okay and then we would fight again...he told me i could still share his locker with him and he still talks to me and flirts with me and i really like him and want to be with him again..and ill ask him if i get another chance but he always avoids that subject..but i know he still likes me because we talked on the phone one night and he was crying cause he missed me..and he wouldnt still be talking to me if he didnt like me, right? well what i wanna know is if you think he was just using me..cause i have to admit that he didnt give me the attention that i needed so i did throw myself at him and made myself to available..like no matter how shitty he treated me i would always come back to him...do you think he wants to get back together or what? im so confused cause for one i think he broke up with me for another reason and hes just not telling me..or sometimes i think he was just using me...he broke up with me for the stupidest reason..but he still acts like he likes me? i dont understand
one of my ex best friends went thought this except the difference is her boyfriend beat her and would call her saying sorry and she would try to get back together with him and he wouldnt and blah blah blah anyways, the advice i gave her is the same advice i'm going to give you...he isnt worth it, they would have sex and everything and not be together and i would consider him useing her for sex and thats what i think this guy is doing to you, hes useing you and if you dont get out now and stop letting him use you then you will be used by him over and over and over again and then you will be the one hurt in the end, if i were you i wouldnt give him anymore if you know what i mean and go and find you someone who wont use you and who will care for you, dont take crap from a guy, if a guy can use a girl for any reason at all then hes not worth your time, I hope this helps, *feedback is greatly appreciated*...~Nikki
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