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alright, so i moved into my new school last year (7th grade) and i didnt start of with a good reputation, because i was the new girl. but now a year later i have a very good reputation. i mean, i am friends with the populair people, i cant compiments, and people always say they want to be me.
there is this kid in one of my classes, and i have gotten a very big crush on him. he is nice, sweet, and very cute. i did some asking around and i have found he is a loser. like .. dork kid. hanging out with other dorks.
i think dating him might effect my reputation, but should i go for him anyways?
some one please help me.
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well...if i was trying to do the right thing i would say go get him if you like who cares what they think....but im gonna be truthful....if it was me...i would forget about him..because you want to be popular..everyone does..and of course if you want to be happy go with this guy..hed probly say yes in a heartbeat..but if you want to be popular you probly cant do that...so its your decision hunn hope i helped!
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i would never go out with a total loser but if you like him enough youll go for it if you care about how it will affect your reputation then you probably dont like him enough
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ok yes i agree that we all do value the opinions of others, but if ya like the guy those opinions shouldnt really matter. and yes it is a very shallow thing to say. F*ck your reputaion, if ya like the kid and he feels the smae way go for it. and i might add that nerds are some of the funnest and nicest people i have ever met.
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Hey!
Ok personally I think you might be alittle shallow if your caring so much about your "reputation". Does it really matter to you what the popular people think about you? cause i'm sure all the regular people don't really care if you go out with a "looser" if you think he is cute, nice, and sweet then there doesn't seem like there is anything to make him a looser. So I think you should go with ur heart, and if you like him ur heart should be telling you to go with him.
hope this helps
much luv,
marsbars
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if you like him enough go for it. if people like you for you they wont care. and wht if he is the one for you? would you give that up for a what a few people think.. i mean done of the stuff will even matter to you in 10 years anyways
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It will affect your reputation to an extent, but everything has a bad side to it. You can lose some popularity, but you'll still have friends and all. You shouldn't not go out with someone solely because they're a "loser." Dorkiness is in the eye of the beholder. Just because he's not too popular doesn't mean anything. And reputations come and go. Who knows---in a few years he could be that popular hot guy that everyone wants, but he won't go out with you because you judged him a while back.
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i had the same problem like a week ago. im not the most popular people adn i dnt have the best reputation but im a pritty nice person adn i ahve a a lot of friends in school and there is this guy that i liked and i wanted to ask him out and i will but i got asked by this other guy and well long story but i think you should go for it. if the "popular people" you say are your friends then they wont care who you like. i think it is inportant to be your own person last year i flaowed people around and did everything they did i hated it. now i do what i like and people admirer me more for that. its is nice to be your own person and do the things that you like. go for it! hope i helped
xoxo*becca*oxox
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first of all, you shouldnt hold yourself back from liking someone because of thier reputation. (remember, you used to be that "dork kid" yourself) i dont think it will affect your rep. if anything it will just help make his better.. bottom line: if you like him and he likes you - you should be together, regardless of popularity
*A*M*Y*
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My thoughts on your question is...if you like the guy then go for it because for one...the "popular" kids are not the ones who will be dateing him and are not the ones whos happiness it involves...and if the "popular" kids are going to judge you on who you date then their not good friends to begin with, see the problem with alot of people in this world today is they are TO worried about what other people think and for one...its not the outside or the persons rep that counts its the inside and no matter if the guy isnt popular who cares? Problem in schools these days also is people are all about whos popular and whos not...I mean if so called popular people told you it would be cool to jump off a bridge....would you do it?...I would hope not but anyways what I am trying to say is...dont worry about what other people think and dont try to impress them just by dateing someone whos a little bit more their style because at the end of the day you wont be happy. Your gonna meet alot of guys and alot of friends guys and friends both come and go but if your friends stop being your friend if you date this guy then their not worth being friends with to begin with...I hope you understand what I am trying to say but anyways go for it...you shouldnt care about what other people think anyways because its your life not theirs...hope this helps.
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that person is wrong, yes there is things such as dorks and popular people, the thing is who do you think you are whatever your name is, at the end of the day, you shouldnt judge people on a question
anyway ..... i was the new girl at a school once, i also didnt start with a very good reputation, and also a year later i settled in and got in with all the popular people, life was good and i found out about a guy in one of my classes, he was short and wore glasses, he was brainy an also a bit of a swat.
At the end of the day, do you not want to date him because you don't like him as a person, or do you not want to date him because it will effect your rep. its up to you but what ever you decide let me no!!
P.S. Moral of my story, i went out with him and am still with him today!!!
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Dating him can & probably will affect your reputation. If you're "popular" and this kid isn't "popular" THEN of course it will. You could lose friends from it too! =] But I wouldn't if I were you.
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who the HELL do you think you are.? sorry hun but sooner or later u will find that thoe popular people ar enot true friends. and the way your treating him.... i dont think YOU deserve this boy. and what the heck is a dork?? someone who wear glasses or is smart?? if your one of those people then you deff are not very smart. ugh you disgust me. there no such thing as a dork.. and theres DEFINITELY no such thing as a popular person... i hate CLIQUES!!!!!!! well you should think about the answer to your own question
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