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Welcome To My Advice Column!♥ I am a 13 year old girl and am very outgoing♥ My name is Adriana and I enjoy my life and solve my own problems♥ I help my friends a lot and easily understand people here♥ Also I try to get to as many people as I can, so don't take it personally♥ If you need to ask me any questions or need advice, ask me in my advice column♥ ~NeedAdvice21 (or A.K.A. Adriana)♥
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so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months and I really think our relationship is going really well. And well I was on the phone with him and he told me that he wanted to go further... and well we've made out and stuff but I don't know what is the next step without it getting to weird...so any advice?
he must mean getting in your pants and i know that sounds bad but only do it if you are comfortable! the guys usually make that move so you wont have to worry. only do things with him if you truly love him bc you will remember it the rest of your life!
Me and my bf have been together for 2 years now.We don't fight much these days but when we do he yelle at me and he really scares me sometimes.He really makes me upset and makes me cry then he says he's sorry and he said i should treat him better and i wont yell at u.He tells his family things that aren't true,but i really love him i dont want to break up
i know your in love but really is it worth it? you diserve better and you should not be treated this way if he thinks that you should treat him better. and if he scares you then whats the point? im sorry but it sound like this is not what u need
who is my soulmate
go out and find them
I am not a "love" person . Annd , I do usually ignore these posts and keep who I like secert , Usually hiding it by saying I don't like anyone .
Plus , I don't agree with dating at my age .
So , As horrible as it is , I have began to like someone . Not gonna lie , He's ughh very full of himself >.>
ANYWAYS , I do indeed try to ignore him , Keep away XDD .Butt , He talks to me and I don't mean to sound rude but ignoring someone when they start to talk to you is rather hard . Espically in dance .
I wont go into grieve detail why he's full of himself , He just is .
So , In other words Im a confused girl .
Well , How do I not give him the wrong impression ? I guess XDD .
if you want him to like you more then u should become friends first then it could go father from that
ok i really like this girl. i don't know what to do though, since she sometimes acts like she likes me, and yet others she doesn't. i also have trouble asking her out (because i am somewhat shy and/or a coward when it comes to that), but i really want to.
what should i do?
14/m
you never know if shes interested. you should just ask her out, just try to be calm and not panic. be cool and you could have a chance with her. If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21
Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help!
hi-maybe what you could do is is try to take her to a place were most men are, at work, in a mens store, or evenyou could do the online dating thing for her. i hope i helped. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21
for the first time i had phone sex. my boyfriend told me what to do but i didnt think it would be so plesent i dont know if know i should have sex with him? anyone please answer i'll give 5's
you should no what to do. if you really like him then go ahead. it really depends on if you are comfortable about it or not. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21
hi-i need your help. i really like this guy. he cute, funny, and athletic. i've talked to him before but only had one conversation. he also smiles at me and stays around me but never told me that he likes me. its obvious that he likes me but i might not see him again. since the school year his over, he graduated and i have two more year left before i graduate. the only memory i have about him is our middle school year book. he is going to a different high school then me (because i am switching schools and it goes into a high school) and i've never seen him out side of school before. also my friends always talk about him. they say how weird he is and are mean to him but its too late for me to stop it. also i wouldn't want to look stupid if i stand up for him. they think that he is a geek but actually he is one of the coolest guys in our school. (he isn't nerdy looking or has glasses or any of that stuff) i have no idea what to do if i see him. the next time i see him could be in 2 years and i already might have gotten over him. please tell me what to do. thanks!
you can't do anything about this. it isn't your fault that he didn't say anything to you or that you may not see him again. at least you will always remember him from your yearbook.
well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6months now. In the beginning everythign was all good. BUt now were always with each other and were always fighting and he always makes me the bad guy. i feel so bad when we fight, and i feel like our relationship is going down hill. i just need advice on how to keep our relationship together thanx
what you could do is try to work it out w/ your bf. maybe you guys could talk about. if he just starts fighting about that, maybe he's not the right one for you. sry. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21
okayy .. well call my boyfriend frankie. me and frankie have been together for 5 months. and we have our problems. but we cant stay apart. we broke up once for 2 days and then we both coodnt stand it. and last night we did again .. for 15 minutes .. and we hated it .. we talked about it and we wanna be together.
but frankie's friend tom, likes me. so tom has been telling me all this stuff that supposedly frankie sayin/gonna do (he's goina cheat on me, he wouldn't care if me and tom hooked up) but he's like you cant tell frankie about this ..
could tom just be tryin to get me to break up with franki cuz he likes me. because there was a RUMOR that i liked someone else and franki got pissed. and he got pissed off one day when tom wouldn't stop lookin down my shirt. doesn't that seem like the opposite of not caring if i hook up with tom ..? i think soo ..
that was question #1, is tom possibly makin that stuff up?
and question #2:
me and franki arent perfect. we argue alot. he doesnt always call when he cant keep his plans, and he works alot. and all my friends say i shoodnt take his shit .. but i cant help it .. im miserable w/o him .. ive never liked anyone as much as him .. is it wrong to stay with someone who doesnt' treat you the best, but still can make you feel better than anyone else .. because everyone's makin me feel like it is ...
sorry for lengthh! please help me ..
hi
question 1: i think tom is making it up. obviously he did that so he would convince you to go out with him if you and frankie break up. tom even could have started that rumor.
question 2: you could do what ever you want with frankie. when you break up, you guys hate it so you are obviously right for each other. also if the fighting gets too annoying, you could just work that out with him. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21