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Fighting
well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6months now. In the beginning everythign was all good. BUt now were always with each other and were always fighting and he always makes me the bad guy. i feel so bad when we fight, and i feel like our relationship is going down hill. i just need advice on how to keep our relationship together thanx
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aw, i'm going through the same situation as you right now, only mines getting better.
What i'm doing is, trying to just not get so over-worked-up about things, if he's swearing, tell him to stop, and if he doesn't, don't talk to him.
Maybe you guys need some space, see in my situation, i'm not seeing my boyfriend enough, so that's why were fighting.
Try not spending all your time, tell him to go hang out with the boys, and you hang out with your girl friends, and just try to clear your mind a little. :]
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what you could do is try to work it out w/ your bf. maybe you guys could talk about. if he just starts fighting about that, maybe he's not the right one for you. sry. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
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if you really do like him, stay with him. try to work things out. as in maybe do something sweet for him (make him dinner, or call him to say hi everynight before sleep.) try not to argue back when he starts argueing with you, get your point across without actually yelling.
if you dont really like him, maybe you should break up with him or take a break & tell him why. maybe you could have a better time with someone elsee. hope i helped !! =]
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The answer to this problem is simple.
Basically you need 2 sit down witht his guy of youres and talk 2 him about the problem,.
No-one in this situation is right or rong theirs just a glitch. Youneed yto understand this, the both of you. You need 2 also look at the relationship n c what could b better. I dont think dumping him now is the right idea.
Sit down n think what you and him collectively are not doing right. This problem cvan be resolved if you both agree 2 disagree.
Look at youre problems and talk 2 one another about the issues u BOTH feel are rong. After that give it 2 months n then if u still both feel like its not working then i suggest you rethink the relationship you have together
Hope ive helped let me know how it goes,
Anthony
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This may sound like impossible advice but I recommend that you do not argue for a week and see what you learn about your relationship. It is easier to do than it sounds. It is not possible to argue if one person refuses to fight; it takes two to have an arguement. So, if your boyfriend tries to engage you in a fight, simply do not fight back. There are several ways to avoid this, eg. say nothing; give him a hug and kiss; or say something like, "I have no resonse to that."
After the week of "no-fighting" is over, you will have a clearer picture of the real issues in your relationship.
Good luck with it.
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okay. first of all.
you said that you're always together.
maybe you both need some space.
why don't you go out with some other friends.
and let him do the same.
maybe you guys are just spending a little too much time together.
the fun part of a relationship is learnin new things about the other person.
it's almost what keeps the relationship growing.
so, take some time away from him.
i'm not saying break up, just do more things on your own.
second of all.
all relationships have problem.
it's healthy not to agree on everything.
but when you do start fighting a lot.
a good thing is to remember when you like him in the first place.
why you started going out with him.
remember the good things, through the bad times.
until you can work things out.
and third.
tell him how you feel.
tell him that you're tired of fighting.
tell him you want to work things out.
if he doesnt, his loss.
don't kill yourself trying to make things work.
i've done it before.
& all it gets you is an off and on, or a goodfornothing relationship.
hope i helped you.
♥ Savanna.
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Hey. Its normal to have little rough patches in a relationship. I have been going out with m wonderful bf for 5 months and it has been great! However, we also went through a little rough spot for like a few weeks. We would figgt often..we talked and communicated (very big part of a relationship)and we worked it out. We ddecided to plan fun stuff like being outside more,making each other food, walks, little romantic stuff like that. It really helped us and we dont fight a lot at all now. If you go a few days without seeingg each other..when you two do hang out it will be awesome! try it out. hopefully he wants to make it better just as much as you do. if he isnt trying to make it better like you are, consider a breakup because nobody desserves to be treated like the bad guy all the time like that. Let me know how it goes. IM me anytime on eatapasty
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Have relationship slow down.
Tell your boyfriend that you and him should just hangout once in a while. Or it will never workout.
Please have a good day and hopefully stay together and if he wants to breakup, He wasn't good enough for you anyway and you could probably do better anyway.
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