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Hi!I help anyone one who needs it.So,don't be afraid to ask me.I can help u w anything.{unless i don't understand.} if i can help you will u help me if i need it?Cuz i need some help 2.Anywho
i'll be :] 2 awnser your problems.My sign is Aqarius,i'm hiper and yet calm,dark and yet bright.People call me a hippy cause i luv peace signs. I am not a hippy.I luv givin advice 2 ANY1 so ask me ANYTHING.Don't be embarresed.If you want help just tell me.Iwill help. PEACE 2 U All!
-Ashton Eller :]
{Monica}
E-mail: GirlPurple11@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Tennessee&Georgia
Occupation: 6th grade school girl-LMS RULZ!!!
Age: 13
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Alright so, I went to a halloween party friday night at my friend's house. Her mom is cool, and let the guys who came stay the night. (which was only like 4 guys that could because of their own parents) And we were like messing around, dancing, singing and all that fun stuff.. then we were watching movies. And this kid who i thought that was one of my guy friends, but like never thought of anything more was watching the movie Rachel. and you know the reclining part of the couches? like on each side? So she was on one of those, and then i was laying with my feet over her and then the kid i was telling you about earlier who i thought was just my friend came, and was like oohhh Sam scoot over. So i was like sure. so i scooted to the inside of the couch and he was on the outer part. and like i get scared easily.. so like when we watched the movie I'd jump, and grab his hand. and then like he put his arm around me at one point and then i was holding his other hand while i had my head on his chest while we watched the rest of the movie and stuff. And like i eventually fell asleep on him for like 20 minutes like that then woke up. and then like i dunno. i kind of felt something, and then like whenever somebody saw us when we were watching the movie they'd be like "awwww you two are so cute! Are you going outtt?" and then we'd just be like "nopeee." But like I don't know like if i have feelings for him, or if i just liked having somebody to hold me like he diddd. How would i know thattt? Like how do you know if you like like somebody.? Thanks!!

Oh and I'm almost 15, and i'm a girl =] (link)
I think you were just scared.And,let me tell you how you know if you like some1:

1:When you go near the person,you get all blushy and nervous,cuz you don't know what to say,or do.
2:You always want to be around the person,so you know what they're doing,you literally puppy gaud them.
3:You always think about the person,can't get them off your mind.
4:And if any1 goes out with him,you'll hate that person.

One or ALL of these symtoms means you like the guy.


SO,I had a Halloween Party.
The person I like was there, I don't know him too well, but now I sure do. Whenever I used to see him & talk to him he would always be SUPER nice. Like, & i swear I knew he liked me, everyonee told me he even did. Anyways, at my party, I'd be talking to someone & he'd walk right in the middle of me & say.."move!" & then smile, even though i think he was kidding, it was kinda weird? I felt like he was trying to impress me, when he'd try to like pull my basketball hoop down, like he was strong or something. Then, I was like OH MY GOSH! don't you love my decorations?! & hes like yepp,, & then hed like rip one down & be like.."oh now what?! COME GET IT. SO i'd like start grabbing it & yanoo.. getting all like .. flirty? & such. Then when all of the girls were around his friend, he like started like pouting? It was weird. Then he would take pictures of me & be like, HA this is going on my myspace! & id be like talking, when hed take it & then he'd lay on my bed, & just look at me, because I was showing him my room. It was tottalyyy weird.

What was up with him?
Does he like me or hate me? (link)
By the sound of that he doesn't like OR hate you..............he LOVES you by the sound of that!Apparently his hormones are telling him you are attractive.{The guy i like does that to me too.} Apperently he wants to go out with you. Try making the first move,ask the poor guy out before he goes TOTAL tough and like goes goth or something.Ask him out.Just get it over with.The you'll be all like happy.trust me.{This is really interesting to me so,can i trust you?I want to see how it goes and if you need anymore help.So e-mail me at GirlPurple11@aol.com & tell me how it goes! I REALLY want 2 know!} :]
~Ashton Eller
{Monica}


i think i have fallen in love with my best friend, she acts like she likes me all the time. But she is in a serious relationship with somone right now. I dont know what to think because she somtimes acts like she likes me. i would literally do anything for her to just give me a chance.
what should i do? (link)
Dude,same here,exept I'm the girl.{i am a girlby the way} Do wat i do puppy gaurd,wait for her to come 2 you.Always have you eye on hur.Thats wat i do.My Situation ia little bit different thogh, Hope this helps you dude.peace.
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I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way. (link)
Dump him.See,when you are drunk,you DO have control of 75% what you do.So he DID do that because he wanted a good memory about being drunk and he might like that girl.Then again he might of not been drunck at all...






hey, I'm 14 years old and i really really realllllly like this boy i met this year at my new highschool. He's super nice and sweet and funny, but rather shy and softspoken if he doesn't really know you. But we've gotten to know eachother over the past 2 months and we are now friends. Recntly it seems to me as if he is prehaps showing some signs he likes me. We have 4 classes together one after the other so often we walk with eachother to our next class and he jokes with me the whole way. Also, i've caught him staring at me a few times, but whenever i catch him or he catches me we hold eachothers gaze for a few seconds before continuing what we were doing. I smile and laugh alot when he's around and he smiles when i talk to him and we always joke with eachother. But besides from school, we don't really hang out much or talk out of school, unless its a school function like a dance which we've had one and he said hi to me and we talked for a few brief moments. I don't ask much, but when i do ask he does favors for me and i do favors for him if he ever asks ( which he doesn't that often)
Now we talk comfortably in school quite often, but does he like me back? thanks for your help.
(link)
Wow!You replied FAST!Still Here,If you need help don't worry.i have 2 laptops,i'll be able 2 help u
tell me how it goes.I'll coach you.


The guy that I’ve fancied for quiet a while now recently hooked up with this new girl in out class. To be honest she is fun and nice and they make a nice couple but a few days ago we had a school disco and I just couldn’t help but feel jealous. We’ve never been close but I always wished we were and watching the two of them dance to the last song which was the only slow song I realized that I really want to be in her shoes. The next day some of the girls were telling her that he told one of his friends that he would sleep with her when she is ready and apparently he was very nice and considerate about it. At that moment I just wished I were his first one and then got thinking about it. I even thought of trying to get like friendly with him so to break them up but now I feel guilty for even thinking it, because it’s something that I consider low and cruel especially since I think they are a good couple. So now I just don’t know what to do, on one hand I want to be with him on the other I don’t see how I could be with him by playing fair. What should I do? (link)
Girl,I'm having the same problem as I write.Ok, Let's help each other!!!Frist you.The guy in my life is Dakota Gorsuch.{HOTTIE!!!}And he is going out with "skescraper" Kara Walker.He doesn't even like her!!He likes me.What you should do is do what we do.Hang in the hall,Talk before class,Hang after school.Exept Dakota always looks at me.But does he know you? Ask me for more I will help you til you get him!!! P{Will u help me 2?} :]


Ok, so me and my boyfriend[Brent] have been dating only a few weeks. Well today at our schools football game, one of his friends showed up[he doesn't even go to our school] his name is Sam.
Well, I was flirting ALOT with Sam. And then when my boyfriend left, I thought about how cute Sam was and how I actually liked him.
Which is pretty weird because he has a girlfriend & I have a boyfriend. But then he would come over and talk to me, and I would catch him staring at me. And then he kept hugging me and patting my back and all of that.
So what do you think? (link)
Stick w your man.Don't let him go,never let him go...until yu're ready to.


So there's guy, and (obviously) I have a crush on him. The trick is we have no classes together and I have no excuse to talk to him, even when I really want to. And then I get really nervous if I do try to talk to him and don't know what to say. What should I do?? (link)
Find your couage.Otherwise,you'll loose him 4-ever.And you'll spend the rest of your school years,wondering what could've been.
{I help ever1,need more advice?CONTACT ME.I WILL HELP YOU ALL} :]


i met this guy through my friend "stacey" and he asked me how you doin' like joey on friends! and i was all like aww then the next day we tlaked in the hallway and then he gave me a note that say your hot and to call him and stuff. stacey is going out with his cousin. Stacey is sometiems known to strech or bend the truth and same with her best friend "robin" whichim really good friends with too. they are both telling me he jsut uses girls to sleep with them and he is a jerk and lies. he IS SO CUTE THOUGH and my otehr friend told me that i should tottaly go for it. i dont get guys very often, idk waht i should do! HELP! (link)
This is a piece of cake,I'm a advice expert,so ask me anything,but for now...girl,i say go for the hot gold!if you don't,someone will.All you have to do is be alert and don't sleep with him!that's just crazy!!Don't let yourself be used, even though i don't know you,i know you are better than that.Main Advice:Don't sleep with him,that's for married people,duh,and don't let yourself be used,be aware!! {If you need my help,ask me,I help everyone.} But the choice is up to you!Make the right one!!! :}




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