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Unsure if he likes me
hey, I'm 14 years old and i really really realllllly like this boy i met this year at my new highschool. He's super nice and sweet and funny, but rather shy and softspoken if he doesn't really know you. But we've gotten to know eachother over the past 2 months and we are now friends. Recntly it seems to me as if he is prehaps showing some signs he likes me. We have 4 classes together one after the other so often we walk with eachother to our next class and he jokes with me the whole way. Also, i've caught him staring at me a few times, but whenever i catch him or he catches me we hold eachothers gaze for a few seconds before continuing what we were doing. I smile and laugh alot when he's around and he smiles when i talk to him and we always joke with eachother. But besides from school, we don't really hang out much or talk out of school, unless its a school function like a dance which we've had one and he said hi to me and we talked for a few brief moments. I don't ask much, but when i do ask he does favors for me and i do favors for him if he ever asks ( which he doesn't that often)
Now we talk comfortably in school quite often, but does he like me back? thanks for your help.
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Well, from reading what you've said, I think he does. He acts like it and if you guys have established a comfortable friendship thats always a plus. Guys like girls that they can be themselves around and not be self conscious about what theyre going to think about them. Once you guys have the friendship part down, which it seems that you do, maybe you should casually mention a second step.. Mention going out to the movies sometime, or going out to lunch/dinner/mall. Something that friends would do, but not something just lovers would do, you know? See how he feels about that and if he agrees to alone time at a movie, then he most likely likes you. Then see how things at the movies go and if it feels like you two click and are very comfortable then start gearing towards the dating aspect. But if things dont go that well and it just feels like you two are friends, then Id say hold off on those feelings until he mentions something to you. Play it safe. :)
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its possible, deffinately possible. im kinda in this same situation but i hear the guy say to one of his friends that he likes a girl that he just met a few months ago and might ask her out once he gets to know her.(i started talking to him about 2 months ago) anyway back to your question. try flirting with him a little. not overpowering whore flirting but just laugh and have those awsome gazes at each other. keep doing it and if he doesnt already know then he'll get the hint that you like him and if he feels comfortable enough with you then he might tell you if he likes you. good luck, anything can happen
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well it's obvious this guy doesn't dislike you. Little cutsey things like that actually do mean alot. You should bring up hanging out very casually, or bring up a subject you both are interested in and see if you can do something having to do with that. overall he seems like a nice guy and i think you should go for it. goodluck
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I'd say he has a crush on you, but, out of the confortable school enviornment, he might be shy otherwise. So you should try, without being too pushy to hang out or at least talk out of school. Take each step slowly, and easily, hope everything works out for you guys.
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I think he likes you, but to be sure you have to see how he acts around other girls. If you feel a bit more special in comparison then you can be sure. Maybe ask him out or dance with him at a dance and see how he reacts.
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