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do u know a way u could practice slow dancing WITHOUT a guy or friend or anything like just up n ur room>?

eh not sure. but i dont think so. um ussually it comes 2 u, u dont need 2 practice!

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I met my current boyfriend at the beginning of summer. We have been off and on many times. I'm 15 and he's turning 16 soon. I have no idea what to do about his birthday because first of all, we don't know eachother that well yet and we haven't been going out for a long time. Should I even get him anything? Or is a special birthday call, hug, kiss (I know it sounds lame) good enough?

birthday call, hug, kiss and a card is good!

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Ok..here I go...
I was going out with Aaron, and dumped him for his best friend, Josh. Now since his Josh hates me(we went out he dumped me), Aaron wants to go back out with me...and i said yes...but it's a long distance between us. Is it a good idea? Or no? Please help me!

um well it mite not be tha best idea, but hey.. GO FOR IT! lol, but if u ever meet another guy, that u really like, u gotta realize that aaron and u prolly wont work out, so go out with that guy cuz it will be easier on u. but for now i think its fine 2 do tha long distance thing.

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

ahhh who cares... give him a shot. duz age really matter???

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Ok i dont no what to do i have this guy friend that has been my friend for over 2 years and i really like him alot more then just a friend but i no if i ever told him i like dhim then just a friend he would freak out and i dunno what he would do but i still want our friendship to be there and i feel if i tell him that i like him he wont talk to me or something

u dont have 2 seperate ur friendship over that, honestly. u can like him (and tell him) and u guys will still be friends. SO TELL HIM.

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

im going 2 8th grade and ive never had a bf. or been asked out or nething.(and im not like ugly or nething lol)lots of ppl my age havent. (and yer age) so dont even worrie about it. it will happen wen ur ready. but its totally normal!!

xx HoPe I hElPeD xx

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I really like this guy,

but he likes my friend... i told him like 100 times i liked him but he dont care.. he just keeps on focusing on my friend you see..

he wont even spend time with me like hang out and get 2 know each other more.. than how he started liking my friend in the first place.. what do i do! i like him so much! i cant stop liking him or thinking about him

omg. thats tuff. well maybe u shud back off for awhile. leave him alone, stop telling him u like him and just let it be. cuz after awhile things change. trust me i know, things r always changing. give it sum time. maybe like 2 weeks without talking 2 him 2 much and after that start 2 talk 2 him more if he isnt still crushing over yer friend.


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I'm 14/f, and my best guy friend is really awesome, so awesome infact that I actually like him as more than a friend. The problem is, I liked him before too and I told him then and he (atleast then) liked someone else. I really like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!

just tell him u like him, and if he likes u 2, then that shuddnt ruin a friendship it would just make it "more friendly" lol yea and if he duzent like u like that, u just have 2 move on, but that wont hurt tha friendship i dont think. just take ur chances!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..

hey! um hes prolly checkin u out. maybe he has a crush on u. um wen u guys pass each other again go and talk 2 him. ask him wut his name is and ask wut classes hes in and stuff. and like if u guys talk a lil more ask him 2 homecoming!! GoOd LuCk aNd I HoPe I hElPed!

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There`s this guy I like. I`ve known him for a couple years, just never talked much. Now he`s talking to me a lot more & stuff & he`s in one of my classes. How do I like start convesations & stuyff. I feel so stupid asking this. *blushes*

well ummmm just like ask if he saw a certain movie.. or talk about tha class u have 2getha. and maybe ask if he needs ne help in tha class (and maybe u can tutor him) just smile a lot and talk 2 him more. and stuff.


i hope i helped

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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

tha only problem with that is if they r always talking about video games and computer stuff.. that drives me nuts. otherwise its perfectly ok. cuz so many guys play video games. and thats cool. maybe even a turn on, exept if they blab on about it. like i sed, ok bye!

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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?

i think thats fine. =)

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I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do?

well on full house.. tha one dad guy he always found sumthing rong in everyone he dated since his wife died.. because he was scared i think. and he looks 4 things 2 be wrong in ppl. maybe ur scared 2, or maybe u juz havent found tha rite guy... he will come, in tha meantime, dont be negative, look 4 the positive in guys!!!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone

start it off by asking wut he did that day and then tell him wut u did. and it will lead 2 sum other stuff 2 talk about.. ask if hes watching tha olympix or sumthing... idk.. but it will come 2 u wen u talk 2 him.

XoHoPeIhElPeDoX

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how do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? (guys and gurls answer this!) what are some signs and if i can tell he does should i just make the move or wait for him to? give me some help on kissing! muah** lol thanks!

maybe if he is staring at ur lips, or if hes licking his lips.. thats all i can think of.. and umm not sure wut u shud do, but maybe wait till he moves closer, then move in.. lol i dont know why im giving advice on this, ive never kissed sum1.. lol. but ive seen it on movies and stuff.. lol idk.... in sum kind of crazy way i hope that helped!

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What's the difference between Taking a break and breaking up! I always saw taking a break as just an easy way of breaking up with someone...like just a nicer way ya know!

I dont have experience in this or w/e but i think it means that ur seeing ur other options and seeing if ur still worth it and seeing if they wanna still go out with u.. and maybe u'll be back 2 gether soon.. u know??? it also could be a easy way 2 brake up w/ sum1.. but i dont think thats exactly wut it means..


HoPe I hElPeD

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Does anyone know any quotes that are about love and her liking him so much and him not liking her at all? I need some for my profile... ANything about love will do! Thanks a bunch!

iLL rate you a 5 for a quote..whether i like it or not lol

i made this one up tha other day.. not sure if its good.. prolly not.. not sure if its really a quote... but.. here it is:

~After u "were in love" and ur heart was broken.. ur hurt for like a month.. then u think to urself... why the hell did i like him.. and u realize.. i wasnt in "love" and then u think... "wut is love?" and i guess u wont know.. until u are in love and get hurt and i month later ur like.. "wow i still love him"~

Tell me if its good okay??? and i know so many quotes.. so let me know if u need sum other ones.

HOPE I HELPED

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I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me

PEACE

well try talking to her.. dont yell or ne thing.. i do that all the time and it never works.. lol but maybe let her know that u really really like him and u will still be with him even if she duzent exept that ur with him and stuff but tell her that ud want her 2 be okay with u going out with him..and if she still isnt okay with it.. just say sumthing like, well imma be with him, becuz he makes me happy, and u cant take that away from me. lol, umm well idk u can say w/e but that mite work.. lol, that prollie sounded really weird.. did it make sense at all?? hope it did and i hope it helped!!

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ok i love my boyfriend but i havent told him yet bc i know he doesnt feel the same way about me. what do i do? do i tell him how i feel anyway? thanx!

*Juzt tell him, u realli need 2 let him know how u feel.. if he duzzent feel tha same way, then o well atleast u let him know wut was in ur hart and told him u loved him.. hes ur boyfriend so he obviously cares for u.. and who knows maybe if u tell him u love him he will say it back. you never know.. if u tell him, u'll feel grate about it after.. trust me. so go 4 it and tell him, but try to say it @ tha perfect time*

Xo HoPe I hElPeD a LiTtLe oX
nicole

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this is a really stupid question but whatever, i know this guy for a while, hes always telling me that i like him does he like me? thanks a bunch

he mite like u. he prollie duz. and next time he tells u that say and u like me.. or sumthing and see wut he says....

hope i helped

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