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Names Gina, 15.f. Ill get straight to the point..Theres this guy(17 yrs old) and I started talking to him at the beginning of july. I realize that it has not been a long time since we have started talking. He was apparently engaged before..But i think she left him for another guy. Well anyways, I keep bringing her up and he started crying once on the phone with me..I really try not to bring her up but its involuntary. Any suggestions? (link)
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I agree with snickerzz11. Just tell him you'll always be there for him, no matter what the problem is and just try your best to make him happy and/or laugh so his mind isnt concentrating on her.
Maybe then he'll talk about it on his own.
Good luck
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so i was dating this guy for 8 months and 3 of them he was in new york because his mom sent him away. his mom really hates me and i don't have a clue why? everytime he would call me from her phone and not call private she changes the number. when he was away he found out his ex girlfriend was prego with his baby and was fine with it until he got back. we hung out for like three weeks and then he broke up with me out of the blue. i ran away with him and the whole thing is quite confusing so i wont explain everything. anyways all of his friends are telling him he doesn't need me, and that i'm just a distraction when he should be worrying about his baby. i really love him. i mean if i didn't i wouldn't have stayed with him while he was gone for 3 months. i have tried everything to get back together with him and it just wasn't working so i gave up and started hanging out with this other kid, and he (my ex) doesn't know. but the other night he called me and said he missed me and wanted to get back together but i don't want to hurt this other kid what do i do? (link)
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stay with the new guy you met. It may be hard on you for awhile, but if he chooses his friends opinions above his own, then he isnt right for you. He should be able to make his own decisions, and his mom probably doesnt like you because he is a "momma's boy". It probably doesnt have anything to do with you, shes just overprotective (maybe?)
but he has a kid, and his mom is unwilling to let her 'baby' to grow up. so it isnt worth the trouble. there are plenty of better men out there.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and lately we've been going through a hard time. I thought I could trust him, but like I have issues with sites like myspace and facebook and stuff like that because of things that have happened in the past. But like he was having a hard time of having his friends know about me so I asked him if he would change his status on facebook to in a relationship. After a while of trying to convince him, he finally did. That was a few months ago though and the other day I looked on his facebook and it said single... I feel like he's maybe trying to tell other girls that he's free and stuff but I don't know. And like I also asked him if he wouldn't use it that much anymore and the last week I had a feeling he was using it still, and I asked him if he was using it and he lied straight to my face and said no. But then tonight I wanted to see if it was true and it wasn't... he was on it..and like I don't know. I'm in love with him, but like... I can't trust him online.. (link)
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yeah, if he keeps doing that, i would dump him... seriously... hes not a man at all. i wouldnt be surprised if he was 15.... thats terrible...
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How would a girl know if she were pregnant...like how long from the actual sex would it take to be able to tell? (link)
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i would say about 3-5 months, maybe less. it depends on the girl too. also, if theyre late on their period (miss one or two [or even spotting]), theyre more emotional then they usually are, they are often tired or fatigue, cramping, backaches, swollen or tender breasts, nausea (morning sickness), headaches, frequent urination, the skin around the nipples may get darker and food cravings... theres more, but you should google it.
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17/f.
ive been really good friends with this guy for a couple years. he's always liked me and i liked him a while ago. one night he completely flipped out and thought a lot of things happened which didnt. it was kinda hard for me cause i liked him and everything. well i guess he is a schizophrenic. its been almost a year since that happened and he's on medication and he seems better. im beginning to like him again, and that isnt really a problem, cause i know he likes me too. i just dont want him to flip out on me again, what should i do? (link)
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are you sure hes a schizophrenic? well, anyways, doesnt matter if he was, because this goes for any mental illness. but if you really like him, then you guys can work it out.
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Psychologists have proved that the more you see a certain face, the more attractive it will become? (link)
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i think its true. its happened to me before.
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i have a boyfriend.(been going out for about a month).and we were good together, but now all of a sudden something doesnt feel right...just how he's been making comments about me and then is like just kidding just kidding, and the other day i got a message from one of his friends thats a girl, and it was like "we need to talk, its important" (i dont really know her) so now im worried..i dont wanna break up with him though because we're still good ..but its these small incidences and past experiences that tell me to keep my guard up.
dont know what im asking..but any help??
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keep your guard up, but not for too long.... just find out what the girl wants. dont be afraid, ok? if what she says is bad, then confront him about it. if he still wants to be with you and says shes lying or whatever believe him. and if something he says really hurts you, tell him nicely if he can stop saying that because it hurts your feelings.
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14/f I like my best friend, but he has a girlfriend. How do I stop liking him? (link)
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well, you cant help who you like. only time will tell. not only that, but they could stop going out at any time.... if you get what im saying *wink, wink*
well anyways, if that ever happens, you should tell him how you feel. but not too soon...like a week.
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Okay, well.. let's see I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year.. and it's the first year that i've known him for. And well my friend decides to tell him something that I don't know. So later on today, he asked one of my good friends heres a lay out of what he asked the convo between them:
The guy I like : Hey , you know Betty right? Your good friends with her right?
My friend: Oh yeah why?
The guy I like : Well.. because I heard that she likes me? someone said that she likes me..? Is it true?
My friend: Ohh uhmm.. I don't know.. I don't think so?
The guy I like : Oh.. alright.
And then they went on about some other thing about the project we were doing.. and he always looks at me we do the whole '' when I look at him and he turns to look at me I turn around like I wasn't looking at him and he does the whole same thing'' And we havne't really talked either.. like we have so much in common but never really gotten the chance to talk to him. For example we would be in class filling out some thing that we had to go around to everyone in the room and we looked at eachother and then went seperate ways..
Out of all this that I told you .. what do YOU think?
THANK YOU SO MUCH
Lot's of love , Bettyy. (link)
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he could like you... but then again, he could just be curious... just tell him how you feel, you may not get rejected... i'd say its still a 50/50 chance, but i think he likes you ~_^
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me and this boy have been mates a long time - we started gettin realy close around xmas. about 4 weeks ago we were out with some friends and me and him went off because he was upset so i followed him - he told me he really liked me and we kissed. the next weekend we were out in town with everyone again and me and him went off and kissed again n sepnt lots of time alone together. during the week after that i found out him and this girl he used to like but they fell out were friends again - i asked if that was it and he said yes just friends - then i found out the next weekend they were together and kissed etc. he told me he didnt know who to choose. in the end he said he just wanted tp be friends. the next week at a party i got drunk and got upset because he was there and i was crying and he follwed me n talked to me tried t make me happier but also said i had to try get over him. later that night me and another guy got together. the guy i like later said we needed to talk - he said to be careful with the guy i got with that night - i asked why and he said he was jelous, then he kissed me. the next mornin he said that what happened that night between us had to be forgotten. so over the next week i tried to get over him and i thought i had - i sa whim yesterday and relised i havn't we were talking etc like friends but i really like him and i do not know what to do!!!
sorry for the essay there but i really need help and i really really like him!! what can i do??
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ok to be completely honest, is that drinking and getting drunk is not the solution to your problems. whether you were stressed or not. and another, is that you need to forget him. why be with someone who is just going to cheat on you and then play stupid mind games and keep running back to you? hes stupid. just leave him alone.
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so basically, about the middle of my first semester junior year, i started liking this guy in my history class. i decided to tell one of my really good friends...and then a few days later, she decides to go out with him. it's a lot more complicated than that, but they kept going out until about 3 weeks ago when she was complaining to me about him. the next day, HE broke up with HER...haha. anyways, that entire week, he'd been flirting with me like crazzzzy. he always flirts...always. i mean, he flirts with other girls, too, but my friend always catches him staring at me in class and he's always saying dirty jokes around me...it's obvious flirting. but when i had told my friend i liked him, she ended up telling him and he obviously didn't feel the same way. now, i'm so confused, it's driving me crazy. i wanna go up to him and say something, but that's so awkward. what should i do? or how can i like...tell if he's just being flirty or whatever? (link)
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i would leave him alone. guys are usually stupid like that... they give you mixed signals when they really dont mean to. i would reccommend waiting until youre a little bit older so you can start dating other guys. guys are mentally 3 years behind. i know this sounds hard, but really, its worth the wait. guys are very immature, and girls grow up faster then guys do. and no offense, but if youre friend was a "good" friend, she would have left the guy you liked alone. i know people cant help who they like, but they should always consider their friends' feelings at all times. sometimes it cant be helped, but if a friend was a friend, then they would just look for someone else and at least try to ignore their feelings for this guy. maybe im being to hard on her, but the fact is is that i hate that crap. i had to put up with my so-called best friend falling in love with one of my ex-boyfriends. they never did go out, but that still made me mad... sorry, i got off topic :D
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I have this boyfriend whom ive been with for 6months and I really love him the problem is that I also have feelings for this kid that I have liked a really lot since middle school. We were always very closed and liked each other we just never went out. I always thought he would be my first sexual experience. He is telling me know that he wished we were going out and that he made a big mistake by not asking me out. He says he cares alot about me. I don’t know what to do my boyfriend and I have started talking about having sex (im still a virgin). The problem is I don’t know if I should have sex with him if I still have feelings for this other guy. I don’t want to hurt him and break up with him because im not sure what will happen with this other guy. Please help (link)
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you are absolutely right. you should not have sex with him if you still have feelings. basically its not fair to him if you were to do that and he spent 6 months on a relasionship with you. you got to tell him in one way or another. and also, make sure on who you have sex with because im still living my mistake each and every day. i actually had sex with some inconsiderate jerk-off who loved to lie to me to make me sad. and i finally found someone who loves me, and the person i want to spend the rest of my life with... i wished it was him that i lost my virginity to. so, im not trying to be your mom, im just trying to help. hopefully i helped.
Good Luck
Mistress Slipknot
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i met a boy from another town in december. weve talked on the phone and on facebook since, but now we havn't communicated for two whole weeks now. it would be so akward to call him, but hte thing is, i really miss him. i think about him all the time. i even have dreams with him in them somtimes. part of me wants to tell him i miss him and am always thinking about him, and the other half of me thinks that might freak him out. but he could be feeling the same way but not want to admit it. what should i do?? (link)
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go for it! im sure he may feel the same way. maybe something came up? like something bad, or maybe hes sick or something. i dont see anything wrong with it.
Good luck
Mistress Slipknot
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I won't bore you with the whole story. Instead, I'll tell you that:
*We went out before. But it wasn't "officially" a date. We went out for coffee, and the next week went out for dinner and a movie. He paid for everything.*
*He works ALL the time (till the wee hours of the morning.) So during the week our main form of communication is texting. However, he doesn't usually initiate the text conversations.
* I don't see him more than once or twice every two weeks because he's so busy.*
*When we do go out, there is lots of good chemistry, eye contact and body language. However, this has been going on for at least a month and he hasn't made a move.*
*He doesn't mention other girls he likes or might be seeing.*
How can I tell if he likes me, or if he's just being friendly? (link)
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to be honest, he could like you, but then again, hes too busy anyways. i would just ask. the reason i didnt really answer your question is that it highly depends on the guy. guys show they care in different ways. maybe he is just a hard-working guy and just wants to be successful?
hope i helped
Mistress Slipknot
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Alright, about to spend Valentine's day alone
and i want a boyfriend
any ideas of personalities or looks i should look for
How do you tell if a guy likes but, is to shy to ask you out
What's a good way to flirt
Also, I have a Stalker
How do i let him down without being very rude
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well, you dont always need a boyfriend. i mean, i understand deeply where you are coming from, but you need to understand that Valentine's Day isnt a good reason to have a boyfriend. having a boyfriend should be about falling in love with them, sharing a deep bond or friendship that no one else could possibly understand besides those who have gone through it, and just liking that person. but if you really want one, i do not know what kind of personality traits to look for. only you know the answer to that. but he should be someone who you can relate to (so you have a LITTLE understanding between each other), he is kind and patient, and sweet. guys like this i'll admit are very hard to come by. as for how to tell if a guy likes you is also hard to tell, because it depends on the personality, because not all men are the same as a lot of women have you believe. some guys will show you that they like you in different ways. some show you by being mean, and other times they will be more outspoken and basically tell you. like say youre beautiful, always smile when they hug you or talk to you. it highly depends on the guy, like i said. good ways to flirt are:
*wink at the person
*push him playfully and laugh at things he says
*Smile at him often
*lay your head on his shoulder
*always compliment him
and as for your stalker, tell him the truth
tell him that you dont want him stalking you anymore, and tell him to leave you alone. which in your opinion probably doesnt sound very nice. but what can you do? if youre too nice he may stick around
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My boyfriend is taking me somewhere romantic tomorrow and i have no idea where it is. But anyway i obviously wanna get him something and since i cant take him anywhere since hes doing all that i was thinking i could buy him the scrubs season 4 dvd because he wants it really bad, and burn him a cd and make him a card. but im not sure if thats good enough considering hes taking me somewhere amazing and paying for my dinner and stuff! does my present sound good? does anyone have any other creative ideas? (link)
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in my opinion, thats excellent! theres nothing sweeter than taking the time out of you day to make him something. im sure he'll love it. and if he wants the scubs dvd so bad, he'll love im sure.
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ahhhhh so I'm verrryy good friends with this boy right (15/f hes 16). I have a suspicion that he likes mee. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. But this isn't like the other questions, because I DON't like himm! Just as a friend, and so I think he's breaking up with her for me, because that's what one of his friends said. I don't want that because I just wanna stay friends with him, nothing more then that, like im not attracted to him! So what should I do, because I really don't want him breaking up with her, and I especially don't want him hitting on me if they do berak up
Also, we chill a lot. Like outside of school. So he might not be interested in dating me, so I'm pretty sure he won't ask me out, but he could try to hook up with me, and rejection is preeetty badd. So I have noooo ideaa what to do! (link)
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ask him if he likes you. if he is really breaking up with her for you, he should tell you the truth right? if he says yes, then tell him the truth. tell him you want to stay friends and thats it.
good luck. hope i helped
Mistress Slipknot
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yeah, so valentines day is tomorrow.
and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week, and day.
i don't think he's getting me anything.
so i guess i'm not getting him anything either.
but its fine, i guess because we haven't been together long, at all.
so what can i do? to make valentines day cute for us? =/
urgent (link)
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well, you guys can go to the movies, and then go out for a picnic or something and then curl up in a blanket to look at the stars or something like that. its difficult to say because i do not know whether or not your parents would allow that.
good luck, hope i helped
Mistress Slipknot
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I told my best friend that I am bi sexual and has feelings for her she said she doesn’t feel the same way. I try my best to get over her but its different cult. When class started in my j.r. college I thought to myself this is a good time to get my head straight and be busy to not think of her. But she asks me what time I have my one hour English class and I said at 3 to 430. She has a car and I don’t so she was being kind of enough to take me. (she has class at 530) But I saw her at school waiting for me when I get off the city bus. We talk and hang out and have fun before I go in to class. (I arrive an hour early for class because of the bus schedule.) I see her every Monday and Wednesday, I ask her why she is here early and she said “so I can spend time with you.” when I go in to class I can’t focus I think of her and wonder what to talk about after my class. I try to pay attention but she’s distracting me. So what should I do? I want to get over her and see her as a friend because I don’t want to still like someone who doesn’t feel the same way.
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its ok. this happens alot. i once felt the same way about this guy named Allan. he was constantly on my mind, and there was little i could do to stop myself. i know its difficult, but im not sure how to answer you question, because these things take time, for me it took me two years, but not everyone is the same. its not your fault for liking/loving someone that doesnt like you the same way back. you cant help who you fall for. i know i didnt really answer your question, but i hoped i helped even if it was a little bit. good luck
Mistress Slipknot
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so i like this guy alot. i only told my one guy friend whose friends with him and he said i should ask him out. even though he has a girlfriend. but the thing is there not really together. i know its weird but idk. i really want to spend more time with him and get to know him better and my friend said he will introduce us more tomorrow but the thing is im really shy and i dont know what i would say.
im not sure what im asking here. advice maybe? or just things to tell me?? idk please help!
ps: im clueless (if i dated him he would be my first bf) (link)
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well, just ask what he likes to do and what his favorite tv shows, etc. are and if you have any of the same intrests, and start another conversation when he says something you like. like say he likes rock music, and so do you. you ask him what are his favorite rock bands and he replies and if he says a band you like tell him that you like it and ask which song is his favorite, etc, etc. sorry if its sloppy and not too comprehendable. im horrible at explaining things at times.
good luck
Mistress Slipknot
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