Question Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 9:17 am
so basically, about the middle of my first semester junior year, i started liking this guy in my history class. i decided to tell one of my really good friends...and then a few days later, she decides to go out with him. it's a lot more complicated than that, but they kept going out until about 3 weeks ago when she was complaining to me about him. the next day, HE broke up with HER...haha. anyways, that entire week, he'd been flirting with me like crazzzzy. he always flirts...always. i mean, he flirts with other girls, too, but my friend always catches him staring at me in class and he's always saying dirty jokes around me...it's obvious flirting. but when i had told my friend i liked him, she ended up telling him and he obviously didn't feel the same way. now, i'm so confused, it's driving me crazy. i wanna go up to him and say something, but that's so awkward. what should i do? or how can i like...tell if he's just being flirty or whatever?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cheerxleader14 answered Thursday February 14 2008, 11:02 pm: it doesnt sound that your friend is as good as a fried as you thought. I would also just let it go. him and your friend. if he texts or calls you or tries to be near you or anything then he probably likes you or i could be worng but if he just does that then maybe hes just flirting..its really hard to tell with guys..they like to mess with are heads. i wish you good luck!
MistressSlipknot answered Thursday February 14 2008, 8:18 pm: i would leave him alone. guys are usually stupid like that... they give you mixed signals when they really dont mean to. i would reccommend waiting until youre a little bit older so you can start dating other guys. guys are mentally 3 years behind. i know this sounds hard, but really, its worth the wait. guys are very immature, and girls grow up faster then guys do. and no offense, but if youre friend was a "good" friend, she would have left the guy you liked alone. i know people cant help who they like, but they should always consider their friends' feelings at all times. sometimes it cant be helped, but if a friend was a friend, then they would just look for someone else and at least try to ignore their feelings for this guy. maybe im being to hard on her, but the fact is is that i hate that crap. i had to put up with my so-called best friend falling in love with one of my ex-boyfriends. they never did go out, but that still made me mad... sorry, i got off topic :D [ MistressSlipknot's advice column | Ask MistressSlipknot A Question ]
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