Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
E-mail: m_marie88@yahoo.com
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Hey i need sum help so here it goes.... I like this guy but he lives about 2 hours away from me and idk wat i should do like he tells me he likes me alot and all and he wouldnt know wat to do with out me and he said someday we will meet and stuff but im kinda scared to meet sum1 over the internet..wat do u think should i forget about him or wat? (link)
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Whoa I wouldn't take that chanse he could make up anything that he thinks you'd want to hear, he could be a serial killer for all you know. And how can some one "not live with out you" if you's havent really met? But yeah I would deffenitly not take that risk
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dear megan
its 6 AM and i cant sleep i have no one to talk to at this hour so i thot id let it all out on here. I like this guy n he tells me he likes me a lot n is always sayin he misses me hugs me alot.But hes with another girl. And i just dont think its unfair that he tells me these things and is still with her.it hurts REALLY bad and most people dont know it but it makes me cry a lot. And i dont know what im suppose to do. Am i suppose to wait to see wut happens with his girl friend?That hurts a lot too. The way he talks to me makes me want to wait for him but im afraid ill be waiting forever. and i know you'll say talk to him about it. But i do! When we talk about it though he tells me he does like me a lot and wants to give his girlfriend a chance though.hes one of my best friends also. When i think about givin space between him and I like not talking as much or calling him im afraid he'll think i was only his friend because i had a "chance". He already thought that and i dont want him to think he was right. I just dont know what to do. I'll think im over it and then he'll say the right thing n im back where i started. Its killing me i cant sleep. So now when he says things to me like " i love you " n compliments me it makes me mad because its almost like hes teasing me. And his girlfriend will rub it in my face. But when i do talk to him i get butterflies n my heart drops n i smile alot n talk to him for hours. We are so alike its almost scary. I just dont know what to do. It hurts to wait . But then im scared if i move on n then somethin does happen n they break up it'll be too late and i'll miss out on it. He tells his friends he wants to be with me if they break up. Its almost like he changes his mind. like what he only feels what he says when hes not with his girlfriend. I hate this feeling i dont think ive ever felt it before and its makeing me feel helpless... please Megan help me its killing me more than any of yous know. Im like in tears and im not a very emotional girl.You know that.damn it....ok im out (link)
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Okay I know you cant help who you like and everything but I really think you should move on. What kind of boyfriend is he to say he wants to break up with his girlfriend and then tell some girl that he likes her and everything know what I mean? What if you and his guy hook up? I mean then your gunna worry about if he's doing the same to you. I just think its not worth the tears for some one who I think is just leading you on becuase he's either afraid to hurt your feelings or just got to caught up and is just going on with it b/c he cant be like o well i dont like you or have feelings for you any more. You need to have a serious talk with him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel. You'll feel alot better and you'll have a load off your chest!
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ok so i have liked this guy ever since i met him in the summer. Its now december and i think about him all the time and i wonder if he ever thinks about me. Like i saw him at the mall and talked to him on the fone. the thing is as soon as me n my frined left his house i started liking him. Which is what always happens! we talk to this guy n right away if i think there cute n stuff i get attracted to them n like them! n well it sux bc this one i kant get over! I hardly ever even talk to him n hes a "pimp" n i really wish i knew what he thought of me but i cud never ask him! N idk when we cud hang out..it really just sux not knowing. And i dont wamnt to ask him bc im afraid he'll wont like me! what to do?? (link)
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Just talk to him whats the worst that could happen? I mean yeah he could say he doesnt like you back or what ever but at least you'll know. And hey he might just like you and is waiting for you to make the first move. And about him being a "pimp" well you cant always believe what you hear.
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Ok, heres the deal. Before being with my boyfriend now (we have been togehter for a month and a half now). I was in a relationship for a month with someone who I thought I loved. Well, lately, my ex and I have been talking and we both have feelings for eachother. But I like my boyfireind and I love being with him. He is the best boyfriend ever but I still have those feelings for my ex. Hes getting ready to go to Basic Training for the Army Reserves. I want to atleast kiss him goodbye but I think it might be wrong and inappropriate. But, he was the best kisser ever and I think it might give me some closer. What should I do? (link)
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It's always hard to just give up on some one especially if you and this someone were dating but if you kiss your ex then just think your risking your relationship that you have now for someone who isnt going to be around much longer. I think you should just say your good byes and leave it at that.
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well i have this "friend" n he decided outta nowhere he's not talking to me anymore. So he starts to like this "home wrecker"(as some ppl might call it;)} and his friend tells me that he knows this girl is gonna screw him over n even i know that, n that he'll eventually come back to me casue he always does after everytime a girl does this to him. n his sister n dad like me, but he doesnt! is it cause im a fat ugly cow???? (link)
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I highly doubt your a fat ugly cow lol And as for this home wrecker...kick her ass lol just kidding Screw her and his guy obviously he isnt worth your time. But to piss them both off you should hang out with his sister and still keep in touch with his dad. But yeah he isn't worth your time especially if hes just going to fall back on you.
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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks (link)
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Why don't you try going out with some other guys to the movies or something adn see if you are attracted to any of them. I'm sure you'll get your mind off of him if your with some one else. Try it out and see if it works!
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i really like this kid evan. and we were at a party a couple of weeks ago and he was like hugging me a lot and flirting with me. i didnt like him then but when i was upset because the boy i did like, david was all over my best friend and i started crying and then evan started telling me i could do better than him and hugging me really tight and close to him. now i like him, and my friend asked him if i ever asked him to go out what would he say and he said no, which really confussed me cause we were friends and we always flirted in the hall but he wouldnt go out with me now? we arent in the same class but i see him alot in the hallways, i dont get it.. what can i do to get him to like me, we arent in the same class but i see him alot in the hallways? (link)
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Try talking to him about it. Maybe he likes you but he doesn't want every one to know or maybe he's just shy and sort of scared when it comes to having girlfriends. But at least he likes you as a friend b/c most relationships end but friendships can last a life time. But why don't you have him over or something and hang out and see where it goes from there.
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ok so i asked you guys adivce earlier on what i should get my bf of 2 years for x-mas, and most of you said i should make a scrapbook. i think that's a really good idea, but i really have no idea how to make one! i was also thinking about taking 12 pics of us to kinkos and making a calendar out of it. guys opinions here would be good, but girls are welcome too. which do you think would be better? how should i go about making the scrapbook? thanks (link)
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Honestly I don't think a scrap book is the way to go. UNLESS he's into pictures and stuff. I'd get him something a little more...guyish. Why don't you ask him what all he wants and see what he says.
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okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do .. (link)
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Why don't you try thinking about this other boy. And do things to get your mind off your ex. If you go back out with your ex chanses are you'll be unhappy. And no one wants to be unhappy.
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There is this guy that I have known since th beginning of the year and we have a class together. This weekend we were on a school trip thing. On the way home, this guy told me that he liked me. I had already figured that out beacuse he was sitting there stroking my hand and holding it. But the thing is, I DON'T like him. I am in love with some one else. And this guy knows it, but he keeps going on holding my hand. What should I tell him? How should I tell him that I'm not interested in him like that? Thanks in advance.
Signed,
Unsure and Torn (link)
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These kind of situations are always tough. Just tell him nicely that you have feelings for someone else and that all you would be doing to him (the kid holding your hand) is leading him on and that thats the last thing you want to do. And hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
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I'm a 14 year old girl and i have a guy problem. ok I have been liking this guy for a little over a year now, and he likes me too but we havent dated. he said he is scared he is going to hurt me again but not on purpose, and I dont deserve that, I deserve better. but he said he really likes me a lot, but idk why he cant just ask me to date him. WE'll never know unless we try, can you help?! (link)
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Maybe he's scared to have a girlfriend right now. Have you tried talking to him about it? If not then try to and see if you's can hang out or soemthing afterwards to make it seem like a date or something. But I think he's probably wither scared to have a girlfriend right now or he just doesn't want one at the moment. But talk to him and find out!!
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I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say? (link)
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Ever hear the saying "You don't know what you've got till its gone" well it's so true. Just walk up to him in school or whereever and tell him EXACTLY how you feel and you think that maybe your period messed up your emotions and hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
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Well you see this is my problem well actully i have a few 1) my boobs hang to the floor omg i jus dont know what to do i mean i lose things in them for days just the other day i found homework from last year. 2) I have there little green bumps on my vagina.. now i mean is this normal? Because my boyfriend has them too.. I didnt have them until we had sex but he told me it was nothing to worry about because he loves me. 3) there is this girl named Megan and i have the biggest crush on her ever .. but I am a girl i dont think she goes for the whole dike thing im not sure though.. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Have you ever thought about a breat reduction? You can get them reducted down to just about nothing. Then you wouldn't have to worry about losing things. Also with the 3 green bumps on your crotch. I think you better go get them looked at, they could be a STD. And about the liking Megan part I doubt she's interested, sorry.
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hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense! (link)
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The last thing you want to do is ruin a relationship. Why don't you guys just go "steady" for a while. Not boyfriend girlfriend just...friends that "talk". Know what I mean. Things might get akward if you's start dating when you's are bestfriends.
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Yeah hey um...is it ok to stick fruit up my ass? or will that cause an infection!? (link)
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WHOA well I think it all depends on what kind of fruit you use. I don't think it's the healthiest thing to do but hey what you do in your spare time is cool in a kinky odd freakish kid of way lol. But yea I'd avoid large objects!
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
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Whoa two weeks and he's already saying I love you?? Well if he really cares for you I think you should give him anotehr shot. But is he's going to embarass you infront of everyone then thats just not right. And its immature for him to tell you that "you started it". Maybe you should sit him down tell him how you feel and see if he understands where your coming from. If he just starts a fight with you then kick him to the curb and get your self another boyfriend!
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Lets just say you are a 13 year old boy. It is christmas time and your girlfriend has no idea on what to get you. She doesn't want to get CDs and definatly not cologne and she isn't too good with doing personal things like photo albumns. What is she to do? What should she get him? (link)
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Well I'd say get him something that he's into. Like if he's into video games get him that new Grand Theft Auto game. If he's into cars get him those little model cars you can put body kits and stuff on them. You could always try clothes if you can't find anything else. Or you could get him little joke toys from Spencers or something. I have a 13 year old brother and he's really into cars and video games so you could always try that.
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have you ever been in love and had somebody tell you that your to young to be in love? well i have and even if i am young im in love. My exboyfriend and I were best friends. He told me everything and I told him everything. We started going out and I knew that he still liked his exgirlfriend. Well we got into an arguement and broke up. the next day i found out that he went to the movies with her that same day and well i got mad and started yellin at him telling him he should just go ahead and go out with her. well he took my advice but he knew i didnt mean it. now him and her have been going out for atleast 3 weeks now and all i can do is cry. He is the love of my life and I feel like dieing all the time. Its like my world was tookin away from me. His girlfriend is moving in 2 weeks and they might stay together but they dont know. I just dont know what to do. I love him and he says he loves me back and he will always love me and that he just likes her but what i dont understand is how he could love me and like her but go out with her and not me. Please tell me what to do because im so confused and i feel like if this keeps up im gonna have to do something i dont want to do.. (link)
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Try not to dwell on this all the time. All its going to do is stress you and and trust me you really don't want that. Have you tried telling him how much you care for him? If not, do it! And if he's going to blow you off for his ex-girlfriend then hunny he isn't worth your time. I know how hard it is to get over some one you love but time heels all wounds. Maybe he's just with this skank becuase he wants to piss you off. Have you tried just going out with your friends and finding some one new? You should try you never know you might meet some one that will take your breath away!
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
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First off who cares what other people think about you. Ask long as your happy being with him that's all that matters. And hey this guy might be the one so don't let him go just people of some silly people. And hey if poeple do look at your differently then maybe it's because there jelious of what you have with him. So say yes if you haven't already lol!!
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im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help (link)
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You need to chill out about this or else you'll scare him away. My one friend used to be like that with her EX boyfriend. He got sick of not being trusted. If he hasn't done anything like cheat on you then you shouldn't worry about it. Talk to him and tell him that some things bother you like him not calling you on time but he is a guy and we all know guys have no sense of time lol but good luck
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