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Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 6:13 am

dear megan
its 6 AM and i cant sleep i have no one to talk to at this hour so i thot id let it all out on here. I like this guy n he tells me he likes me a lot n is always sayin he misses me hugs me alot.But hes with another girl. And i just dont think its unfair that he tells me these things and is still with her.it hurts REALLY bad and most people dont know it but it makes me cry a lot. And i dont know what im suppose to do. Am i suppose to wait to see wut happens with his girl friend?That hurts a lot too. The way he talks to me makes me want to wait for him but im afraid ill be waiting forever. and i know you'll say talk to him about it. But i do! When we talk about it though he tells me he does like me a lot and wants to give his girlfriend a chance though.hes one of my best friends also. When i think about givin space between him and I like not talking as much or calling him im afraid he'll think i was only his friend because i had a "chance". He already thought that and i dont want him to think he was right. I just dont know what to do. I'll think im over it and then he'll say the right thing n im back where i started. Its killing me i cant sleep. So now when he says things to me like " i love you " n compliments me it makes me mad because its almost like hes teasing me. And his girlfriend will rub it in my face. But when i do talk to him i get butterflies n my heart drops n i smile alot n talk to him for hours. We are so alike its almost scary. I just dont know what to do. It hurts to wait . But then im scared if i move on n then somethin does happen n they break up it'll be too late and i'll miss out on it. He tells his friends he wants to be with me if they break up. Its almost like he changes his mind. like what he only feels what he says when hes not with his girlfriend. I hate this feeling i dont think ive ever felt it before and its makeing me feel helpless... please Megan help me its killing me more than any of yous know. Im like in tears and im not a very emotional girl.You know that.damn it....ok im out


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Miss_Megan answered Sunday January 2 2005, 11:28 pm:
Okay I know you cant help who you like and everything but I really think you should move on. What kind of boyfriend is he to say he wants to break up with his girlfriend and then tell some girl that he likes her and everything know what I mean? What if you and his guy hook up? I mean then your gunna worry about if he's doing the same to you. I just think its not worth the tears for some one who I think is just leading you on becuase he's either afraid to hurt your feelings or just got to caught up and is just going on with it b/c he cant be like o well i dont like you or have feelings for you any more. You need to have a serious talk with him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel. You'll feel alot better and you'll have a load off your chest!

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