Q: my boyfriend and i are both 18. he's the lead in our school play this year and he has to kiss another girl. it's killing our relationship. i've never been the jealous type, but this has been so hard for some reason. we've been together a year and we're really serious. i was the first girl he kissed. he keeps telling me it doesn't mean anything. i trust him with all my heart, but is there anything i can do to help with this? i'm sure lots of people have been in this situation. what did you do to cope? i'm the stage assistant so i have to see it quite often. he's incredible. i love him and trust him, but it's hard not to hate the other girl at the same time. i'm trying so hard to be good but something inside me breaks every time i see it. help please.

Q: There is this guy that I am sort of "talking to" and tonight he was trying to upload pictures on to his myspace, but he was having some trouble, so he asked me to do it for him. Okay, no problem.

So he gives me his username and password so I log in and start uploading his pictures. Well I become more then tempted to look in his inbox see who hes been chatting with. So I do and theres about five different girls that he's sending messsages to.

He calls them "hun" and "baby", "babe", "sweetheart", "beautiful"... the works. So heres my problem with the whole situation. Tonight we were having a sort of "deep convrsation" and I said "listen, you know that I don't talk to any guys or hang out with any guys but you, so where do you stand with the same situation"? Well he pretty much said I don't call or hang out with any other girls. I dind't get the impression that he was haning out with any of the girls yet or anything like that.

I really wanted to say what about online, but i figured that would be too obvious. I just don't know what to do about it without saing that I looked in his inbox.

Any advice would be so helpful.

Q: okay it's almost me and my boyfriend anniversary in two days. I don't know what to get him. last night he gave me a ring like a REAL one! 14k gold! I asked my aunt (who owns a jewelry store) if the ring was real and she said it is. I accepted the ring and he put it on my married finger.like I'm his wifey and he's my hubby.but since he got me a ring, what should I get him?there's so many things I wanna get him but I wanna get him something really special.what should I get him?

Q: 14/f

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!!

Q: it's a long story, but i'll try to make it sure. 2 guys and me. i totally hate this sibling issue. let's name one guy Eeyore and the other one Tigger. lol, okay... so me and tigger likes eachother, and we can't really be together because of Eeyore. And the thing is Tigger has an older sibling that's friend's with my sibling. and my sibling, which is a sister.. might find it "awkward" when the other sibling doesn't mind. And the thing is, Eeyore also likes me. And Eeyore told his older sister, who is best friend's with my sister, that i like him back. And Eeyore's sister told me she'd rather have me be with him because I'm a great girl. And that gets me really nervous cause i don't want her to think that i'm a bad person if i'm going to go out with someone else than her brother. The other confusing part is, i'm not sure if i have feelings for Eeyore either... i'm pretty sure i want to be with Tigger, but i don't want to loose Eeyore. Me and Eeyore are best friends. I sometimes get butterflies when he says some stuff, more than i get butterflies from Tigger. Maybe because Eeyore shows alot more "love" to me. I don't know. Or do i just like Eeyore as a good friend and want to be with Tigger? PLEASE HELP ME VERY CONFUSING!

Q: What are creative ways you got asked out/asked someone out/to prom/etc?

Q: my ex keeps coming back into my life... i want him to just hate me even tho it will hurt it will hurt less than hearing his voice ... you know.... how do i get over him please help

Q: ok my boyfriend has A BBUNCH of stuff on valentines day weekend for me and him to do that he's keeping a surprise but idk what i could do because i have no money and i cant drive or take him anywhere what can i do?? please help!! :(

Q: love songs are good too.
idontknow but they make me miss him.
here are some that i already like.

goodbye to you
tim mcgraw (taylor swift)
breathe
so contagious
the alamo is no place for dancing
with me
getting into you
your guardian angel
only one

i dont like metal/screamo.
or top 40 music.
so what are some songs that have to do with breakups? or love songs?



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Q: Alright, well I liked this guy, lets call him Bob.
I liked Bob from like September.
He didn't like me at first but he started to, I can tell.
And we've had a thing for a while.
Nothing much, just hanging out like every weekend and stuff.
Well now, like I don't think I like him anymore because it's been like four and a half months and nothing has happened like he hasn't like asked me out yet.
But I think he was going to two weeks ago, when I was at a friends house.
Because he was like "Hey, we should talk about something."
And I said "I have to go to the bathroom, hold on"
And when I got back out, I said "It's getting pretty late, you should probably go so she doesn't get in trouble for having you over so late"
(It was like three in the morning)
And we didn't hang out last weekend.
So like I don't know what to do.
Because like when I'm not with him, I feel like I like him, but when I am around him, he just kinda bugs me.
But I don't know if he bugs me because I just want him to ask me, or if he annoys me.

How do I tell if I like him?
Or like what should I do if he does ask me out?
Should I just tell him like exactly what I said here?
I'm to scared to do that though.
I don't know.

If it is needed, 15/f.

Q: alright so me and this kid have been talking for a while now and we both like each other alot but we go to different schools and live in different districts :( which totally stinks. and its weird cause whenever we try to hang out he ALWAYS has something going on or he cancels at the last minute. and well...we play truth or dare alot online and i told him that i would give him a hj and that he could finger me but we would have to wait...and all this was after he told me he liked me. so idk whats up the kid cause like all the sudden he's freaking out and not being how he was...and we don't really have that same connection as we use too..and i want it back cause i liked him alot.

alright this was long but thanks you're awesome :)

Q: 15/m
i dont know what to do i like being single but i like two girls

The first girl i liked since i first saw her i got to her after a while but then i came to a conclusion that she didntlike me (because sometimes it seemed like she would ignore me, she knew i liked her but showed almost no intrest in from what i noticed)so i backed off, well it looks like i was wrong cuz everytime i pass by her she stairs at me and smiles i stare back too because i still realy like her, but im still not sure of how she feels about me or if we went out it would be a quick few day relationship or long one,

The second girl i liked since i got to know her a bit better, but i guess i always had a thing for her, well shes my dance partner for a quincenera i think shes pretty cute and cool to go out with and i like her more everyday(Shes going away to mexico in march for a month) so i want to know what to do before i lose any chance with any of them. if i do have one at all.

one more thing wich ever girl seems best to go out with any suggestion to talk to them and let them know i like them, for one there i this thingfor school on valentines day where i can send them a card or something?

Q: I'm 14 years old (and a girl) and im in love with my brothers friend. Hes 2 years older than me and hes really sweet and nice. About 3 months ago, he asked me to dance, and as well another girl, (as we were both sisters of his friends). He doesnt really talk to me anymore except maybe say hi to me in the hallways. I'm not really pretty or anything but I just wish I could tell if he likes me back. I would never ask him out or something, but I just wanna see how he feels. If he doesnt really talk to me anymore (or barely say hi), does that mean he doesnt like me?

Q: Ive never been kissed. ever and im 16 (and a girl) i must be ugly, even though Im tall and skinny (too skinny probably but i cant help it, and no, im not anorexic or something like that). how can I love myself when I hate myself?

Q: Im 15, ive been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months now. Theres sometimes where i just want to be single and sometimes when i dont. If i had to guess, i think the feeling of wanting to be single is more often. We've been going out for a while now and i dont know if i want that major lifestyle change. I see this girl every day and basicly after every period in school. This means ill see her so much.(when id rather not see her as often if were broken up) I also dont want to see her flirting with another guy or anything like that if were broken up. So basicly what i just said is that if i do break up with her ill still have feelings for her for a while. Any advice will help. Thanks

Q: Okay, my best friend sister is prego. she i guess 6-7 months.who really gives a fuck!.my boyfriend used to go with her.he 21.she is 18.he stay over there house.thats how i met him anyway.basically being over there cause thats the chill spot or whatever.believe me it is complicated and shit.her mom.everybody calls moms.she knew binky(marcus-my boyfriend) went out with her daughter in the past and shit.her daughter the prego one walked around talking bout him and shit she'd be like Binky and RENEE(his best friend-ride or die)is still fucking.she was telling me this when me and binky was together and shit.I didnt get why she would say that shit.but she did.She be like the only reason RENee would mean mug her is cause binky would stop paying attention to her.and end up focusing on ericka,cici,and alix(all sisters-thats where everybody hang out at.there spot).Alix is my bestie.So is Cici.Ericka cool.i guess.until mother fuckin now.Cause she'd be like.Why would Binky and Renee be arguing if nothing is going on?.Obviously there is becuase they wouldnt be fighting like a couple.Truth be told.Binky dont fuck with renee.i guess.cause they had something at first but then that shit just ended.it aint work out.or so he says.anyway.my friend just told me.binky talked to her mom about moving in with them so he could take care of ericka's baby.im like.for what?.he aint fuck her and get her pregnnt.some other dude did.the other day binky even asked her...DID YOU TALK TO DUDE AND TELL HIM YOU PREGNANT?.she said YEAH,I CALLED HIM.HE SAID HE WILL CALL ME BACK AND HE NEVER DID.well my saying would be.go find that nigga.!
best belive.no nigga would ever run from me like that.so, he aint tell me what was up.But everybody down there knows except me.Just cause im not there doesn't mean i should not know man.it should have been said to me.maybe i'd have a different opinion.but now that it wasnt said to me first.i cant trust him or her.my best friend alix is like.well she think it is good that a guy is willing to step up for another guy that aint doin his job.i told her yeah.if they was together.which they aint.binky is supposed to be with me.she over there defending him.she say she not.but she is.cause she tryna cover up with the shit like.he almighty for trying to raise ericka baby.yeah okay.im lettin that nigga go!.i dont give a fuck if he doest know if it is over or not.cause like i said before.no one told me shit when i just went down there.and the shit just happened today.make it so bad.im down there and he actin like shit aint out place.he had me fooled on some other shit.he'd be like DAMN I LIKE YOUR BODY.DAMN YOUR SEXY.DAMN I THOUGHT I WOULDVE NEVER GOT WITH CAUSE I THOUGHT U WAS WITH ANOTHER NIGGA.he had me played.i thought he was the one.when i fucked him he was like trust me and shit.i dont trust him now.and now i regret ever fucking him.im glad i aint fuck him friday.then he woulve thought he was the shit.i dont get what type of game this nigga playing neither.it bothers me.and im sure bout to approach him bout it.ima wait that shit out.and see what happens.I WILL GET EVEN.
then i talked to him.and i get why he is helpin out with the baby.
but he wants to move with them.and i dont get why.i mean.pampers,diapers,baby food.yeah okay that is helping.BUT MOVING IN? for what?.obviously he wanna be with her.that bothers me.i told him.ITS OBVIOUS YALL STILL GOT FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER.EVERYTIME I WALK UP iN HERE.YALL ALL SITTIN CLOSE.TOO CLOSE!.and he made it seem like it was nothing.he laughed cause im possibly jealous.why wont i?.not of her.eww hell no!.but the fact that she got her head layed up on your chest.lap.feet all layed across you.that bothers me!
i cant stand that shit.he was like TRUST ME.I MEAN U ACT LIKE IM FUCKING HER OR SOMETHING.IM JUST TRYNA COMFORT HER.and im like.what the fuck!.yeah if you was her nigga.
but you mines.not hers.her boo/baby daddy need to step the fuck up and COMFORT HER.not u.
I MEAN SOMEBODY GIVE ME THEIR OPINION.AM I STUBBORN AND SHOULD REALLY TRUST THIS GUY.OR JUST DUMP HIS ASS!.

Q: 15f

I have not had my first kiss yet and I'm already a sophomore
it sunlcks alottt
but what are some tecniques you use for kissing I have no idea how to kiss someone
how can I practice?
what do I do???

Q: My ex boyfriend (I'll call him L)and I went out for a month last year, and broke up becuz we were just acting like friends (it was our first relationship). Anyway, we are a rare case, because we just got ridiculously closer and its exactly a year today that we were together; we talk everyday, and he is almost like my best friend, only more. Anyway, i never completely got over him. I honestly love him. Not in love, but i do love him so much. We connect in a way that I never have with anyone. And i know he loves me too, we make a cute couple and balance each other well, but two months ago, i told him that i still had feelings for him and he told that we should just be friends. Anyway, my guy best friend's good friend J likes me alot, and I am attracted to him,but I cant see myself with him, because I still like the other guy. So, last night, I asked L for advice on what to do: whether I should give J a chance or not (because he is the only one who could give me a true answer). And he gave the sweetest advice, that if I saw myself with him than I should give him a chance, but if I cant than maybe I shouldnt. I told him that he (L) would be fifth wheel if I went with J (becasue my guybest friend, his girlfriend, me and L...and now J hang out alot). And he told me not to worry about him, and be selfish for once. Then he quietly asked if I liked someone else, why i was so unsure about J...and I didnt want to answer(because of course I like him). There is nothing wrong with J,but I love L, and I want us to have another chance. We are perfect for each other. We are always flirting with each other, and i love the way he talks to me. He said I brighten his day. Should I give J a chance, or try to give it one try with L again (mind you, he might not even want to try it again.) I want L to know that I do love him. I just dont want to get rejected again. But I dont think I can be with J unless..

Q: how do you get over a guy that you fell deeply in love with and you can't stop crying about him no matter how many times you tell yourself that he is worthless and to forget about him!!!

Q: breakupp a month ago. he broke up with me. i liked him too much. lost any self confidence i had. HATE where i live. friends suck. some are moving next year. dont have an endless supply of friends so having friends leave is bad, even though they get really annoying. grades going down. family is annoying. cant think. help?!


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