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Kinda, not really, dont know about breaking up


Question Posted Wednesday January 23 2008, 9:29 pm

Im 15, ive been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months now. Theres sometimes where i just want to be single and sometimes when i dont. If i had to guess, i think the feeling of wanting to be single is more often. We've been going out for a while now and i dont know if i want that major lifestyle change. I see this girl every day and basicly after every period in school. This means ill see her so much.(when id rather not see her as often if were broken up) I also dont want to see her flirting with another guy or anything like that if were broken up. So basicly what i just said is that if i do break up with her ill still have feelings for her for a while. Any advice will help. Thanks

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icey0990 answered Thursday January 24 2008, 3:07 am:
of course the feelings will still be there, but it sounds like you dont want a big commitment and you want to be free. There is nothing wrong with that at all. If you think you wont be depressed and miserable if you break up with her, maybe its time to break it off. She may flirt with other guys, but you will flirt too, and you will have the freedom you want. Maybe before breaking up try not seeing her everyday. Let her know you want more time for yourself,friends,etc. If this works well, maybe a breakup isnt necessary.

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helper22 answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 10:23 pm:
For me i think if you want to break up then when you do say we can still be friend and hang out. Single people want to have fun so if you want to have fun single is the best choice. But go with your heart.

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MissKhalili answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 9:56 pm:
well ask her if you to can go on a break...
it seems like all you need is just some time to think and if your on a break then you can kinda experiance the single life and see which one you like better.

if she freaks out about going on a break then maybe she wasnt meant for you.
sooo just ask her for "a break" and see how things go, and really sit aside and really think about what you want to do!


hope i helped!

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