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I broke 5 months ago with my bf ,..so now I'm single
I have a friend wich I got to know before I began a relationship with my ex ,they never liked each other, anyways when I broke up with my boyfriend I called him and told him that I was in great pain and stuff .the next day he was at my house to support me ,since than he is back in my life and he makes me feel so good .
The thing is I always liked him ,but he had a gf ...so that's why I began a relationship with my ex ...
I am afraid ,sometimes I feel like he likes me more than just a friend,by the things he talk and the way he acts ...
When I see him all my problems run away and I'm fully happy ,this feeling I only had it with him and nobody else ....
He kisses me on my cheek and neck and touches me in a very nice way but he never kiss me.. (tongue)although he knows that I really wants to..Ohh by the way he has a gf ...Help me ,..should I tell him that I like him or should I just do like run away bride ?
How can I know for shure that he likes me too ?

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Well if he still has a girlfreind just be freinds with him. If he's single really talk to him about ur feelings about him and see how he feels. He's most liky shy aroung you so go for it 100%.


so there this boy. i like him and he tells me he likes me. he always pisses my friend off so she hates him. about a month or so ago we had sex and i lost my virginity to him. yes i was ready, no i dont regret it, no im not inlove with him. i didnt like him til now. but one time when me him and his friends were together i was sitting next to him and i said "im cold" becuase it was like 10pm and cold outside. and his friends were laughing and were like "go warm her up!" to my boy. and he was laughing to. and then they were all talking about my ass and how it was big and stuff. my friend thinks hes just using me thats also why she doesnt like him.

so is he using me? (link)
srry to say. but yea he is most likly using u. U need to take charge and listning to ur friends. I would say break up with him he's not the guy for u.


16/m
Yesterday i aksed this girl out that i realy liked her so finally i asked her and she said yes. well now everytime we are together shes always quiet, im always doing most of the talking, I dont want our relationship to be plain i want to connect with her but she quiet even with her freinds they told me she was just as quiet. I just want to know how to gain her trust so she can talk to me more, i dont want to lose her please somebody help!!! (link)
She may be very shy and likes u a lot so she dosent kno wut to say. U need to make her more comfortible and let her take her own help.


14/f im not sexually active firstly. today i was sittin on my coach and i felt somethin weird so i went to the bathroom to check it out. i got some tissue paper and grabbed at the spot and pulled, what came up was a knot of my pubic hair and this small red bug, which was dead...i think. what is this red bug and is it dangerous to my health? (link)
yes it si that means you need to talk to your mom or doctor


Okie, so heres the deal im 94lbs right now, a week ago i was 99lbs and my mom got really piss off at me for being 99lbs i WAS!! 90lbs and im not suppose to get ovr weigh past 90lbs, and im trying really hard to loose weight and im not sure how to do so,...and PLEASE do not write to me and say im under weight, cause i know, but i feel fat and stuff and all i need to know is how to loose weight, i excerise every day, run 4miles everyday i do pull ups push up abs workout everytime, it's jus im not loosing fast enough i wanna loose faster, i know there is a way because when i gain 3lbs i loose 5lbs, and i need to loose more to be 88-90lbs quick! sooo pleaseee help me. please and thank you (link)
if you keep trying to lose weight you'll make your self sick and maby die. when your mom tell you to be lose more ponds just say i'm going to get sick is that what you want. see how she feels when you tell her that


Well I'll keep it short for once. We've done some foreplay, me and my boyfriend, mostly on him. At the time we started trying sex I hadn't let him try anything on me, and we had really troubles, well, getting it in. This could be because I was so nervous (I would not get completely undressed!) and also we'd done little except kiss before trying. We tried again after the first time, the same problem. And then again a third time, and whether it was the nerves of not being able to do it before and the pressure, I don't know. Either way we decided to wait for a bit more and of recent weeks we've started to move on, doing a bit of foreplay for me too! I was wondering, do you have any advice on what to do, or anyone who had this problem of 'not getting it in' too? Any advice? Do you think it's more likely to work fourth time lucky?! Any answers are VERY VERY welcome. Thanks! (link)
you need to take your time just tell him your not ready yet if he like he will understand.


is there anything wrong with anal sex??.. i did it over the weekend and yea, i liked it.. hurt really badly, but i liked it. thanks for the advice!! (link)
if you really like do it. just be careful


okay well there is this guy that i like.
and like he always says like, even if i havent said anything like don't speak, or did i ask you to speak, but he like smiles at the end.
could that be a sign he could like me?
like there are other things, but i just want to know about that, like is he just being obnxious or do guys do that if they like a girl? (link)
he really want to get to know you.


Im 15, ive been going out with my girlfriend for 11 months now. Theres sometimes where i just want to be single and sometimes when i dont. If i had to guess, i think the feeling of wanting to be single is more often. We've been going out for a while now and i dont know if i want that major lifestyle change. I see this girl every day and basicly after every period in school. This means ill see her so much.(when id rather not see her as often if were broken up) I also dont want to see her flirting with another guy or anything like that if were broken up. So basicly what i just said is that if i do break up with her ill still have feelings for her for a while. Any advice will help. Thanks (link)
For me i think if you want to break up then when you do say we can still be friend and hang out. Single people want to have fun so if you want to have fun single is the best choice. But go with your heart.




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