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this might be long.but i need you opinion.rate high!
Okay, my best friend sister is prego. she i guess 6-7 months.who really gives a fuck!.my boyfriend used to go with her.he 21.she is 18.he stay over there house.thats how i met him anyway.basically being over there cause thats the chill spot or whatever.believe me it is complicated and shit.her mom.everybody calls moms.she knew binky(marcus-my boyfriend) went out with her daughter in the past and shit.her daughter the prego one walked around talking bout him and shit she'd be like Binky and RENEE(his best friend-ride or die)is still fucking.she was telling me this when me and binky was together and shit.I didnt get why she would say that shit.but she did.She be like the only reason RENee would mean mug her is cause binky would stop paying attention to her.and end up focusing on ericka,cici,and alix(all sisters-thats where everybody hang out at.there spot).Alix is my bestie.So is Cici.Ericka cool.i guess.until mother fuckin now.Cause she'd be like.Why would Binky and Renee be arguing if nothing is going on?.Obviously there is becuase they wouldnt be fighting like a couple.Truth be told.Binky dont fuck with renee.i guess.cause they had something at first but then that shit just ended.it aint work out.or so he says.anyway.my friend just told me.binky talked to her mom about moving in with them so he could take care of ericka's baby.im like.for what?.he aint fuck her and get her pregnnt.some other dude did.the other day binky even asked her...DID YOU TALK TO DUDE AND TELL HIM YOU PREGNANT?.she said YEAH,I CALLED HIM.HE SAID HE WILL CALL ME BACK AND HE NEVER DID.well my saying would be.go find that nigga.!
best belive.no nigga would ever run from me like that.so, he aint tell me what was up.But everybody down there knows except me.Just cause im not there doesn't mean i should not know man.it should have been said to me.maybe i'd have a different opinion.but now that it wasnt said to me first.i cant trust him or her.my best friend alix is like.well she think it is good that a guy is willing to step up for another guy that aint doin his job.i told her yeah.if they was together.which they aint.binky is supposed to be with me.she over there defending him.she say she not.but she is.cause she tryna cover up with the shit like.he almighty for trying to raise ericka baby.yeah okay.im lettin that nigga go!.i dont give a fuck if he doest know if it is over or not.cause like i said before.no one told me shit when i just went down there.and the shit just happened today.make it so bad.im down there and he actin like shit aint out place.he had me fooled on some other shit.he'd be like DAMN I LIKE YOUR BODY.DAMN YOUR SEXY.DAMN I THOUGHT I WOULDVE NEVER GOT WITH CAUSE I THOUGHT U WAS WITH ANOTHER NIGGA.he had me played.i thought he was the one.when i fucked him he was like trust me and shit.i dont trust him now.and now i regret ever fucking him.im glad i aint fuck him friday.then he woulve thought he was the shit.i dont get what type of game this nigga playing neither.it bothers me.and im sure bout to approach him bout it.ima wait that shit out.and see what happens.I WILL GET EVEN.
then i talked to him.and i get why he is helpin out with the baby.
but he wants to move with them.and i dont get why.i mean.pampers,diapers,baby food.yeah okay that is helping.BUT MOVING IN? for what?.obviously he wanna be with her.that bothers me.i told him.ITS OBVIOUS YALL STILL GOT FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER.EVERYTIME I WALK UP iN HERE.YALL ALL SITTIN CLOSE.TOO CLOSE!.and he made it seem like it was nothing.he laughed cause im possibly jealous.why wont i?.not of her.eww hell no!.but the fact that she got her head layed up on your chest.lap.feet all layed across you.that bothers me!
i cant stand that shit.he was like TRUST ME.I MEAN U ACT LIKE IM FUCKING HER OR SOMETHING.IM JUST TRYNA COMFORT HER.and im like.what the fuck!.yeah if you was her nigga.
but you mines.not hers.her boo/baby daddy need to step the fuck up and COMFORT HER.not u.
I MEAN SOMEBODY GIVE ME THEIR OPINION.AM I STUBBORN AND SHOULD REALLY TRUST THIS GUY.OR JUST DUMP HIS ASS!.
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well if you've already told him that you dont want him hanging out with your sister, and he didnt listen then you should move on because he's not giving you the time of day.
sit him down and really comfront him about it.
and remember be strong dont let him get to you.
only if you really feel like breaking up with him, you should but make sure that you 100%ly dont want him.
i hope i helped!
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I have no idea what the hell you said.
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Well, if I were in your shoes, I would feel the same way. In my opinion, there must be more going on with them, maybe he plans to date her in the future or possibly they are already having a sexual relationship behind closed doors, I belive you can have sex up until the 8th month, however I could be wrong. If they are ever alone in the house or just alone in a room together, it is definitely possible. There is also no need for him to move in and to help her, she clearly has family that is doing that and like you said the real father should be the one to do those things, which by the way she could sue him for child support if he does not pay it when the child is born. If he wants to help her so much, he could, I'm assuming he has a job, help buy her baby things(which is really not necessary in my opinion). It is not his place to do those things. If you want the best advice, I would say to drop him. You need someone who will respect you and understand how you feel and not be doing those things he is doing. If he really cared about you he would not be touchy-feely on her when you go over there. Like I said, dump him, its your best bet and try to find a better guy. I know you can do better, you don't need someone who is clinging to someone else like that. Anyways good luck and I hope all goes well and that you take my advice and drop him, I'm not telling you what to do I'm just saying he's not worth your time.
Once again, good luck. If you need anything else, feel free to message me again.
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Thanks for the rating and yes I would love to be updated. I can read just about anything and understand it, lol. Sorry, this was the only way I could contact you back. Anyways, if you'd rather, you can e-mail me at skyyisbloo@aol.com to let me know what happens. Good luck!
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Ok, I saw this on the main forum and was a little nervous about approaching it, but since you came to me personally, I will answer it.
Ok, first things first, I understand that you are upset, which it seems you have every right to be, however, nothing good can come out of this situation if you don't try and be calm and rational.
You need to take him aside, without all the other people around. Guys tend to get defensive when they are cornered by someone in front of other people. After you get him to come talk to you alone, remain calm and remember that you don't have to put up with someone that treats you like shit. At any time that you feel uncomfortable with him and the way the conversation is going, tell him that when he can calm down, then you will talk to him.
Be honest and forthcoming. If you give him the respect and room to explain, things could be solved peacefully. Let him know that if you two are going to be a couple then you need for him to respect you as well. Tell him that it hurts you to see him around this other girl in this manner, friends or otherwise. Tell him that even though you realize that he is allowed to have friends, there should be boundaries on the way he behaves with those friends. Also, let him know that if you two are a couple, then he should have had the balls to come to you and ask you how you would feel about this situation, instead of just bringing it up with her first and leaving you out in the dark. Let him know that the reason this is bothering you so much, is the fact that he is pretty much treating you like a f*ck buddy without considering your feelings at all. (I am assuming that this is a lot of what you are feeling)
If you talk to him and try to be calm and respectful, he may see you in a different light and actually appreciate that more than being a bitch about it. By all means, I agree that you have every right to be a bitch to him, but that old expression comes to mind, "you catch more flies with honey, than with vinegar". I'm pretty sure you understand what that means.
Just remember, stay calm, be respectful, if things get out of hand, walk away and take a breather. Above all else, remember that you are in control of your own destiny and should do what makes you happy and feel good about yourself.
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You already know the answer. Hes cheating on you, thats probably his baby, or at least she told him it might be, and no one owns anyone. Slavery is illegal. He is NOT YOURS. YOU'RE NOT HIS. Hes just a dog and your too young to be staying with someone who treats you like shit. Damn girl, your better than that..
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