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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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That's really sweet, baking him a cake would definitely be a good idea...and maybe for plans for the day you should take a walk outside and have a picnic. Something that'll keep you both busy in case you don't want to spend every moment talking would besomething like going to the arcade, or ask him what he would like to do after you've done something you wanted to do with him. He'll probably either pick something really fun and energy consuming or somewhere where you would definitely talk. Boating is really fun, or if you like to roller skate or bike...maybe even swimming, it depends what you can and can't do and what the weather's like. For a rainy day you could rent movies and stay inside, or a really hot day go swimming or go somewhere air conditioned. Lots of possibilities, let me know if you need more. Hope I helped. And have lots of fun.
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there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.
how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?
who should i pick?
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If a guy is goping to be an ass and start to hate you for no reason start getting over him NOW. He dosen't deserve someone as good as you if he's going to be a snob about it. Get to know the other guy instead and see what happens. Good luck.
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i went out with this really amazing girl.but then her n her best friend got into a fight,so her best friend told me that my girlfriend likes my best friend n my best friend like her,which wasnt true,but when i talked bout it 2 him he promised he wud never do sumthin like that 2 me.n then 2 months later my girlfriend says she wants 2 break up cuz she feels vulnerable.n then my asshole best friend moves in on her n now theyre goin out n r deeply in love.sum girl liked me when i was goin out with my girlfrnd but she kept her distant n didnt make a move.my best frnd was just being a bastard n seduced her n stabbed me in the bak.its been 1.5 months since we broke up but i still miss her more then nething.she was my first love n its just so hard 2 move on (link)
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I'm sorry, it sucks to try to get over it when its like that...if you dont want to get over her, then you have to get her attention again, even if its just as a friend for now, maybe she'll realize there was nothing wrong in the first place.
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15/F--I like this guy, and its the first time I've liked a guy mostly based on his personality and having looks coming second. I'm not a shallow person but when I usally like guys I'm attracted to them physically. But he is a great guy and he has told me before that I was pretty, and that I was a great person all around. I decided to finally do something about wanting to be more than friends, and a friend of mine is going to talk to him tomorrow. I'm happy that he will find out, but also kinda scared because I feel that there might be no chance. When he compliements me, he says it when I feel down about my looks and everything so I feel that its just his way of trying to make me happy. So when he asks me about me liking him, online (we go to different schools) I am going to be at a loss for words. I want to say everything is true, but on the other hand I want to run and hide. I am just so insecure about myself and what he will think of me, its making me crazy. I'm not really asking for specific advice, just comments and words of enncouragment. What should I tell him when he asks me about it? Thanks and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what! (link)
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Just be confident that you are a great person, cuz looks don't always matter with liking a girl, if he is truly a great friend, and he does want to go out with you, then it'll make you both happy, if he doesnt, he should be a good enough friend to just go back to being friends. Don't worry about it, just jump ahead and take a chance, it'll probably work out in your favor.
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ok so theres a close friend of mine lets call him Jake. Well jake and I are good friends and he gave me a Christmas card for Christmas that signed "Love Jake" well ever since then my friend lets call her sasha has been trying to hook us up. he says he wrote love tom on all cards..yet anyone i know hes friends with didnt even get a card at least any ive checked with. so he coems up to me today and goes "have you talked to sasha" and i said not really he goes "she said you and i should go out" just then the bell rang so i didnt have to say anything. i really am unsure of my feelings for this guy.....if he does ask me out what do i do? i cant say no i have problems of hurting friends feelings!!!
HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It sounds really sweet, trying never hurts, but only if your not in love with someone else or something.
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Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me? (link)
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You are too good for him, don't even try to go back out with him just because of what he thinks, you need to do what you want to, and remember all the ways he hurt you before you make your decision. Be careful, i really dont think he's the right person for you.
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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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He can't possibly be that clumsy silly. Yes i would definitely consider that making a move, be careful if you do start something though, and have fun. ;)
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Okay... I am a fifteen year old female and i have this male friend that is 17 years old and we are talking about becoming b/f-g/f and he doesnt want to become b/f-g/f right now but he wants to do more with me than i want to do with him unless we are going out and i dont know how to tell him without him getting the wrong message (link)
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Tell him straight out! If he's just going to do it to use you then it will never have been worth it. I don't know the guy but that's what it sounds like...plz be careful! You shouldn't do something like that unless you have a really great relationship with him.
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Does anyone have any sad songs... because I am in an extremely down state right now... and that would probably help me cry out my problem... (link)
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Listen to the song "Welcome to my Life" by Simple Plan...its sorta one of those songs i listen to cuz its one of the only ones that shows how i feel and it is sorta sad...
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I am in love with this guy.He makes me laugh and when ever he looks at me he makes me smile.He is the only one that i let make fun of me.The problem is that he belongs to another girl. what am i suppose to do . Everyday i wake up to see him. HELLPP
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Give it time.
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I love my boyfriend very much, and he is just the sweetest thing to me. I wouldn't trade him for anybody else. My parents don't think he's a good influence on me, and want us to break up. If he doesn't change soon they'll keep us from seing each other and talking.
He's 2 years older than me, in high school when I'm still just a middle schooler. I met him through my younger brother's theatre group, he is a wonderful actor and an even better singer. I knew who he was for almost a year, but never talked to him since he was older, and I wasn't even in the play. some time in september he noticed me at the theatre group. We began talking on the computer and on the phone for several weeks until he asked me out. my parents had been sorta skepetical about the whole thing with an older guy from the begining, but let me go out with him anyway.
There have been a few times that I couldn't do or go places with him because he was older, or because my parents didn't think I was ready to do things. He takes things rather personally and got really upset with them, being extremely rude about them in his online diary. Later, after the problems had been solved, my dad found the website, nad was really disappointed in what he saw. That was about 3 weeks ago. My parents have never let go of the fact that he and I made out in front of my little bro, something both of us will never do again. They also like to rub in my face that he is very emmotional, and materilistic and they point out all his bad traits. They fail to mention how sweet he is to me, how well we get along, how he calls me every day no matter what, and comes to watch me ride horses when any other guy would be bored to death.
Last friday one of our friends told him that I was cheating on him with my ex. Which so didn't and will never happen. I told him so on saturday, and he believed me until he talked to her again, and on sunday he was mad at me. I felt so bad, being accused of something that he knows that as a person, I would never do that. Anyways, he hugs all his friends that are girls. I told my mom, and she almost had be convienced to break up with him.
Yesterday, I was talking to him on the phone, and I told him he needed to be more respectful to my parents. He replied with "I dont give a what your parents think" I then told him that why my mom was letting me use the phone before I was finished with homeworkd and chores was because I was supposed to break up with him, but that I didn't want to. He got all upset and got off the phone.
I dont know what to do, I want him to be able to get along with my parents, and I want them to see all the good things I see in him. How should I let him know that my parents thnk he is a bad influence, emotional, rude in his diary ect. ect. without making it sound like thats how I feel, and that they still like him well enough as a person. I agree with a few of the things they say, and I want him to know and to fix those things, but I dont want to sound rude, or demanding. Sorry about the question being so long, thanks so much if you can help me! (link)
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Parents never change their minds about those things, trust me. They will always see what's wrong with him and will never want to understand him as a sweet person. It's not worth trying right now. But he also needs to have the decency to respect what you think will keep you two together. If he can't see that then maybe another guy is what you need, even if it's not what you want. Don' stay with someone who will make your life more miserable.
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Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15] (link)
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To me it looks like your only way to chill right now is in school or going in groups of your friends to the movies and pizza parlors and such.
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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13! (link)
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Have you considered she might be afraid...try getting friendlier with her first for a few more months, if she's still shying away then ask her why...then the worst/best thing that can happen is she gets mad and you break up and find another girl who's better maybe for you.
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I really want a boyfriend, i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfrined... I mean i know i won't liek die if i don't have one lol, but if anyone has any tips please help! (link)
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1)Don't be too eager!
2)Talk to people so they know what kind of person you are, then maybe a guy will think your the kind of girl for him and start something so you don't have to.
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3)Pick a guy who you know is what your looking for but also has respect for you, and try to hang with him more often to get his attention.
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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Be patient, you need to find a good reationship, and that takes more time than you will think you have, give it time.
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ok well theres this guy that i like but hes 2 years younger than me and i wanna go out with him but he sees me only as a friend and he knows i wanna be more than. he just doesnt understand and i have talked 2 him about it. wut should i do?? (link)
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You need to wait for someone more your age sweety. No one likes to wait but two years younger is getting a little far apart if the girl is the one older. Or maybe he likes someone else. My best advice is to try to let it go, find someone else, even if you have to wait awhile, patience is important in love, unless you don't care what the relationship is like.
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This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
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Yes, most definitely sounds like it. Of course I don't know the guy, but he might just be messing with you for the hell of it, be CAREFUL. And if he's a year younger, maybe you shouldn't even consider it!
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okay there is this totally cute guy that I have liked for about a year or more.Last weekend I was at his house I kissed him and he kissed me back. I know there was something there, but we got caught by my dad. My dad didnt know that I had liked him for that long.Now both my parents dont6 want me to see him so I feel trapped and dont know what to do. I have cried over this guy many times and never knew he liked me.He knows how I feel about him and he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now which is totally fine but now things are weird between us. How do I ask him out without getting hurt.PLZ HELP!!!! (link)
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I know this sounds harsh, but going out with a guy who you've cried over isn't going to work out in the end, it's just some weird thing that almost always happens.
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there this guy that i thought i kinda lyk'd but he lyks one of my best friends. It kinda sucks cuz im so use to feeling this way cuz everyone likes my best friend. I dont wanna stop being friends with her because of that cuz thats juss stupid. Well i told this guy that i'd try to help him and my friend be together although it would kinda suck. My friend doesnt really like him lyk tha but still i have a feeling its gunna happen. I dont wanna tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same way and afterwords it'd juss feel akward... what should i do? (link)
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Just go with it, I had/have the same problem with my best friend a lot. But if you wwait for someone who likes you as much as you like them, it'll be worth the wait, love's got to go both ways in the end you know.
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i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him (link)
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lol, don't worry...everyone's prince charming is out there somewhere...if you're picky, you'll get someone who you'll truly be happy with. If you aren't picky enough, you can get your heart broken more times than if you are picky. Everyone needs to know what they want, if you do know, then you'll be a happier person in the end.
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