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my boyfriend and i fooled around for the first time back in april. now i havent been on my period since. he never "came" the whole night. but he did ATTEMPT to go in me twice, both barely went in cause it hurt to much. anyway.. i've been stressing out so much over maybe being pregnant. i havent been on my period since.. i've ALWAYS been irregular. my period never comes on time. i wanna see a doctor, to get this sorted out, but i dunno how to tell my mom about it. i highly doubt im pregnant.. i mean could i be just from that?
any ideas on what to do??
theres been no weight gain, im not craving food, i never get sick or anything, im not tired.. i feel as normal as always, but i just keep having that thought.. and i try not to stress out, but i do anyway.. how long can stress delay your period for?
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well girl i honestly doubt your pregnant.. but honestly depending how old you are and mature your mom thinks you are, telling her could be hard.
keep in mind, telling your mom you wanna go to the doctor and be put on birth control would be the RESPONSIBLE thing to do, and when/if you go to the doctor you can have your mom step out at any time.
be confindent and think responsible. okay?
trust me if you stress out, its just harder on you
good luck (:
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VERY VERY LONG. but you had to know that whole story.
ok so i went out with this guy. lets call him, jake. ok so i was crushing on jake. really hard. i mean like talking about how much i liked him. then he asked me out and i thought it was a dream.(this happened back in febuary) he asked me out on valinetins day. and im not big on that day. i dont like the 14th of febuary, until that moment. i had to pinch myself to see if it was real. but the problem was, im a mixed, select soccer playing, "beautiful" girl. as most people would say. but under that, i love emo, skater, and that kind of stuff. and thats what he was like. he is an artist, anda skater. and i liked him soooo much. then the next day i went to a dance. and the kind i went to wasnt his kind of dance. (everyone said he wasnt very good look but hew is soo sweet) and when i went there, there was a guy that 5 months before my friends said i had to ask him to go on a ride at the local fair. and i did. well later that night, i saw him and we made eye contact and i guess i got caught in the moment because i almost kissed him and i was like no this isnt righti have a boyfriend. and everyones like come on it is that bad. but it was my first kiss. and i walked away. then later it happened again and i kissed him that time. and i felt sooo bad. and i was scared someone was going to tell "jake" so i broke up with him a few days later. so he wouldnt hate me. then we were texting a that same day and he told me he liked me alot and how i broke his heart. but he didnt know how bad i was hurting. so we became friends. and now i like him. Alot. again. so we were texting the other night and it was 2 or 3 am. and he asked me out of now where all these questions about if we were going out. and i thought we was going to ask me out. but he didnt. then i asked him the next day and he said he has sleeping pills. and it crushed me and i said like ok then he said ya. i was like ya.... and he was like yyaaaa..... so now i want to know what all this means. does he like me, just toying with me, or what? (link)
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alright girl, personally dont waste your time with jake. i truly dont think you like him THAT much since you were able to make that type of connection with that boy you went on a ride with at the fair, and ended up kissing him the 2nd time it happened.. if you reallllly liked jake it wouldn't of be that easy to happen. you really need to think about your feelings here..
stay single for awhile.. if jake talks to you and you insist that you like him that much then take the time to REALLY talk to him when hes not on his meds, or in any other state of mind. okay?
theres plenty of boys out there girl friend (:
hope i helped.. sorry if i was being too honest, but sometimes we think we really like someone, yet truth is we dont and we try so hard to make something work that just cant.
anything else ask away (:
take care!
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Soo ive been dating this kid for the past 14 months.. We have been on and off but i think our relationhip is pretty strong.. Anywayz about a week ago i got caught smeakin over to his house for the night and his mom flipped out on me.. She completely cut me down and then kicked me out of her house.. Then she called my parents and told them that me and my boyfriend were on crack! Which is all lies. Since then my boyfriends mom took his car, threatned a restraining order againt me, tryin to get random drugs test on me and him, took his cell and pretty much isnt goin to let us see each other.. So now i cant relle see him and i barely talk to him and i feel liek things are falling apart.. He said he would do anyhting to fix out relationship... but is it relle worht it?
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girl your the only one whos going to know if its really worth it..always try no matter what until theres absolutely nothing left to do. i would have your parents, his parents, you and him all sit down and talk about it.
his mom is definitely over reacting, but your best bet is to sit down with your parents after dinner one night, and let them know "hey look, him and i want to keep seeing eachother, and i'm willing do whatever you guys want me to do to have that privilege earned back.." say something like "if it means only seeing him when you guys are home and we sit in the living room, thats fine." let them know you dont do drugs, and if it comes down to it then tell them they can randomly test you. let them know you realize you make a bad decision but you want to handle it all maturely and responsibly. then see what they say, and have them call his parents to arrange dinner or something at your house, so they can figure out what to do.
im real sorry you got caught, thats a bummer, but just give it some time, dont lose him over something like his mother lol, he'd be so bummed. lol. ahw.
i hope it all works out girl.
anything else please feel free to ask (:
hope i helped!
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is blow job considered as cheating? doesnt that depend on a couple's thinking? it isnt the same for everyone...but i mean in general, would it be cheating? (link)
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it may depend on the couple, but truly cheating is cheating.. a kiss is cheating, and having sex is cheating.. as well as everything in between is well, cheating. no excuses for me (:
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so i like this guy 4 bout 2 years now...we talk lots on my space we play games like truth or dare but we keep um short at times we talk every day at least once hes so slow but cute hes smart but i mean he acts slow...hes real shy when we talk in person hes always smilin like an idiot y?
does he like me or wah? im not sure how 2 tell him that i like him i also shy bout him and crap..so if you help me out ill realy apreciate it! give me some ideas bout how i can find out how he feels bout me or how i can tell him i like him...:/
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look at it this way.. whats the worst that could really happen? that he doesnt like you back? well yeah that would be a bummer, but guess who'd be the one working up the nerve to find out? YOU! and you can do it (: just hang out in person more not so much talking on myspace.. its hard to be yourself around people you dont spend a whole lot of time in person with.. but one day just ask him in PERSON and just be like "so question.. how do you feel about me.. just curious" and see what he says.. then you'll know. if you cant work up the nerve to ask him in person (which is understandable lol (:) then when you play you're truth or dare game you ask him like that.. but i'm assuming you play that over myspace correct? thats a way to ask him and still find out its just not as personal.
orrrr when you guys are having a random conversation.. talk about like past relationships, or what you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend.. and then tell him.. be like "you know i've had a crush on you..i do have a crush on you lol" and if some reason he just doesnt feel the same then be like "no its cool, honestly, we're good at just being friends now that i think about it" that way he thinks its cool to still talk to you and he wont have to worry about whether or not he might be leading you on.. you know what i mean?
good luck girl. i hope i helped (:
ask away if you need anything else!
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Im 18 he's 22 and my bosses son.
When were together were constntly flirting, but neither of us have ever mentioned how we feel, i know i like him and im sure he likes me. The problem is he's leaving town to start his new job as of monday. Tomorow i'm going to see him before he leaves so i can say goodbye and all.
All my friends all telling me i should kiss him when i tell him goodbye.
Should I?
Nothing big... dont wanna pounce on him.lol
I also dont want to leave things feeling wierd...
WHAT DO I DO?
PLZ ANSWER FAST! TAHNKS (link)
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personally kiss him on the cheek as he goes to give you a hug bye. then see what his reaction is. if he wants to kiss you too then he'll know he can since you went for the cheek.. its sort of a hint. worked for me, i'll keep my fingers crossed for youu (:
take care girl (:
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ok so there's this boy i really like and he knows i like him. he's a real quiet boy. like he wont talk 2 me unless i say somethin 2 him but he talks my bro and my sis, like if my sis sends him a text message or a message on myspace he answers but when i do it he dont answer back. and im to shy and nervous 2 talk 2 him. we dont really talk so it'll be kinda weird if i call him so wat do i do??? (link)
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okay girl, personally, since he knows you like him and he may not feel the same way back so he doesnt really want to lead you on. and he may think by talking to you as in responding to your messages and texts could make you think hes into you. Dont call, dont message, dont text. if your brother and sisters talk to him its cool, dont tell them anymore about liking him..just keep your feelings to yourself for the time being to see if maybe that may make him come around and talk to you. if he still doesnt come around.. then forget it. theres a ton of boys in this world that wont be all quiet. besides its rude of him to not respond to you, but to your sisters.
hang in there girl (: hope i helped!
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So I have a really great boyfriend, like he's amazing, very cute,sweet and everything.
Just that whenever we cuddle on the couch, he always places his band under my shirt, and just plays with my stomach rubs it, and jiggles it and stuff.
He says stuff like "Ah, you're little belly is so cute."
But I feel weird, because I'm not chubby or anything, quite average, but I do have a tiny bit of a tummy. And he's skelatal.
It just makes me akward, but since he likes to I won't stop him, I just don't know why he likes it so much. (link)
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yeah my boyfriend does it too. i cant stand it because not only is it weird to me, but i'm so ticklish and he does it to try and tickle me.
i just told him i dont like it, but not being rude, i said it like in a funny tone, so he laughed and was like "im sorry love lol"
its allll better (:
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OK this guy has dumped me but still wants to remain friends. We text back and forth like everyday and both of us has remained single since we broke up. He says he wants to still think about it and we broke up like two months ago. Is there any hope of the two of us getting back together? (link)
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well i honestly think they person you should ask is him. if you both discuss why you broke up to begin with, maybe change a few things then yes its quite likely that you'd get back together. but it takes work from the two of you so make sure he wants it as bad as you may want it too.
good luckkk, hope it all works out (:
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WHat can i get or make a girl for christmas? (link)
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make her a blankettt (:
go to like a craft store, where i'm from we have like michaels and jo anns fabrics, and you can get one yard in a solid color felt, and then get another yard in a patterned felt, one that she would like, and then place them evenly on top of eachother with the pattern on top, and then cut slits into both fabrics at the same time.then tie it together and your done! no sewing!
then fold it and get 3 of her favorite candy and 2 bags of popcorn,maybe a movie you know she likes and you'd possibly wanna watch with her (: then put the candy down on the blanket, with the popcorn next, then the movie on top, and take a big piece of ribbon and tie it over it all so it stays all cute.(:
haha its not tooo expensive, and she'll like it because you made it.
other wise get her a braclet or a necklace, even a sweatshirt from her favorite store, idk theres so many thingsss.
good luck hope i helped (:
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Which is much better between the 2?
A.) A guy/girl who will love you but you don't love/like him/her
or
B.) A guy/girl that you love/like you, but does not
love/like you
( I know that's it's better when you like each other but the question ask which one is better between the 2) (link)
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see now for me, i'd rather love and not beloved, because i know that feeling, and for me to know i'm doing that to someone i'd just feel way too sorry.
however.. maybe if you chose your first one you could try to be friends and help them get over you rather than just saying sorry i'm not interested and never speaking to them you know?
thats tough, but for me it'd be the second one.
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okay so my ex [the same guy who hurt me 2 times before/took my virginity/and so on] and I have been talking as friends he broke up with his ex [the one hes been going back in forth between me and her with] i was so happy!! you have no idea how much i love this guy but im afraid to love him cause idw to get hurt again [he said he would never hurt me again and that before he just wasnt sure but now he knows] i think he loves me i'm almost positive =] seriously but im still not sure i just dont want him to leave me for her again. i just want him to be the 'one' i told him i WILL NOT go out with him untill he knows what he wants but we're still talking [and kissing after skool] but we do everything on the down low cause i know everyone will be so dissapointed...im just still not sure if im doing the right thing by giving him another chance...i just dont wanna give up on something that might be meant to be (link)
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heres the deal, if you know everyone around you will be dissapointed, you should REALLY re-think all of this. Personally, if he really loved you, he wouldn't have been confused in the first place. Guys try and keep us girls as their fall backs in case things with another person don't work out. Yes guys do get confused and not just guys but us girls too make mistakes when it comes to relationships.. but if he was so confused he shouldn't of been dating either of you. he should've been friends with you both not going back and forth in and out of relationships.
theres so many guys out there and as much as you love him and want things to work, you need to be prepared to just move on in case. i wish the best of luck and i really hope this time he means it, but dont let him have it all so easy. make sure he knows your not playin when it comes down to you guys getting back together. dont have him just tell you he wants to be with you and only you, make him show it.
if everyone around you is going to be dissapointed because they know what hes done to you, or they dont think too highly of him, then he needs to step up and show them that he does mean it. a guy who really cares will you do anything to be your everything. (:
good luck girl,and remember theres plenty of fish in the sea (:
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heyy..okay everything started out like amaazing. i loved him so much you like dont even no..but then he was always asking me where i was and what i was doing like 24/7. i thot that was sorta cute n stuff. but then i got this text message from my friend whitney that said and i quote! [[cuz nobody believes me unless they've seen it.]] "michael loves you so much and wants to be with you the REST of his life." and that just weirded me out. i dont reallii wanna marry someone whose my boyfriend going into eighth grade. i thot that he was taking r relationship ...WAYYY to seriously. so i decided i needed to end it otherwise he might just get more attached. yeah it was a sacrifice but i didnt wanna hurt him worse then i already did because if he got even more attached it could have been ALOT worse. he already hates me and doesnt wanna be my friend. and i didnt wanna make him like go into depression or anything. so i decided it was for my and his own good that we break up. and now everything turned to crap. him and all of his friends are SOOOOO MEANN to me. and like there whole group completely hates me. it reallii hurts..some of the thing that they're calling me. i dont no what to do anymore. i still wanna be friends with him..but he told me he hates me and never wants to see me again. do you think he'll get over it? and do you have any reasons why he's acting like this? any ways to ignore it? thanks in advance♥ (link)
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girl honestly ignore him and his friends.. hes just upset and of course there his friends so they are gunna give you crap about it.. however i think talking to him and just tellling him why you did what you did might be the best thing.. if he continues to be this way then screw him because if he cares enough about you he'll want whatever makes you happy dispite if its him or not. just put it behind you and find other guys live up your life and make it amazing cause your still young. someday he will look back on it and be like "wow how lame was i?" he will get over it.
good luck girll (:
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Ok. Me and this guy talk alot on the computer and we laugh and hes says Im the only one who ever laughs to his joke and none of his friends do and he will talk like 30 or 1hr extra with me when hes not suppose too. But When Im around him we never talk!! And Im too shy to ask him stuff and I dont know if he like me or not! Does that mean he likes me. Because along ime ago he said I was pretty and asked me if I consider hm as a friend...becuase we were playing to questuon game. So Does he like me?
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its very likely that he is somewhat interested in you girl (: but the only way to find out is to ask.. so play your little question game or something and ask questions. im sure when hes around you he wants to talk to you but is maybe to nervous? so talk the next time you talk to him just ask him "would you ever be interested in me? are you interested in me?"
and see how it goes. good luckkk (:
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SO me and my gf had unprotected sex yesterday and she is only gonna stay with me until she gets outta high school (she just turned a senior now) i dont know what to do
should i stay with her or end it here? (link)
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well for starters.. dont have unprotected sex with her especially if you dont even know how you two will end up. dude plus, you say shes only staying till the end of highschool, then sounds to me like its already settled.. i think you should just maybe move on, theres so manny girls in this world who deserve a chance.. otherwise talk to her and tell her how you feel.
good luck dude. (:
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I really want to know because everyone else has already lost it and I'm 14 and I havent! (link)
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girl your so young! im sorry i dont think theres a specific age but 16 i think is still to young! i lost mine when i was 17 and i've been with him for two and a half years.. (im still 17 this was a few weeks after my birthday)
just make sure you really know the person so that way its not just some jerk whos gunna use you to get it and thats it. it used to be something special but now adays all these crazy kids are trying to act too old.
enjoy life be young. do it whenever you feel as if your ready theres no right age my dear (:
be safe as well okay?!
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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and he says he really loves me and I really love him, but then all the sudden he decides to go to the movies with another girl? He says they want to hang out cause they haven't seen each other in a long time, and don't get me wrong I totally trust him. But I just don't know what to do I mean why the movies of all places? ughh. this sucks. I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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okay well they haven't seen each other in a long time? a movies is NEVER the place to go to have a conversation.. so if they really wanted to catch up then they should've done like lunch or something... friends do lunch not dinner.. I'd talk to him. plus there's no reason why you couldn't of gone.. i mean if she was really that good of a friend he'd care enough to bring his woman along so they could meet right?
be careful girl.. don't let him play you for a fool.
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I met my friend Melissa's brother Chris back in January and we became friends and I was attracted to him and he liked me too cuz he asked me out on Valentine's Day. But meanwhile I was getting to be really close friends with a boy named Thomas. So after two weeks I ended things with Chris, partly because of my crush on Thomas but mostly because he picked on me too much and treated me more like a sister than a girlfriend. And eventually Thomas and I got together on March 30. But I still have a physical attraction to Chris and I'm bummed because even after about 2 1/2 months together, Thomas has never kissed me. I never kissed Chris either but that was only two weeks sooo it would have been too soon.
Now I'm wondering what would happen if I had a friends with benefits relationship with Chris? I like that Thomas is taking thingsslow, I guess, but I really really need to feel physically touched and loved. And if I do it with Chris and we both agree it's nothing more, I won't really have to worry about rushing a relationship. But then again, that relationship will still be in danger cuz I don't think Thomas will like me making out with Chris when he's not around, like if I go home with Melissa. And if I do decide to go for it, how do I tell Chris what I want and do you think he would be ok with the idea?
Please avoid name calling in your replies. I know some of the stuff I wanna do isn't exactly morally right, but it's still how I feel and I want advice, not a lecture. Thanks! And sorry this is so long.
P.S. Chris is almost 18, I'm 15, Thomas is also 15 (link)
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okay heres the deal.. if you do persue this "friends with benifts" deal then technically that would be cheating.. and if you need some sort of physical touching-ness stuff then tell your current boyfriend that its been awhile and you feel that way.. and he will either do it or wont.
he could just be nervous and not know what to do or something so talk to him. and Chris is a little bit older and i know for sure here in CA.. its illegal to be sexual with someone who's 18 unless you have parental consent and even then it can be an issue.. anyway.. i don't encourage being with BOTH of them it should be one of the other..
if your man doesn't want to kiss you break up with him if its something you think you need to have in a relationship.. and lets say you do break up with your man and Chris doesn't want friends with benefits then just completely drop them both and find someone who has it all.
good luck my dear hope i helped alittle (:
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So I have a boyfriend whom I have been with for a lil over 2 months.We've been talking for months before we actually started going out.Or made it official.In between all that.I was talking to my ex.Really my ex was trying to get back with me.And I have feelings for him still and always will be.Not necessarily strong ones or whatever,But you get my drift.He always seem to come in mind.I try not to let it effect my relationship with my boyfriend,But I mean he sometimes ends up in the conversation.Not necessarily with my boyfriend, But with like friends and family.I feel guilty though.For even having any thoughts about him because my ex was a jerk,But I mean I can't help but think about him.I don't know how to get him out of my head.I'm running out of things to do.I don't want to think I'm dating my boyfriend because of my ex because i'd honestly feel ashamed.I just need some help with this.Usually I'm the one giving the advice.I just don't want to lose my boyfriend.He is just so amazing and sweet and what I want.He makes me happy.Soo... question is..what do I do? (link)
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stay with your current man.. you know how the ex's can be.. girl they come back like there all into you but seriously if it was meant to be it would've happend.. just re-assure yourself for WHY you left him.. and tell the man your with currently about whats been going on.. talking about it might help you realize it even more about how you dont need him. sounds like you have the perfect guy right in front of you, your just alittle distracted.
hopefully things work out for you in the best way possible. and dont feel ashamed, its hard letting go sometimes. personally any guy who affects you in any way i honestly think can never be forgotten.. us girls really can have a hard time just completely letting go..
good luck my dear (:
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okay so this guy likes me. I don't feel the same way about him though. He tried asking me out twice so far this year. the first time I told him I still had feelings for my ex (which was true) the second time he asked me out again I told him I had a boyfriend (which I did) and now were broken up and he asked me out again through e-mail today. I don't know how to tell him no. I just don't have feelings like that for him. What would the best way to tell him? (link)
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just say "hey i really appriciate the offer and honestly the last few times you've asked me out i've had reasons.. but this time i don't. i just dont see myself dating you and i dont want to hurt you but im not interested, friends yes.. dating no. im sorry hopefully you can understand. thanks"
and if hes a jerk.. then just ignore him.. if he asks again then just ignore him..
hope i helped girl (:
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