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ughh stupid boys
heyy..okay everything started out like amaazing. i loved him so much you like dont even no..but then he was always asking me where i was and what i was doing like 24/7. i thot that was sorta cute n stuff. but then i got this text message from my friend whitney that said and i quote! [[cuz nobody believes me unless they've seen it.]] "michael loves you so much and wants to be with you the REST of his life." and that just weirded me out. i dont reallii wanna marry someone whose my boyfriend going into eighth grade. i thot that he was taking r relationship ...WAYYY to seriously. so i decided i needed to end it otherwise he might just get more attached. yeah it was a sacrifice but i didnt wanna hurt him worse then i already did because if he got even more attached it could have been ALOT worse. he already hates me and doesnt wanna be my friend. and i didnt wanna make him like go into depression or anything. so i decided it was for my and his own good that we break up. and now everything turned to crap. him and all of his friends are SOOOOO MEANN to me. and like there whole group completely hates me. it reallii hurts..some of the thing that they're calling me. i dont no what to do anymore. i still wanna be friends with him..but he told me he hates me and never wants to see me again. do you think he'll get over it? and do you have any reasons why he's acting like this? any ways to ignore it? thanks in advance♥
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girl honestly ignore him and his friends.. hes just upset and of course there his friends so they are gunna give you crap about it.. however i think talking to him and just tellling him why you did what you did might be the best thing.. if he continues to be this way then screw him because if he cares enough about you he'll want whatever makes you happy dispite if its him or not. just put it behind you and find other guys live up your life and make it amazing cause your still young. someday he will look back on it and be like "wow how lame was i?" he will get over it.
good luck girll (:
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You know, you are right. You are only in the 8th grade, and you are completely right to be a little weirded out by what he said. I mean, I am defintitely not saying you can't be in love with someone at that age, but to think about marrying someone and being with them for the rest of your life is taking it somewhat seriously. I think he will probably get over it. Maybe he's just trying to find ways to cope with it, because it sounds like he really did like/love you a lot. So, maybe being mean and ganging up on you is his best way of dealing. Boys are confusing, hon. Just try to ignore it, or if you really want to be friends, tell him. Remind him of all the good times you had as friends and that you still care for him as a friend ONLY. And if that doesn't work, he's not worth being your friend.
Hope I helped a little!
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i've had the same thing happen to me, like exactly the same and i found the best way is too ignore it. even if it's hard too. i would also try just talking to him one on one and tell him how you feel about the situation and how much it hurts you. oh and the reasons i would say is that he's upset and maybe being mean is how he expresses that emotion.
i hope i helped :]
-hannah-
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