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Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me.

well you should talk to him and not let him get away. see how things work out between you two. go see a movie or something.

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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused.

i think you should wait cuz she's a good friend of yours. but make sure that when they break up that it's ok for you to go out with him otherwise you could have a really mad friend.

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I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know??

well if you like this girl then ask one of your friends to walk up to her and ask if she likes you. if she does then be friends with her cuz your in a relationship.

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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.

Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.

I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks!

i don' think you should be friends with her, after all she stole your bf. she doesn't deserve someone like you.you can get your ex a gift if you want, i wouldn't cuz i would be pissed off at him and wouldn't want n e thing to do with him or his new gf.

Good luck
-Stephanie

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Hi i am having a problem with my ex boyfriend becouse he brok up with me becouse he liked his ex boyfriend but when he told me it was a big shok and then he flew away the next morning and i was all a lone and i had to dill with it on my owne but my friends wore very helpful to me. I still love himbut i want to get over him help me

well if ya wanna forget 'bout him then have a girls' night out or hit the mall or movies with ur single friends.

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

umm...don't wear lip gloss, it gets in ur mouth and doesn't taste to good. some guys don't like it at all so don't wear it.

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theres this kid i really like and he likes me too so he asked me out last night and i said yes. then today hes like i like yoo more as a friend so want to be just that so im like sure , but i dont know how to act towards him now, do i be friendly or ignore him, i dont know what to do.

if i were u i'd be friendly. he said he wanted to be friends with you so don't pass up the chance to hang out with him. it's either you hang out with him as friends or you don't hang out with at all.

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

you know when you are truly in love with someone because that person makes you smile, makes you feel special, and is always there for you. you know it's the right time when you really love him.

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ok, im a 17 yr old female, and i have been "seeing" this guy. not really dating, because he doesnt think he's "boyfriend material" i dont understand this, but i know he cares about me the same way i care about him.

i wrote him a 3 page long letter telling him how i felt. he told me he liked it and he reads it often.

we hang out alot (many times for 10 or more hours or untill like 1 am!) and every time, we hold hands and cuddle and hold each other close the whole time, even around our parents. my family loves him and his family thinks i am just the sweetest thing to walk the planet.

but...alwayz a but...he and i have dated before. and he ask me out both times. so now i think it is my turn to ask him out, to show him how much i care. but, i dont want to scare him off.

so i ask you guyz, does a girl askign a guy out kind of freak him out, or do they like it? and i also would like to know if anyone has any ideas what he meant by "i dont think i'm boyfriend material". please help me out!

what he probably meant by saying "i don't think i'm boyfriend material" is that he doesn't want to be in a relationship or he seriously thinks he's not boyfriend material evn though it sounds to me like he is. go ahead and try to ask him out. u told him how you felt and he liked it. a lot of guys like it when the girls ask them out. so go ahead and ask him out.

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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.

if you think your gonna throw up go to the bathroom and do it. after you do then chew some gum so no one knows you threw up. you can also try to read a book, listen to music, and other stuff to keep your mind off of it.

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Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please!

if he doesn't want to go out with then don't make him. just tell him to tell her that he's not interested. she may be crushed but she'll get over it. everybody who has that happen to them has gotten over it and found a new boy.

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Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship?

well i think you can say that you found someone new who care about. i think he'll understand.

hope i helped!

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Ok i need help. theres this guy i like named zack. Ive known him for about 3 years and we've both liked eachother in the past and everything. hes 16 and im 14(female). Well this time we both have been hanging out, talking more and im really liking him. But for some reason i have this weird feeling that its just a summer type thing, because all year we barely talk(even tho we go to the same school i barely see him) then it seems like everytime summers commin up hes all talkin to me liking me and stuff.. I wanna ask him myself (my best friend offered to but i want to do it myself) i just need help on what i should say and if i should! please help..

if he likes you then he would want to hang out with you during the school year. ask him out to a movie or somthing. sometimes guys lke girls but they are to afraid to make the first move. u gotta go for it. if he's not interested then ur better off as friends.

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What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts?

there really is no answer. all girls are different and they each want something different.

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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help

He is probably busy and having fun. He probably doesn't want to start a fight after what happened so give it some time.

>>Stephanie

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Ok..I Like My BestFriends ex boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But this guy is truly AMAZING..but i dont want to risk losing my friendship..but hes awesome!! I dont know what to do.. Please help me!!

Signed,
Split in Two

He sounds like a cool guy and it sounds like you really like him. If you don't tell your friend that you like him then things could get ugly. My friend like my ex-boyfriend and she she went out with him, I didn't care. If your friend still cares about this guy then be friends with the guy a little longer, but if she doesn't care then I guess you can ask him out and stuff. But you have to ask your friend if it's ok first otherwise things could get worse.

~*Stephanie*~

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I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
please answer to my inbox!

just choose which one you do better at. or pick the one you love the most.it all depends on what you want to do. what do you think will make you feel happier than the other. it's all up to you!



*~*Stephanie*~*

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i am trying to get my guy friend to notice me, i always hang around him and hold his hand. i try to let him know that i am into him as more than just a friend, but it feels like everytime i try to get close to him he pushes me away. i have kissed him before and he acts like he wants me, but then it seems like he doesnt. i am confused on how to get him to want me as more than just the friend that i have always been to him.. if anyone could give me some advice on what to do that would be great! hopefully, a guy and a girl could answer this just so i get both sides of it. thx.

maybe u should try to ignore him and give hima little space. maybe then he will know that u want to be more than friends.


>>Hope I helped!!

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Alright Well I dont want to waste your time but this is kinda complicated! Im 16 and I was going out with a 21 year old. Everything was perfect! He introduced me to ALL his family and friends, he told everyone I was his girlfriend (even to pretty girls he knew) It was totally perfect and I felt so special! He complimented me all the time and told me I was "the one" and had even told me that I was a freak in bed and I was the best he'd ever had! Well after all this he started to act shady. He wouldnt call me or come around for a whole week and when he finally did it would only be for a small amount of time..I also heard from different people that he was flirting with this one SLUT tasha!! Whom already has a boyfriend. Well to cut it short, We broke up and I really dont even know what the deal was..We kinda just agreed to not being together!? Im heartbroken and if you have ANY advice as to why you think he did this or what I should do, It would be greatly appreciated. *Thanks*

hey sorry that he did that to u. It seems to me that he lost interest in you and decided to go with the tasha girl. he's a jerk for doing that. you totally deserve better!!! i think you should try to have some girls night outs and try to stop thinking about him. if you have fun with your best buds chances are you're gonna forget about him!


>>Hope I helped!

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