Alright Well I dont want to waste your time but this is kinda complicated! Im 16 and I was going out with a 21 year old. Everything was perfect! He introduced me to ALL his family and friends, he told everyone I was his girlfriend (even to pretty girls he knew) It was totally perfect and I felt so special! He complimented me all the time and told me I was "the one" and had even told me that I was a freak in bed and I was the best he'd ever had! Well after all this he started to act shady. He wouldnt call me or come around for a whole week and when he finally did it would only be for a small amount of time..I also heard from different people that he was flirting with this one SLUT tasha!! Whom already has a boyfriend. Well to cut it short, We broke up and I really dont even know what the deal was..We kinda just agreed to not being together!? Im heartbroken and if you have ANY advice as to why you think he did this or what I should do, It would be greatly appreciated. *Thanks*
chaos answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 9:21 am: Ok. Here is the deal. He's too old for you and if he had sex with you its statutory rape. Some guys just like to take advantage of young girls. He got what he wanted and left.
Forget him and date someone closer to your age for now. When you get a little older it won't matter about age as much. Right now you aren't ready for a mature relationship, or you would have seen this idiot coming from a mile away. They use charm and cunning to get you to bed an they are gone. Not all guys are like this, but its hard to find a fella that is nice and behaves. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
LilCutePinkAngel answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 11:31 pm: hey sorry that he did that to u. It seems to me that he lost interest in you and decided to go with the tasha girl. he's a jerk for doing that. you totally deserve better!!! i think you should try to have some girls night outs and try to stop thinking about him. if you have fun with your best buds chances are you're gonna forget about him!
xo_dream answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:56 pm: What a jerk! Just try to remember that you're better off without him + his little games .. feel better :o)
XoTruebrunettExO answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:25 pm: it sux that he did this and you deserve so much better, i think the only one who knows why he did this is him, maybe you should ask him straight out why he did what he did. if he doesn't tell you and even if he does then you have to move on and try to find someone else who will make you happy. i know it's hard but don't give up, the right guy will come along and when he does, he won't break your heart. don't give up!! :)
sEkzIeStLoOzAoX answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:20 pm: hun, the rreason why ur feeling like ur heart broken is because ur ex started acting like a playa, he was a real great guy. and u kno deep in ur heart that u really loed that guy. not the new playa. i think u should talk to ur friends about this. and slowley start to talk to ur ex too.
~*RiSs*~ answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:11 pm: hun its gonna be ok i know uve heard this b4 there are other fish in the sea!! my b/f for 4 years cheated on me!!?!?!? i know what it feels like n all i did was pretty much find another guy that loved me n we are still together today pretty much wat im tring to say is find another guy. u deserve way better than a cheater god i hate playas except 4 usher which if u know who he is then ull know wat i mean!!!
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