about

Hello, I am seventeen years old.
And I am currently a Senior at my high school.
I like giving advice.
One day, I want to make a living out of it.
There's really nothing in the world that I like more than:
Music [New Wave, Electronic, Alternative, HipHop]
Photography [I take many pictures]
Friendships [They're really important me]
& Helping out people [I am always helping out]
There's really not a lot to me.
Other than I like to help out people.
Sometimes, I think that I should take my own advice.
But I rarely do =/
So yeah, that's about all I have to say.

advice

I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

First of all, you should be straight out with him. Tell him exactly what you found. Tell him that you found the Facebook group about your relationship. I'm assuming he knows already, but just tell him so he knows that you're being serious about this. Once you tell him, make sure he's on the same page with you when it comes down to the privacy of your relationship. Tell him you don't like him exposing personal things about your relationship.

He made it private? Are you close to one of his friends? If so, have one of his friends join the group and have him tell what he is posting. If you don't aren't friends with any of his, you could maybe make up a fake account. I know it's lame, but it may be the only way. Make it a male account. He'll probably think it's a guy trying to get a laugh or someone who's just a creep and is into that stuff.

Once you have to prove, show him. If he denies, tell him you're not going to put up with it. Give him an explanation to why you think it's wrong. If he doesn't think it's wrong, tell him you feel uncomfortable that he posts personal things about you guys.

Lastly, have him explain to you why he thought he should hide it from you when he's suppose to be honest. Make him delete the group. And after, tell him he's going to have to earn the trust you lost him because he didn't tell you about it.

If he makes a whole deal about it. Like, he starts yelling at you and telling you that you don't trust him. Dump him. If he really cares about you, he'll delete the and apologize.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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how do I change myspace off prvite

Log on to MySpace and follow these easy steps:

1) Click on "My Account" - Should be on the RIGHT near the SIGN OUT link
2) Clock on "Privacy"
3) The group down it would say "Profile viewable by:"
4) Choose "Everyone"

Hope I helped.
-- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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Hi! 13 1/2 Female

Well, this guy and I have been threw a lot together. We dated than,
(he liked me and my friend..:/) we broke up..he went out with my friend..she broke his heart. (I told him it would happen, and he felt sorry for not believing me)well..after a week or so..he got over my friend I was happy for him.He asked me to the movies(as friends I think..idk)we went together is was great. I wore a skirt and he stared at my legs..haha.. he was such a gentle men!! He shared his candy with me, he wore cologne..and he was just as nervous as me I think because he kept wiping his hands on his jeans. We became closer..and he put me in his 6th on his top on My space. For some reason we stopped talking for awhile.Than all of a sudden he tells me he has finally gotten a date with Reagon Reynolds..a girl in a grade younger than us. Well..I told him that's great even though..I was hurt. He put her as his first.and me as 5th.so that whole time..I liked him and he liked her so I thought..and I couldn't help it anymore..I had to tell him how I felt and he said. " I like you to so don't be mad". Soo..I was so happy..than today I asked him if he really liked me and he hasn't replied..he told me he was camping..so he's busy. I'm really confused.. I really don't want to go threw everything all over again.. I don't want him to like us both. Do you think he likes me or her..or what should I do I'm so confused!

Please help!!

I honestly think that he has feelings for you, but he doesn't he doesn't know whether or not you can be his girlfriend. I guess what I'm trying to say is that he has feelings for you. Perhaps they can escalate to more than just that. But the fact that he asked another girl out it just says that he doesn't like you like that...yet (maybe). I would say that if you want to be with him, you should spend more time with him when he comes back from camping. Spend time with him and once you feel like you have a strong connection, you should tell him how you really feel towards him. You might get hurt, but what is love without getting hurt?


Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
-- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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13/m
so as i said in the title what are some creative and fun things to do on dates with my girlfriend, and sometimes a few other people that come with us?
btw i only get about 15 dollars a week(aus)
also what are the like... dos and donts of dating? like what i should and shouldn't do
thanks

Going on picnics is always a cute thing. It's inexpensive and it's really cute. Perhaps you can ride your bikes, that's good too. You can also take her to her favorite restaurant and go somewhere else afterwards.

Dos: Show your girlfriend how much you care about her. Perhaps you can make / buy her a card, get her some flowers, get her some chocolates.


Don'ts: Don't get too extravagant. Sadly, girls expect more on the next date. So keep it low budget and you'll make it easier on yourself for the next date.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
-- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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Okay so ive been talking to these two guys... M and Z. I've hung out with both of them indevidually and neither of them know that im talking to the other. its not like theyre friends or anything but they know of each other. well im going to my friends tonight where the two of them are going to be there, and both of them want to hook up with me. i kinda wanna hook up with Z over M but idk what to do! sence M is going to be right there...

Well, if you want Z then hook up with Z. It's not like you and M are a couple. What I am trying to say that there are no strings attached. So just do whatever you want with whom ever you want. I don't think that it would be a big deal. And if M says anything to you just tell him that he's not your boyfriend or anything like that.

(Try to avoid yourself this problem when talking to guys that know each other ;D)

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
-- LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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I'm 16/f...I've been going out with this guy "Jeff" for 5 months now. He is so amazingly sweet and nice. There is one problem. We're totally different. He is goody goody and I'm emo/punk.He wishpers things in my ear all the time and just by the way he says it sounds like he is trying to get into my pants. He always says "your so sexy","your so gorgeous",& "sexy i love you"..He wont stop saying I love you until I say it back.I told him to stop saying it but he keeps on.I like another guy "Paul" who is my friend though. I know it's wrong but,I'm not going to lie I have feelings for him too.
What should I do??

Be straight out with him. The more time you're with him and you do this...the more you're going to hurt him in the end. Just tell him that you don't think of him like a boyfriend anymore and that you have feelings for someone else. If he truly cares about you, he would be okay (though he might be upset at first) and he'd be your friend. But whatever you do, don't keep being with him if you don't feel anything towards him.

Good Luck & Hoped I Helped
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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Sadies is around the corner and I have to think of a way to ask my boyfriend! =)

Have any ideas? I want to do something with chocolate kisses, but I can't think of anything!

The more the better!
Please & thank you! =)

Perhaps make a trail of chocolate kisses and make him follow it. And at the end have some chocolated kisses glued on a poster saying "SADIES?". And of course you'll be holding the poster.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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14/f

Ok so there is this new guy at my school. He has been going here for about 2 weeks almost 3. I kinda like him which is weird because I don't really know him. More like interested I guess. He has 2 of my classes and rides my bus. I really want to talk to him but I really don't know what I would say. I can't ask him his name. I would be a little late for that and would look stupid. So I can't talk to him during class, he sits too far away. So what do you think I should do? I really want to get to know him a little and get him to like me, at least as a friend. He has talked to me once but asked a dumb question lol. So please help! Thanks!

Well, you could always sit next to him on the bus. Just sit next to him and start making conversation. Maybe you could be like "You're new to this school?" and you can keep asking him how he likes it at his next school, stuff like that. Maybe when you're in class and you you have an assignment with partners, yu could ask him to be his partner.

Hope I Helped & Good Luck.
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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No matter what I do, I can't get my husband to send me nice sms's or emails. But recently I went trough his mail, and found pics to another man? What am I doing wrong here.

You're not doing anything wrong. But I think you should really find out what's going on. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about him not sending you nice emails or anything. Most guys just aren't into that. And if he is cheating, you should leave him. But do what I do. Get the full side of the story before you jump to conclusions.


Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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so i broke up from my one year realtionship with this guy that i really loved, we had sex and all. we broke up because he had to leave to another country and i miss him lots, its been a month sonce the breakup, and im not so depressed and sad anymore, im kinda ok again. but i still miss him alot. the thing is there is another guy likes me now, i don't know if im ready or what... and i dfont want to hurt him either! help please... thanks!!

You should tell the other guy about your previous relationship. Tell him that you were in a serious relationship and that you miss the guy. If you're not ready, ask him to give you some time. Maybe you can try going out but just have him know that you're still going to miss the other girl. Perhaps he'd get the other guy out of your head while you're together. If you are, all I can say is to go for it.


Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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My boyfriend loves me and I love him and we both care about each other a lot and we would both do anything for one another. But last night he had almost broken up with me because he is scared.
He's afraid to get close to people especially if it's a girlfriend... with all his previous relationships he goes out with the girl and then leaves them when he gets scared.
I would of just let him break up with me if i didn't think we didn't have something special. I can really see him and I together in the future and he feels the same.
I've told him to hold on and we'll make it and that this is different and I've told him he can make it over his fear.

But he's still scared and I've explained to him that I don't want to lose him and that he means everything to me. He told me he loves me too but he's terrified to get close....

I don't know what else I can do or say i just absolutely love this man and will do whatever it
takes to keep him.

Please Help thank you!

-Fallen Angel

Well, all I can say is that you should really talk to him. Tell him, that you're not like other girls and that you really love him. Make sure to tell him that you feel that what you guys have us something special. Perhaps you should try some couple counseling. Maybe some counselor (lack of a better word) can help your boyfriend get through the fear of getting too close. It's prefect normal, but still. You love him and he loves you. I think getting help would be a good idea.


Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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okay so my boyfriend is in trg (tiny rascal gang) and I don't really care. I mean he's everything I'm looking for in a guy. but do you think it's bad I'm dating a guy in a gang?what should I do?

I guess it would have to depend how much your boyfriend is into the whole gang thing. Me, being hispanic, I know some people in gangs and I know girls who have boyfriends who are in gangs. Many of them don't worry about it. But there are a select few that are worried. They are worried that if something were to happen with their boyfriends and another gang, they would go up to them instead of the boyfriends. But like I said, I guess it just depends how much your boyfriend is into the whole "gang world"

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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How do you get an emo boy to like you if your only half emo and half prepy?

I really don't think it matters if you're emo or preppy. If you like him, you should try talking to you. First try talking about things you have in common. Music is always a good place to start. You guys can become friends. And then when you're comfortable tell him how you feel about him and that you like him.

Hoped I helped & Good luck!
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE♥

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This guy I know is really cute and i know he thinks I am too, but he won't initiatate conversation at all, except maybe hi or to ask what was the homework was. I have tried to talk to him but everytime I get near him I act like a total wuss. AND he is always near his friends and they don't like me. I've tried notes and phone calls (which he answers), but everytime we get to the subject of going out, he always hangs up.!!!! I just don't understand him. What should I do?????????!--------michelle

Tell him how you feel about him. You should tell him that you want to go out with him. And that it frustrates you that he's trying to avoid it. Since he hangs up on the phone, maybe tell him in a note. I'm pretty sure he'll read it then.

Hoped I helped & Good luck!
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE♥

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16/f
I was dating this guy for a few months while he was on house arrest [Don't worry he's innocent].Now he might be leaving for boot camp. How do I convince my parents to let me go to his house to see him [[since he can't leave because of the house arrest]] before he goes? They know he's on house arrest and that we've dated AND I've been over there with him three times before with my parents permission.

Tell them about the situation. Tell them that you want to say goodbye before he leaves to bootcamp. And maybe tell them that they can come. If you'd think that was okay. Make sure to mention that it's going to be the last time you see him for a long time. And that he's someone important in your life.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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hey what's up my name's chip. My question is I have a new girlfriend we have been going out for 2 weeks. I have been friends with her for 5 years though and we have hooked up in the past but nothing serious. I think this relationship will go a long way. Tonite I am taking her out to dinner and I want to get her something just to make her feel special and show her how much I care about her what should I do?

Well me and my current boyfriend have been through the same process. Friends for a long time and then a couple. And as for a gift, I remember he made me a card and bought be a teddybear. Perhaps, you can get her that. If not, buy her something she really likes. Maybe you can write her a poem or sing her a song. Girls always like that.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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16/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about a week. He is friendly and has a ton of friends, although he's not considered popular and he's definitely not a jock. Since we've been together we've gone as far as taking all of our clothes off except underwear. He constantly makes sure I'm comfortable with this because, as he puts it, I'm too important to him to ruin it over something like moving too fast.
I'm completely okay with how far we've gone, and its comforting that he seems to care about me. However, everytime we hang out we only make out and never talk. I know a relationship needs more than physical aspects, and he assures me that he's not looking for a purely physical relationship. How do I make sure he's not just using me? Thanks in advance.

If you want to make sure he's not using you, one day when he wants to do it, tell him that you don't feel like doing it today. if he gets mad, there's a probability that he is using you. and if he's understanding and is okay with not doing it, then he's not.

Hoped I Helped.

--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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i have a crush on this guy i have known him since second grade but he only gives me a hug when his freinds are around to tease me like he even said to his freind she always wants to hug me and he said watch and i try to ignore him when he says hi to me but i can't i like him too much.
from,
do not know what i am doing wrong.

You should find out how he feels about you. Maybe get one of his friends that is also friends with you and make them find out how he really feels. If he tells his friends that you only want to hug him, just give him a taste of his own medicine. And just back away from the hug and tell him that you don't want one today. And when he says hi, say hi back but pretend to care less. Like say it then look away.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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19/f

My boyfriend doesn't even care about me anymore. I feel like our relationship has run it's course, even though I want it to keep going. I want him to care about me again. How do I get him to care about me again? Or is this just over?

Other people have their ways of coping: Getting back and getting revenge, like seeing other people to make your partner jealous. A lot of people doing things to get attention, which is usually self-destructive, like drugs, drinking or being promiscuous. I don't want to do those things because I'm not stupid. Those aren't even the right things to do and will only drive him away.

I'm going back to college soon and I thought that'd be reason enough for him to see me more, like he should see me as much as he can before I leave.. but sometimes I feel like he'll be glad to get rid of me.

He makes me all these promises that he can't keep. It's funny because HE is the one who offers to see me on his day off, then ends up canceling after I had been waiting for him for three hours. This keeps happening, and stupid me, I always think he's gonna pull through. When we DO see each other, it's like he only does it so I'll shut up.

Every time I call and confront him about this, I pour my heart out and end up getting yelled at. He says, "This is exactly the reason why I don't want to see you. All you do is whine and nag." I feel like he doesn't try to listen. I DO understand that he's tired, but then again, HE is the one who proposes that we go out in the first place and ends up standing me up for one reason or another.

Am I wrong? Is he wrong? I don't even know what to do anymore. All I've learned is that I gave and gave and gave and got spat on in return. It's like I went against the world to be with this guy and ended up with nothing. I feel like banning relationships for a loooong time.

Well, I wouldn't say he doesn't care about you until you actually talk to him. So, for that I say you talk to him about his feeling and if he feels the same way. Or our his feelings fading away. I think that you shouldn't get back with revenge. It's really stupid, because like you said, you're only drive him away. I think that he is wrong. If he's making plans and then canceling, I think that you deserve atleast and explanation other than you nagging and whining. You should talk to him and ask him what's wrong. And tell him how you feel about the whole thing. Tell him that you've gave up a lot and that you don't deserve to be ignored like that. And if he continues like that, I say you dump him. Because you deserve someone to care for you. But don't ban relationships for a long time, just give yourself enough time until you're ready.

Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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hehe so im a 17/f and about 2 weeks ago i met this boy in driver's ed. his name is nick. i didn't meet him in class but like when we were doing driver's time we started talking. and we got to know each other. well after we were done driving he i signed up for the next driving time from 4-6 p.m. and he signed up for 2-4 but he changed it so he could drive with me.. and i thought that was sweet. haha i dunno. and then last week when we drove, he asked me for my number and we'd text each other. and i asked him why he likes to drive with me and he said cuz its fun haha and im the only person he's actually gotten to know. lol so yeah. and we talk on myspace and im on his top 8. and i put him on mine's too. but yeah im not sure like exactly what to say to him and i mean does he like me? im confused. and i don't wan t to tell him i like him yet because i've only known him for 2 weeks.. so yeah please help! thnx.

I think that he does like you. It's okay to flirt with him a little to make sure. Just ask him straight out what he feels towards you. Just be true to yourself and if you like him to just tell him.

Hoped I Helped

-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE

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