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there is this guy i met last summer at camp, and my group which was a co-ed group consisted of him. and he's really annoying me like on myspace when i put the bullentin boyfriend application a couple of days ago he said he was attracted to me/liked me and another application i posted a couple months before he said he liked me, and im #3 on his top 8 friends, but on his bday a couple of weeks ago he asked me for money hes like k if you want to give me anything give me money cause if you don't mind i want some money for my bday and i thought it was completeley rude, and to tell you the truth he's not that attractive and personality wise he is obnoxious and annoying. i haven't spoken to hiim in a long time which is good for me, but his headlines on myspace are also strange like "She's so hot" etc and i want to also ask him why he has these weird headlines by sending him a message but do you think thats too rude. But what should i do about the other part.
note- at camp he was stalking me everywere i went grrr.
thanks
~*~Brianna~*~ (link)
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For his birthday, I would just get him a card. That's rude for him to ask you for any kind of present without you offering. The headlines, I would just message him saying "Who are those headlines about?" and see how he responds. If he says you, then maybe you should just tell him "I see you as a friend, and that's it" ..maybe he'll get the point? Sorry if this isn't enough for you. Good luck!
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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
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>torn (link)
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You're right, age is nothing but a number. Think about it. If you did everything your friends wanted you to do, you wouldn't be -you-. It's YOUR life and you make your own choices and decisions. Who cares if it doesn't please anyone else? Do what you want. If you want to be with this boy, then go for it. If not, then don't.
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥ (link)
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I had the same problem with my ex-boyfriend. i was never in his profile. So one day I was like "I love how you're in my profile, but you don't even mention my name in your profile" and he put me in there. lol, And as far as him IMing you first..Just be like "Why do i always have to im you first?" or one day..Just don't IM him the whole time you or him signs on. Wait for him to IM you. By then, he should get the hint. But who knows..Guys are crazy sometimes.
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I'm a 16/f and I've liked this guy for 4 years now, ever since one of my friends dated him. Just in the past 8 months we've been talking and spending time together. Around August we stopped talking until just recently. I asked my friend for advice on what to say to him because I'm super shy. But now since it's Winter Break and he isn't busy with school or work much. So the other night I went over to his house. He kind of pressured me into having sex, I'm not complaining or anything because I wanted my first time to be with him but I just didn't imagine it being then. My friend keeps telling me that's the only reason he talks to me is because he wants to have sex, since we didn't talk for a long time until the topic of sex came up. I'm really confused with him. When I'm with him it's almost like I'm memorized by him and make myself believe that he has feelings for me. But on the other hand I can see where my friend is coming from when she says he's using me, she's my best friend and doesn't want to see me hurt. What do you think? I don't want to be someone he only calls when he's horny. I'm not that type of girl. (link)
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Most guys use girls. I'm in the same situation, only the sex hasn't actually happened yet. He tells me he likes me and stuff but we only talk about sex. I can't tell if he really means it when he says he likes me, or not. But in your case, maybe the guy likes you and at the same time, wants to have sex with you. As far as a relationship with him goes, as long as you're giving him what he wants without being "together", he most likely won't ask you out. By this I mean, if sex is what he wants, he's getting it without being your boyfriend so chances are he'll want to remain friends. Sorry if this doesn't make sense to you. You need to ask him straight up if he likes you or not. Tell him not to lie to you. Say "Not that this affects anything that we do together, but do you like me?" that way he thinks you can still have sex if he doesn't like you. If he just says "i like you" then, he might not be telling the truth. You should be able to tell.
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there is this guy that i have liked for liek ever!! && i always thought that he liked me back..&& this was like 2 or 3 years ago in the summer time.. && he like IMed me && was like do you like me? && i said i don`t know..but i knew i did but i don`t know why i was saying no..anyways he kept on asking me && i kept on saying that..until my cousin wrote no..&& now he won`t talk or even look at me anymore. i tried to talk to him but he just blows me off..&& then he told this girl the he was gonna ask me out but i becuase soo "white-washed".. its kinda dumb but i still like him. one time i asked him if liked my && he said no..but i`m not sure if he is lying or not.
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Well, you should have told him from the beginning that you liked him. If a guy takes time to ask you about your feelings for him, chances are he likes you too. You need to call him or something and say "Can we talk?" ..tell him the whole story. Just say, you thought he didn't like you so you kept saying you didn't know when he asked you if you liked him and then one time your cousin said no, and you're sorry for all of that.
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okay well this boy that i like is going to the dance this friday and i've been meaning to ask him if i should give up on him.. or if he is going to give me another chance... how does this sound to you...
(i'm gonna ask him to dance and he will say yes if i go up and ask him myself... ) then while were dancing i'm going to say to him " okay i need to ask you a question but you have to give me a straight answer and a truthful one or else it will be useless for me to even ask you =] so .. i wanted to know if you are going to give me another chance soon like in the next month or should i move on and not wait for you to come around" is that good.. should i switch anything around?
thanks in advance =] i always give 5's for a try =] (link)
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I went through the same situation. The guy just kind of left me hanging. I didn't know what to do. I thought if I moved on, he'd come around and it'd be too late. But if I stayed, he'd end up hurting me. So if I were you, I would ask him. Your plan sounds good to me. That's exactly how I asked my ex-boyfriend. But maybe you shouldn't mention "within the next month"..Say "are you going to give me another chance soon, or should i just move on and get over it?" It'll look like you're willing to give up, or wait for him. Guys like that. Let's just hope he's honest with you. Good luck.
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I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What? (link)
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Don't assume things. Talk to the guy and ask him if he likes you. Let him know that you like him and want to be more than just friends with him and see how that works.
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i'm going out with this guy and like people are starting to know..... but alot of people are making fun of me telling me i'm desperate! but im not i love this guy but its soo annoying that these people think this..what should i do?
xoxx (link)
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Don't let other people's opinion affect yours. I'm kinda in the same situation. I like this guy, but he kinda has a bad reputation with girls. I didn't want alot of people knowing about me and him hanging out but it got out and now people are constantly reminding me to "not let him hurt me". It's your life and your decision, don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!
I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…
I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?! (link)
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Give it to him, just tell him you didn't want him to know. If he doesn't like it, tell him he can take it back and get something else with the money. Or buy him something else along with that gift.
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
thanks (link)
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Alot of people think they are "in love". I'm not gonna lie, I even think I could be. But chances are, half of them are just going through "puppy love", or lust. Lust is like you NEED the person in your life. Most teens experience lust, instead of love. I think people think it's cool to be in love, so they pretend that's what it is. Lol, however..maybe you are experiencing love, and maybe your friends are too. But i have noticed this and I, personally, don't think love occurs until you're actually mature enough to know what it is. And when you are in love..you won't need anyone to tell you that you are. So your friends are probably NOT in love.
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Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that... (link)
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Try playing hard to get with the guys you like. Be a flirt towards them, and don't let them know they like you unless they ask.
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Well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I still love him a lot. But he's going out with another girl. Im still crazy about him and I really want him back. Should I wait around for him or try to move on? ..Oh, and I've heard from a bunch of people that his girlfriends gonna dump him for his best friend which is really low and I wanna tell him but he'll just get mad at me and say that I'm just trying to break them up so I can get him back.. should I tell him and risk the chance of losing our friendship but keep him from getting hurt or should I not tell him and keep our friendship but have him get hurt? Thanks in advance.. Kellie (link)
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Well, it's obvious that he has hurt you. He deserves to feel the pain that he caused you. I know EXACTLY how it feels. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago too and he also has a new girlfriend. If she was planning on breaking up with him, I know I would NOT tell him. Payback's a bitch, and let's just say..This can be your chance for him to realize how bad he really wants YOU back. In the mean time, you need to try and move on and get over him. If you truly love him, then chances are you will be there when he is ready to be with you again. By telling him his g/f is breaking up with him..It'll sound like you're jealous and then she might not break up with him. Just let it happen, and when it does..Be there to comfort him.
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Ok. I like a girl. She is still in love with her ex-boyfriend. We are kind of friends with benefits and make out everytime we get together. Things haven't been going so great, I want more, she is still in love. Lately I've been hanging out with this new girl, we will call her girl B. she is amazing, and beautiful. She says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now, which I know is girl translation for back off. but I really like her. I like them both, but I'm in a pickle with both, so any advice would be good. (link)
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Alright, I can relate to this girl you like. I really, really liked my ex-boyfriend, who..I guess we could say I loved. And lately i've been hanging out with this guy and we make out everytime we're together too. She's doing this to help her get over him. It's obviously over for good between them, and she needs someone to move on to. She picked you. You have to wait and give her time to let go of her ex. Once she realizes he's seeing other people, she'll want to do the same. As for "B" goes, saying you don't want a boyfriend right now doesn't ALWAYS mean back off. She could mean that she wants to be with other people too..not just one person all of the time. Commitment can be scary to some people, which is why most people like to stay single alot of the time. Stick with the first girl you mentioned. Give her some time to adjust to being single and away from her boyfriend. It takes time to get over someone you like so much. Just make sure you are there for her if she needs someone to talk to.
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My friend Shayna and I we're chilling with her really hot cousin who likes my friend Jenna... All he talked about was Jenna I left at 6 and Jenna came over Shaynas at 7:30. well jenna already said he was ugly and i had no chance to tell anyone that i liked him. SO NOW jenna is going out with him and Shay and her b/f and Jenna and Shays cousin and me are hanging out friday . this is going to me completly weird im the only single girl .... i feel so left out and kinda pissed off at Jenna cuz she keeps talking about him even though i told her i liked him today :(
is it alright to be pissed? do you think it would be weird? (link)
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I would definetly be mad..If I were you, I wouldn't go. Chances are, they could be all over eachother and that would not feel too great for you. Just tell Shayna you think you'll feel left out and you don't feel like going. Plan a different day to hang out with her. This Jenna girl sounds pretty bitchy, if you ask me..Sounds to me like she's talking so much about him knowing that it makes you jealous. Tell her to get over herself and that you don't like him anymore (whether you do or not). Then she should shutup.=]
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ok i am signed up for advicenator but i never thought that id need advice myself theres this girl and everytime i see her my stomach feels really weird and i feel like i want to be around her for a long time and i try to pick my words carfully but they allways come out wrong, i might as well be saying hoopiewatlenslurgin? wat the heck is wrong? im confused!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You like her. Obviously. It sounds to me like you're scared of rejection. Meaning, you want to impress her but when you try and say something it comes out wrong because you're scared of what she might say. You just need to get comfortable about her. Let loose and be yourself.
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Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ? (link)
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Going to a boy's house doesn't mean you have to do anything with him. My bestfriend's ex-boyfriend of 9 months came to my house one time, and she wasn't mad at all. Chances are she MAY get jealous, but if you want to go then go. People shouldn't get mad if nothing happens. If this girl is your friend, then you might not want to go over there. It depends on how well you know the girl.
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*14//female if it helps* ohkk .. so um theres this kid who i like and im pretty sure he like me too (we'll call him bob) and he just broke up with his girlfriend cuz she was cheating on him =o .. but one of his friends likes me too - and i sorta like him whos been single for a while -sometimes it seems that they're fighting over me - ahhh i dont know what 2 do (link)
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It pretty much just depends on who you like more. If you like bob more, go for him..Tell the other guy that you would rather stay friends with him.
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ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
xxx (link)
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Personally, I think it takes awhile to really KNOW that you're in love with someone. I was with my ex-boyfriend for 5 months and was convinced that I loved him with all my heart. But now I realize that I never LOVED him. I liked him a lot though. I think it will take awhile for him to actually mean that he loves you. By saying i love you RIGHT NOW probably means 'i like you more than i know how to describe'. Which means, he likes you..but when he tries to tell you how much, the only words that he can come up with are "I love you". So chances are, he won't hurt you anytime soon. He might in the future, normally..Coming out of any long term relationship, you will end up hurt. Just be careful and try not to get too attached too soon. And I'm not trying to tell you that you aren't in love, because only YOU will know. But when you are, you won't need anyone to tell you that you are or not.
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Hey i am 17 and i have this boyfriend whom i care alot about. he is 19 and last thursday we went through a little problem. his friends tell him he needs to date older women because they are more experience and that they dont make no bull crap. anyways he told me that they make sense but he really cares for me to much and he dont want that to happen. he is going to cancun in 2 weeks and i asked him if we were going to break up when he goes. and he asked me why i asked that. but then thursday he said all thatand he is the kind of person who does not take bull crap and he tells it like it is. but i really care for him alot and dont want us to break up for no reason. well then last night we were on the phone and we were talking about why i asked if ihe wanted to be with me. because saturday i was feeling like he did not want to be with me, and i asked him and then we finally talked. i know i may confuse you but i am confusing myself but what i want to know is how can i get him to talk really serious to me?
Thanks (link)
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Guys hardly ever take anything seriously. Chances are, if he's going to Cancun..he won't want to be "tied down" and in a relationship. Atleast that's how my boyfriend was. Since I don't know him or how long you have been with him..It's hard to tell. Depending on how much you can trust him, will determine how to get him to talk serious with you. Have him come over one night and tell him when he gets there that you want to talk about some things. See how he acts when you say that, and then tell him how you feel. Usually it's harder for them to lie to your face. Hope this helps.
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okay i like this kid and hes in all my classes i have a feeling he likes me and he always ims me as soon as he gets on the problem is i have plenty of things to talk to him about at school but nothing online so does any one know stuff i can say to him and no hey whats up ? and hows school . just dont cut it thanks a bunch .. (link)
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Just talk to him online like you're standing in front of him. Start out with, like "how was your day?" and go from there. Some people are boring to talk to on the internet, if he's like that..then chances are talking to him online won't be fun at all. lol.
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