Question Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:18 pm
Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that...
AskAndy answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 9:56 pm: Flirt and pretend you don't care that they think of you as just a friend. They'll come around if you're charming and make them like you.They won't even realize when they stopped thinking of you as just a friend, but don't be anything you aren't because it turns them away. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 9:03 pm: Try playing hard to get with the guys you like. Be a flirt towards them, and don't let them know they like you unless they ask. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
xoxoSweetKisseSxoxo answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:16 pm: FLIRT FLIRT
RainbowOfPinkxo answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 6:20 pm: 0o0h sweetie, no you shouldnt change yourself at all! Trust me one day the right guy will find you, if the other guys dont like you- it's too bad for them! Deffinately don't change because you want to be yourself and you don't wan people to like you for something your not. One day, you'll see, a nice boy will like you for you and you will be glad you didn't change.
playboy288 answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 6:00 pm: you shouldn't change the way you are just for somebody that is a big no!!!you shouldn't try to rush love...soon somebody will like you...you will know it is that special someone soon..that don't make you think you should change the way you are...hoped i helped...♥♥ alisha [ playboy288's advice column | Ask playboy288 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 5:14 pm: Maybe try being a bit more flirtatious, but not too flirty in a way that changes how you are. Maybe like, touch the guy on the hand out something you know what i mean? Maybe get to know guys that dont really know you that well, so they know your not just a good friend. Good Luck!Hope i helped!
ScratchesOnTheWall answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 4:43 pm: Ah the classic. Been there, done that, got the t-shirts emblazoned with "Look!! I'm a girl too!!!". Isn't it amazing how guys can sit and whine about "nice guys" finishing last without giving a second thought to the types of girls they themselves like?
Let me see, you're either quiet or "one of the lads" (loosly translates to having a sense of humour or some intelligence). The best advice I can give you is to stick with who you are, you're clearly liked and it just takes time for people to get bored with the "girlfriends" that they can't actually talk to or have a friendship with. Patience is the key.
In the meantime guy mates are pretty damn cool, don't underrate them. Less bitchy, less complicated (mainly), and they'll make you feel protected and cared for in a way girls just don't. Nice to have a balance.
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:57 pm: Sweetie, don't change yourself for them. Believe it or not, it is good to have a lot of friends. Sometimes people become friends before they date. So it's no big. Any guy that liked you for you wouldn't have to force you to put on an act. Boys are gonna have to like you for who you are. There is no need to put on an act, it's important to be real about yourself. Anyway most people can tell when someone is fake or not acting like their real selves. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
x0o_blondiie answered Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:46 pm: Maybe you can give them hints that you like them more than a friend and want to be more than that. Let them know by flirting and just give them hints. If they're smart they'll catch on and hopefully they'll realize you want to be more than friends. [ x0o_blondiie's advice column | Ask x0o_blondiie A Question ]
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