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i love you
ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
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well right now the word love is like pizza you love pizza but do you love so much that you would eat it every night. that's the way his last relationship eas it was pizza love but he might have different feelings for you. never mind when he says I love you b/c if you don't think he does let him know. find out how much he really loves you!
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Most likely yes he loves you! If he says it right into your eyes and its just something that you can tell and feel. Its doesn't really matter how long it takes to fall in love as long as you know that they mean it
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Yes i do think he loves you and i know how it feels to get hurt but you can't really judge your boyfriend you have now from bad old experiences.yes it is ok for him to have said i love you to some one else cuz we really don't know what true love is and yes we are going to think many times we love are boyfriend(s)
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its always hard to tell but it never hurts to take a chance if he does mean it. if you feel the same way though. just dont do anything stupid like sex. lol but if you think he really means it youll know.
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Depends how he acts. I've been dating this girl for a month now, almost two, and I can tell you right now, I love her! The thing is, he's had long term relationships, and you know this. He should be capable of knowing what love is, and anyone who can have a relationship for 8 months is smarter enough to say it and truely mean it. He wouldn't say it unless he truly meant it. I have a funny question you can ask him. It sounds really funny, and if he's the type of guy like me he'll deff. laugh. say "do you really love me?" and when he says "yes" which I'm confident he will say "if I broke both my arms, would you whipe my ass for me?" He's not supposed to answer but he will and you'll get a good laugh out of it. When he says yes which i'm almsot confident he will, you'll know he truly does love you, and you get something to laugh about for a while. : )
Have fun, and good luck!
Dr. Minkus
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this is one of those questions that dont really have an answer. my ex told me he loved me after 1 month. and he had never told a girl that. but we broke up because he didnt trust me. if he had loved me he wouldve trusted me more. but hey, this is about you. what i mean is just dont get too attatched till you know for sure. a lot of guys say i love you and dont mean a thing. others say it and they mean it more than anything else. who knows you two could wind up married. lol.
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He might think he means it. Maybe he even does, but it probably hurts atleast a little to know your not the only girl he says it to. But if I were you it's just some simple words. You do not have to worried about getting hurt...I don't think he's going to dump you because he said 'I love you.' Your fine.
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the real question is,"do you trust him". cause if you do then you should tell him that your madly deeply in love with him.but if you dont trust him them maybe your not in love .maybe your just infatuated.then again, maybe he's just infatuated ,and there's nothing wrong with that.it just means he could love you or he thinks what he;s feeling is love.if you dont want to get you feelings hurt tell him your infatuated by him
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Personally, I think it takes awhile to really KNOW that you're in love with someone. I was with my ex-boyfriend for 5 months and was convinced that I loved him with all my heart. But now I realize that I never LOVED him. I liked him a lot though. I think it will take awhile for him to actually mean that he loves you. By saying i love you RIGHT NOW probably means 'i like you more than i know how to describe'. Which means, he likes you..but when he tries to tell you how much, the only words that he can come up with are "I love you". So chances are, he won't hurt you anytime soon. He might in the future, normally..Coming out of any long term relationship, you will end up hurt. Just be careful and try not to get too attached too soon. And I'm not trying to tell you that you aren't in love, because only YOU will know. But when you are, you won't need anyone to tell you that you are or not.
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Do I think he means it? Yeah, he probably does mean it - he means it to the best of his ability and for as well as he understand love at this point in time.
Love isn't a constant thing, it grows and changes.
So, he says it because it is what he feels. There's nothing wrong with that.
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