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Age: 14
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Okay, So we're in love. We talk about love all the time, and even admit to being in Love. HES MY LOVE. He only asks girls out in person so next time we see each other hopefully it'll be "the time!" ..He even told me he was gonna ask me out. I just need a little bit of advice.
1) How do i react so "HAPPY" when he asks me out. what do i say? and how do i NOT act nervice before he asks me.
2) Boys=what would u want a girl to say to you (we're both 13) and it'd totally make u smile. Anything OOEY GOOEY LOVE STUFF =)
I SO LOVE HIM (link)
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We have like the same situation going on, when my boyfriend asked me out it was the next day after we had spent the whole night talking on the phone and I knew he was going to ask me so when he finally did I said " Heck Yes" and it was awesome! Just be happy and don't hide any of your feelings hope this helps JL
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Okay I know you all hate these questions but I need some help. My crush asked me out 3 days ago and now were going out. I found out he asked my bff what he should get me for Christmas. I have NO CLUE what to get him. He likes hunting, thats like one of his favorite things.
Do you guys have any ideas ( arouhnd $10 or $15 ) that would be romantic or cute? Thanks so much. (link)
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Get him some candy or Tag body spray. Oh my gosh tag body spray smells amazing! JL
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I am a Cheerleader. I realy like doing stunts and dancing but im not very gracfull. I land hard on evreything I do making it almost inpossible to do a front walkover. I can do one but it isnt what it should be. I was wondering if someone could give me tips for all diffrent stunts and maybe jumps to make me more gracefull.... Please? Well thankyou so very much and I will rate you a 5 for any anwer.. Thanks!!!! (link)
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When perfoming a stunt don't be really uptight and just let your body do the stunt like just practically relax your body so you just kinda glide. Or just slamm your feet hard on the ground like when doing a cartwheel.So it all looks crisp. Also if you mess up just joke about it like get up smiling and saying "whoops i guess that didn't work too well" JL
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ok the other day i was with my boyfriend and weve been together for a month and 2 months next week and he said 'i love you' to me like properly but hes into long term relationships, his last gf he was with for 8 months and he said 'i love u' to her.
do you think he really means it...i love him so much and i dont want to get hurt!
thanks ill rate high
xxx (link)
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Most likely yes he loves you! If he says it right into your eyes and its just something that you can tell and feel. Its doesn't really matter how long it takes to fall in love as long as you know that they mean it
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There this guy in my gym class and he's a senior and I'm a freshman. Well I kinda like him and when I would see him in the halls I would tell my friends "oh that's the guy I like", but what I also meant was that I want to get to know him. Someone told him that I like him and well yeah he knows I like him and he knows who I am. I want to talk to him but I'm just so shy you know. So I was thinking that maybe I should just start talking to him. This is what I want to say
HEY YOUR ______(HIS NAME)RIGHT?
WELL I'M ______(MY NAME)
I THINK YOU HEARD THAT I SO-CALLED LIKE YOU, AND WHEN I SAID LIKE I MEANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU. ITS NOT THAT I LIKE YOU CUZ TO LIKE SOMEONE YOU NEED TO KNOW THEM AND I DONT KNOW YOU SO I GUESS ITS JUST A CRUSH?
okay hows that sound? any ideas? how should i start cuz i mean what if hes playin basketball or something i cant just walk up to him and just start talking. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!???
PLEASE HELP ME!THANK YOU!!
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Just go up to him when he is like walkin to class or something and just start talking like " YOu did an awesome job playin basketball the other day" or like wow it is like freezing cold outside. You can do that if you are just walkin next to him and just like look out the window and comment on something. Hope this helps- JL
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Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her in everything of her thoughts. I feel like if she had to choose between me and eliz needed to be helped up off the edge of a cliff she would grab me, but after talk about eliz the whole time. We also go to different schools like I go to high school and they go to junior high. Kay even cried when eliz needed to talk to me and didn't want to talk to Kay secretly. I was pissed on how she cried over her and I thought would she do the same to me. When they recently had a sleepover last Friday and she was showing me pictures of the sleepover and she had a picture of them together with the word "best friends" at the top. I felt my heart break that moment. That sleepover was for a "project" which they just played around the whole time though. I barely see Kay anymore and we live so close like 5 seconds from each other's house that I can see in her windows. But she sees eliz 24/7 though. She's also about to go on a cruise for a week and I won't see her than. I wanted to spend this time with her. I'm wondering if she even cares about me anymore really. My friendship love for her is fading. She's even keeping secrets from me like letting that eliz girl know before me and she promised she wouldn't do that in the beginning. She's acting different too and I don't like it. She tells me I’m totally #1, but the way she's been equaling me to this eliz chick that thought sounds more and more false to me. I've known her for 3 years and she's known her for 1 and a half! She treats me like she would treat her. I'm not included on any that they do and I hate that. Also my other friends when we get together I try to get Kay to go quick. She didn’t even attempt to have me come along. I don’t know what to do about this. Am I being unreasonable or totally fair and have a right to be a little ticked? Please help!! (link)
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Ohh my gosh that sounds like exactly what I am going through right now with one of my best friends!What I have been trying to do is just when I see her go up to her and just start talking about stuff. Just what ever comes into your mind. Like when i'm walkin down the hall and I see her, I run into her and say "Ohh my gosh I'm so sorry couldn't see you there" And also make and effort to invite her over to your house so you and her can jsut talk and hang out like you used to. and yes you totally have the right to think that the other girl is taking your place.I know that sometimes i kinda just want to smack the other girl who is steeling my best friend! But that wouldn't be a wise choice if you ask me! Hope this helps JL
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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
Thanks in help!!! (link)
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You did the right thing I mean if you both like each other then I say go for it! And yes sometimes it does only take a day or two to like someone! HOpe it all works out well!
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mkay there's this guy i like and he likes me too. so he sat with me at lunch today and we barely talked. im not sure wat to talk about.. any ideas? thanks. (link)
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Just start talkin about anything that you want to like discuss how the food is or you can tell him some jokes like. Two pretzels were walking down the street and one was a salted. Or how did the chicken cross the freeway? Answer: Take the F out of Free and the F out of way. ( The person should then reply ,but there is no F in way) ( you must sayit out loud and fast to get it) At least that is what I do when I am around guys I like I start talking and sometimes you can't shut me up! Hope it all works out well!
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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this. (link)
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I would just try to block them out I mean most of them probably don't have boyfriends. I know what it is like the first couple of weeks after me and my boyfriend were seen holding hands in the hall all his friends would come up and whisper something in his ear and laugh. I hope everything works out between you two!
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alright, well i had this bestfriend for a while now and i thought there was trust in it until recently she just randomly called me and started screaming her head off at me and threatening me and saying that ive been "running my mouth" about her. and when i was like "what are you talking about?" she hung up.. so i went down the street to where she was and it turned out that everyone got drunk that night and some one told her that i said that she wanted to a have sex with john.. but i didnt and she just wont believe me.. she would not listen to me.. she just kept screaming at me and i was screaming back that i never said that and then she screamed back "bull!!" but i really DID NOT SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT.. i mean she was my BESTFRIEND i dont do that to my bestfriends!! one thing i know i am is a good friend and all of a sudden i'm being accused of something i never did. it gotten to a point where i had to push her and we almost got into a fight if it hadnt been for my friend danielles getting in the middle of us.. i kept on saying to her "your going to regret this so much when u realize what an idoit you are" but she is so set on me talking about her and i'm so set on making her believe me when i said i never did.. no one has seen her since then.. how do i get her to believe me?? (link)
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Well i guess since talking to her about it is out of the question maybe you should try talking to some of teh people who were at this party thing and ask them if you were even there and then have them talk to her. Hope everything works out great!
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yeah so in some classes i hang out with these people that i'm not really friends with cause idon't have any of my friends in there.. i'm a really shy person so i don't really talk, just sit there you know.. it's easier if i were with just one person- but i'm not.. i'm with a group of people who are already friends.. i don't wanna like seem annoying/ weird and not want them to like me so that they don't hang out with me.. i'm pretty sure they won't not like me but i just can't get that threw my head... i seem very quiet shy and boring i think and i don't want that.. but NOTHING comes to mind of what to say to them at all!
how can i become friends with these people and how can i talk to themm? can you give me some tips that don't make me seem like a loser like talk about the weather??
Thanks i'll love you forever if you help me (link)
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Just maybe add little things to the conversation like if they are talking about school and maybe the assignment that you had in that class. Maybe about the latest football or bball game. Just be really nice and maybe look up a joke or two on the internet and then you can say hey wanna her a joke like say 2 pretzels were walking down the street and one was a salted. Hope it all works out great!
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I really want to play softball. I want to get in shape because I think try-outs are very soon. What can I do to prepare? What should I take? What should I wear, I know that I should wear nothing to tight but something kind of neatly loose, right? SOmeone please help me. Thank You in advance. (link)
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That is totally awesome that you want to play softball, I love playing softball. As many people said before go for a jog and do some short sprints. Lift weights once or twice a week try to work on your starts like get in a set postition and then have someone yell go and try not to hesitate at all like don't take a step back and then go you have to teach yourself to not even think about it ,but to just go. And to where. just a t shirt and shorts. Maybe even tall socks and sliding pads ( a sliding plad is usually a tall black thing that just slides onto your leg and goes up to the bottom of the knee and is pulled up over the knee when on base) You can usually get these at a sporting goods store.And cleets or tennis shoes good luck!
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When does softball season start? How long should I prepare for the try-outs? (link)
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Again it depends on where you live like my softball season starts in the fall during football season and i also play summer fastpitch softball. taht usually is in June and part of July I would find a friend and just play a game of catch over off season maybe once a week or so and practice hitting off a tee or just swing a bat once or twice a week so you can get your muscle memmory down.
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OK...Say you really LOVE the sport Basketball...you have been offered to join the freshmen team (but ur a 7th grader)...You wanna play but you dont like the coach...Everyone Says he is a Pervert.Also 8th graders that u have played Basketball with in the Past get mad because you were offered To Be on a Freshmen team..(8th graders are post to be you Bffs??).well..what do i do??..TRy to live with it and play for him?...or Go to a different high school and play for them..Thanks (link)
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Ask yourself this question. Would you rather play basketball with people your own age who don't know as much about the sport or would you rather play basketball with people older than you who have more experiance? Just make sure that you do what you want and that you make sure that you still have fun playing basketball, I know personally that i have been playing bball for a long time and once i got in middle school was on a traveling team and everything and now that i am in high school I have began to dislike basketball because people pushed me too hard while i was young.
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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends? (link)
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My boyfriend is also friends with my good friends so we usually go watch a movie and then go eat chinese food and have a great time
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I recently started going out with a friend of mine who I have known for about 2 years and really liked his personality, however I have only been going out with him for about 4 days and he has already become really clingy and needy, saying he misses me a lot and saying things like he only wants to talk to me. Its really putting me off him so how can i tell him without hurting his feelings to stop being so needy? (link)
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I know exactly what you are going through my ex boyfriend was just like that. We lived like 2 hours away I know crazy to even date a guy who lives that far away, but he would call me like every single waking hour of the day and we wouldn't even talk about anything and alls he would say is that he loves me and misses me and can't wait to see me. At first it is cute ,but it can get really annoying right? I would tell him either write him an email or something and explain to him that you need some space and time to yourself. Hope everything works out well!
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