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Getting to know a guy
There this guy in my gym class and he's a senior and I'm a freshman. Well I kinda like him and when I would see him in the halls I would tell my friends "oh that's the guy I like", but what I also meant was that I want to get to know him. Someone told him that I like him and well yeah he knows I like him and he knows who I am. I want to talk to him but I'm just so shy you know. So I was thinking that maybe I should just start talking to him. This is what I want to say
HEY YOUR ______(HIS NAME)RIGHT?
WELL I'M ______(MY NAME)
I THINK YOU HEARD THAT I SO-CALLED LIKE YOU, AND WHEN I SAID LIKE I MEANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU. ITS NOT THAT I LIKE YOU CUZ TO LIKE SOMEONE YOU NEED TO KNOW THEM AND I DONT KNOW YOU SO I GUESS ITS JUST A CRUSH?
okay hows that sound? any ideas? how should i start cuz i mean what if hes playin basketball or something i cant just walk up to him and just start talking. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!???
PLEASE HELP ME!THANK YOU!!
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Just go up to him when he is like walkin to class or something and just start talking like " YOu did an awesome job playin basketball the other day" or like wow it is like freezing cold outside. You can do that if you are just walkin next to him and just like look out the window and comment on something. Hope this helps- JL
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If going to talk to him, make sure hes alone, it'll be easier for both of you, also try not to be so nervous, maybe he was flattered that you liked him but didnt tell anyone. I mean you never know.
If you want to get to know him the best way is to TALK to him. You'll get the best information, trust me. When you talk him try not to focus on the fact he knows you like him. If you worried he might make fun of you or tease you because you like him, ditch him and move on, hes not worth it.
And make sure he's single, thats a good place to start. You don't want angrey senior girlfriends tracking you down, that's not good.
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~sara~
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Look, you should meet him when he will be alone. Try it but if you always see him with others go there with self confidence and tell him that you want to tell him sth. He comes. Then tell something smart and something that will surprise him. I mean not the usual things! For example smile and tell him"I suppose you know me right?" Or sth like that. You know why? Cause you want a dialogue and you want him to feel comfortably! So, afterwards, tell him that he is one hondsome boy but to like someione means much more. Explain him that you think he is a cute boy etc. but you do not know his personality so when you was saying that you like him you didn't mean it that seriously! Let him answer and if he will say that he understood it tell"Oh, i knew you are not only cute but smart too!" And tell your name. If he will say that he thought sth else tell him that you would like to hang out once and get known better. That would be a great chance for you!
P.S.I it is really important to talk to him and sth else! From now on, do not trust people that easily... Kisses and good luck!
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you better see if he has a g/f or not if not you can start talking to him getting to know him a little better but GO FOR IT
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