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this is crazy.
I don't know what my problem is. I talk to other guys constantly, and hang out with other guys alot. I'm around hott guys every day. Everytime I start to either talk to a guy, like a guy, or kiss a guy..I think about my ex-boyfriend (we broke up a few weeks ago). And it's like I want to call him right that second. Just to see what he's doing, or where he is. Why is this? When will this change? And when will I stop thinking about him when I kiss other guys? Is this normal to think about people while in the process of getting over them? sorry for so many questions at once. But can you please try and answer them all.
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Why is this? because it takes time for people to get over someone...when will it change? - only time will tell sweetie.there is no fixed time..everyone is different. you will stop thinking about him when your about to kiss another guy as you get over this guy you keep thinkin bout. its very normal to think about them as your trying to get over them..i know how it feels to be thinkin about someone and wanting to talk to them..see what they are doing..
it will take time..and soon there will be a new guy in your life who you will be thinking about instead :) :) you know... ;)
-meliss
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Sweetie,
this thing that happens to you is normal and believe me happens to a lot of other girls too! As you say and i agree, you are in the process of getting over him, you haven't got over him! It is good to go out with other boys and have fun but, if you do not feel that you like them do not kiss them and do not start a relationship with them. In my opinion, what you need now is to forget him. Think that life goes on and remember that you will find a lot of boys in your life. Better than him believe me!!! This thing will change the time you will go out with someone that you really like and when you will do this because you reall want it, not to stop thinking the ex! This will happen soon, do not worry!And something else ! If you want to call him do it! This is not bad! But remember! As a friend not something more!
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Why is this? You are/were attracted and attached to him.
When will this change? There's no way to know; it's an individual thing.
Is this normal to think about people while in the process of getting over them? Yes, it's quite normal. People get attached to each other, and those attachments take a while to fade.
The key is to stop worrying about it; the more you fixate on it, the more it will manifest itself.
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