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my friend has extrmemley low self esteem
My friend is really cool and stuff but sometimes she can be a huge pain in the butt. She has a lot of boy troubles. She is kind of mean to most boys and will like hit them and stuff. She still likes boys though. She says that no guys like her because she is fat, short, and ugly. Thats not true at all though she is really pretty. Then she says that everyone likes me(which isn't true) and she says that I'm miss prefect because I'm actually nice to guys. It makes me really mad. how do I tell her in a nice way that She is too mean to guys and that if she is nicer to them she might be able to get a boyfriend. I will rate answers!
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if your friend is that mean to guys then just tell her straight up! if she wants boys to like her then she will take your advice into consideration. and it won't hurt saying that she brags to much about how she's "ugly." always encourage her and say she's pretty! because she will soon later realize that she is beautiful in the inside and out!
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Congratulations! You are a really good friend... If the situation is like that you should do something quickly! When you tow will be alone tell her that thing:"You know what i read somewhere? That all others behave to you in the way you behave to them!So, the moment i read it i remembered you. You know what? You are a really beautiful girl and to be honest i am a little bit jeallous but because you are my friend i will tell something to you. If you will start behaving them a little bit more politely they will all like you! And this one you like. I think that boys like polite and sweet girls that is why i try to be like that. They are so weird! To be honest, i like authentic people! But boys are not like us! Will you start being like that too?" I think that she will understand what you mean. Remember that you do that because you are her friend and you really care about her. If something will go wrong tell her that you love her and this is why you said it. For her own good. If she is a real friend she will understand you!
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