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Wazz good? Umm things about me...hmm.. Im 13 from south Jersey. I am light skinned (carmel omplextiom) long brown hair and about 5"4. I Love giving advice to people.If i didnt u wouldnt be reading this woud u? I am single but i talk to someone....S.O.V.S *some1 very special* I have been talking to him 4 about 4 months. I think i'm in love wooo *sigh*. O anyway..I am very hyper..I am a cheerleader,i run track,play softball and i am on the national jr honor society. I got most popular and best looking in the yearbook. I LOVE TO TALK dance and SING..My favorite song right now is "we belong together" by mariah Carey and her whole Cd and umm Ciara song "oh" and "GRIND ON ME" by Pretty Ricky yes!! I am still a virgin but I know alot about Sex from all of my friends and from reading.I am just waiting for the RIGHT* person right now....um...If u ever need to ask me any questions or give me any comments *THAT ARE NOT RUDE!!!!!!!!!!* feel free to IM me on IXI WuN luV IXL .... love yall lots
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good make out tips?
i rate high
*keep your eyes closed* its rude to stare (lol)
*do not go fast *slow and steady wins the race
*dont stick your tongue in to much*dont be greedy
*breath through your nose* diz not cpr is love
*dont let your teeth get in the way,and let him stick tongue in first,and,dont laugh..
like my sayings lol i thought they were cute,but yea rate plese and hope i helped
Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance..
awwwww..hun. I'll tell you 1 thing you have really GOT to do something. You might not want to but you HAVE to tell SOMEONE , tell a close friend or relative. And then u might have to go to the po-po's (cops). Because if you dont he may REALLY do something seriously bad. You should want to be hurt anymore.Girl.. tell your boyfriend. I strongly suggest yo go to the cops because this man sounds really crazy.And you need to get help before its to late. I wish you the best of luck. and if you can can you tell me wat your going to do (like in my feedback) cause i would like to know.
Hope i helped :/
smooches xoxoxox
i just found out that my best friend was having an affair with my girlfriend! he admitted that he had sex with her, and that they had it more than twice! Now my girlfriend is pregnant and we don't know who's baby it is! please help! my parents are going to freak!
WOW!! thats some jerry springer stuff.But i'm not bout to sit here and put you down..I think you should get you your g/f your bestfriend and all of your parents to have a little "get together" eh? Tell everyone whats going on. Because no matter how u think they will kill you they wont. They may be disappointed but they WILL be there for you. They will help you. So thats my suggetion. Hope I helped :/ i wish you the Best of luck. And i hope the babys yours..if u want it to be :) luv ya
Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do?
Wll sweetie!! um.. if hne trys to get u to do that type of stuff tell him that your not ready and if he still wants to break up with you then let him cause that means that he was only going out with you for sex,and he doesnt really care about you.But dont believe the rumor yet cause you dont know if its true or not. People may be just trying to break yall up. Well hope I helped!!
Luv yah!
Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions
Why dont you confront him. People may be just trying to spit you guys aopart. Or they may be telling you the truth. Are your friends telling you or are random ppl? If its your friends there probally telling you the truth. If not dont believ them right away. Just confront him about it and if you keep hearing i t then lave him
A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:
Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).
But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?
Aww that's so sweet! OMG! But anyway Try taking her to the Movies and SHOPPING every girl would like that or maybe go to a beach or a lake or something so they can just relax and have a good time before the paarrrrr-tae lol. Hope u have fun and everything works out!!
First, I'm an 18 year old girl. My ex-boyfriend is also 18.
While we were together and even before then, we got along famously until something stupid would happen and we'd end up arguing. We'd make up and realize how dumb it was only to end up arguing again the next night.
What's weird is though, even when we were arguing, I loved being with him. I'm only 18 and I already feel like I've found my other half in him.
Now that we're not a couple anymore, we talk as friends and constantly admit to wanting to date again. We just always end up telling each other that "it's for the best."
My question is are we being ridiculous? Is petty arguing (even if it is constant) a good reason to end a relationship? If anyone's ever been in a similar situation, please let me know what you did.
I think every relationship has alot of arguing.If you dont argue its not a good relationship because someones not expressing themselves the way they want to.No one agrees all the time.But IF you still love him then tell him.Tell him that you still want to be with him.Tell him everything If he still insist on not wanting to be with you then just move on.It will be hard and take some time but you WILL find someone else. Hope I helped.smooches :)
ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do.
My suggestion is to talk to your boyfriend face to face, and tell him that you didnt mean what happened and its not that serious.Tell him you may have kissed your friend that kiss didnt mean anything like when you guys kiss.Tell him that he's the 1 you like and you wanna be with him still. Tell him that if he's going to not forgive you over a dumb meaningless kiss then he never really liked you and that true.Listen ma if he doesnt forgive you after appologizing then he's a jerk and you can do better then that. Hope I helped. :)
*KEI-KEI*
i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!
Everyone feels that way everyonce and a while,like everyone has a boyfriend except you. But its ok. Just be patient.If you like some 1 tell them you may have a chance. And dont be in a rush to make it to all the bases it will come soon just slow down, wait. It will all come soon.
Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.
You shouldn't say yes if you dont mean it.By doing that you will only make matters worse for the both of you.For him cause he'll eventually find out the truth and you'll end up hurting him more. and for u because you'll feel guilty about the whole thing.Just maybe talk to him and maybe you'll start to like him.If your not interested then just say "no maybe some other time i'm not ready yet." well hope I helped! :)
okay so i really like this guy Luke* and a lot of my friends have said he likes me as well. Only problem, he has a girlfriend in a different school. He sits behind me in class and he is always talking to me and putting his head on my shoulder (no hes not trying to copy my answers haha) he teases me too and when I say "ugh i hate you right now." he says "oh no .. you love me!" and he is constantly hugging me and stuff but I dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and I dont know what to say because I have already told him he needs to teach me to ice skate (because ive never done it) but I dont know his girlfriend and I dont want to like screw up their relationship. What do I do??
You shoud just tell him how you feel.HE obviously likes you.But he probly likes the other girl as well.Maybe he's "stuck in the middle"Just give it some time after you tell him and maybe after he's done with his girlfriend he'll come to you.