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Q: WOW were like soal mates(like friends)wow if you where a capricorn i would die.anyway there this boy at my soccer camp his name is patrick.he is really annoying in that annoying 13 year old boy kind of way/really ignorent and he almost never passes the ball(ball hogger)and almost eery body their feels the same exept for his friends who are just as stupid as him but i think i like him.i dont know im weirdly attracted to him.but im not sure if he does which he probably dosent and today are last day of camp and im not sure what i should do.please help!thanx
Start talking to him as much as you can. And if you have a screen name ask him if he has one. If he doesnt maybe ask him if he has an email. Or if you would want you could give him your number.Thats what i would do. And if you really wanted to know if he likes you , you could have a friend from camp that you trust ask him. Hope that helped you. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask me.


Oh and im not a capricon , im an Aquarious lol.

Q: How do i know if a guy likes me without asking him? i think we like each other but i don't want to get stronger feelings if he doesn't even like me, if you know what i mean!
What i would do is start having a conversation one day and randomly ask him who he Does like.
Its not exactly asking him if he likes you.
Hope i helped =]

Q: Well here is the thing I like a girl in my grade and i have for like 4 months without telling her ( i was nervous) but she liked me for like 2 years i feel like im playin hard to get but i think im right for her, but here is the thing she is moving to Florida soon and i live in Massachusetts i really want to go out with her PLZ HELPP SOON!!!!!!!!!!
I think you should work up the courage to tell her because i think if you dont it will be something you regret. Ask her out! She will be
here for ATLEAST a couple days while you two
would be going out and you could see her. You could also have a long ditance relationship.. i know a few people who do and they say its still great. But others dont like it. But i say give it a shot.Hope i helped =]

Q: hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
thanks.
I know exactly how ya feel.
I would tell her what she does,
and how it bothers you. And maybe say
something like "how would you feel if
your boyfriend flirting with alot of
otherr girls all the time". Hope i helped=]

Q: Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not?
I say you first talk this over with her brother.
Just maybe someday randomly ask him how he would feel if one of his friends and his sister went out.Hopefully that wouldnt make him feel totally weird but you do have to consider the situation like put yourself in his shoes too. Hope i helped.=]

Q: hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well

*jackie*
Sounds to me like that girl is jealous.
I think she is just saying stuff to maybe bother you?


I think the boy definately likes you or he would not put his arm around you or hold your hand. But if he is with some other girl now, that makes him a dick.


Hope i helped you out.=]


Q: A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..
Sorry to hear that.

But anyways do things that interest you.
Maybe things such as hangout with your friends, go to the movies, go bowling, or just hang out. I know when im sad i go straight to my friends they always know how to cheer me up =]

Q: Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???
Wow i am going through like the same thing right now. I cant find a way to talk to my mom either. And my sister already told her and she freaked out but i want to talk to her about it and make everything o.k.If you get any good advice maybe you could let me know? thanks.

Q: hy thre.....

i m also 13 n i m troubled a lot....i have 2 boys havin crush on me and i hav crush on sum1 else.......salman and tashfig loves m but i love salman......and dipto mor than salman.......bt now tashfig is lamisa's bf and i hav to choose any 1 frm these two.......so i atfirst told yes to salman and thn when i proposed dipto he said that he lovs me and i dumped salman.....but yesterday i had my classparty and i fall in for salman.......but ma frnds says that i cannot hav him anymore...........but i want him....because i heard that dipto was not likin me atfirst when i proposed him....cause my roll number is 28....and he i s a good student.......but i m not.......mayb h likes sum1 lse in his class...,maybe it is arefin bcaus sh i the 1st girl in their classs.....n i m the worst girl in my class.......all i need to know is how will i get salman back.....??????and the main prob is that he is angry wid m....mayb......ma bstfrnd says that i hav look but i m not a good student....thats y i lost all my courage to go n talk wid him..........but sum how i want him and this tim what will i give him is....mak out wid him,hav sex...mayb if he wants.......and giv him the freeedom
plz help m as 1 of ur frnd......
That was somewhat confusing to me but ill try my best. Your friend cant tell you who you can have and who you cant. I think you should talk to Salman and tell him how you feel about him. Guys shouldnt judge you on if your a good student or not. They should like you for who you are. You shouldnt do stuff with him if you dont want to or dont feel your ready. Personally i think 13 is a young age to loose your virginity. But makeout, thats fine. But its up to you what you would do with him.. just dont loose a good rep. Im not sure if that helps you but i hope it did!

Q: Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.
Well heres some things i like and i know girls like. ( coming from a girl)


Compliments are very nice. And we like it when you give them to us. Even if you are in front of her friends. They may tease you or what not but its prolly just because they are jealous a guy isnt that sweet to them.

Checking her out will also make her feel like you are attracted to her. Which it will make her feel good. Her friends will most likely also notice and they will say things to her such as " did you see the way he kept lookin at you.. i think he might like you"


If you would like her to know that you like her you could always tell one of your friends if you still cant find the right way to tell her yourself because guarenteed her friend will tell her.. just make sure that friend does not like you. If you choose that option you should go to tell one of her friends with a boyfriend i think it will work better that way.. for reasons.



Make eye contact with her. That will make her feel like shes the only one you care about at the moment.. that will make her feel great.


Hugs.. im not sure about that girl... but most girls i know love hugs.


Talk to her... dont ignore her even if you are shy.. if you dont tallk to her it will not make her think you like her.

Also you should be the one to make the moves.. most girls like it better that way.


Good luck with this girl! ♥

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KayArrSee
-My names Kaytlyn
-Im thirteen years old
-Im going into eight grade
-I have Brown Hair
-I have brown eyes
-My Facorite Color is pink
-I never take off my ring
-My finger nails are hardly ever painted
-My toenails are always painted
-Winter is pretty much my fav. season
-I hate sweating,but my hands are always sweaty
-I hate not being trusted
-I wear a shoe size 8 and a half
-I couldnt live without a mirror
-I always straighten my hair when i wear it down
-I hate blow-drying my hair
-I dont like brushing my teeth, i do it anyways
-I play volleyball
-Im in track
-My socks always match
-Im said to be pretty random
-I like vanilla more than chocolate
-I dont like wearing black
-I love listening to music
-My favorite kind of music is rap
-I wish all wishes came true
-I hate when people try to be someone there not
-Im very gullable
-Im really self conscious
-Earings make my ears itch
-I love writing
-I have good handwriting
-I have two dogs
-I have one cat
-I like meeting new people
-Many people think im shy
-Im Loud
-I hate my laugh
-My feet are always cold
-Im not a morning person
-The latest ive ever slept in was 2:30pm
-I could stay up all night, everynight
-I hate the sound of alarmclocks
-I love blowing bubbles with gum
-I cant sit still
-I get distracted easily
-I speak my mind
-I always have to have the last word
-It takes me a long time to get ready
-I like hearing other peoples dreams
-My favorite pop is root beer
-I loose things very easy
-I forget easily
-My fav Number is 26
-I hate getting my picture taken
-But i love taking pictures
-I hate screamo music,it gives me a headache
-I dont usually eat breakfast
-Blue Moon is my fav kind of ice cream
-Theres no way i could be a vegetarian
-Im scared to grow up
-I like the smell of gasoline
-Neil is my hero
-BP sluches are my favorite
-I laugh alot
-If you loose my trust it takes a lot to get back
-I get confused easily
-I dont like putting on lotion
-I like going on walks
-I hate running for no reason
-When i laugh hard, i cry
-I can cry easily
-I feel bad easily
-I love to just have fun
-I love cinnamon apple sauce
-Taco Bell is my favorite fast food
-I like listening to people tlak
-Im nosey
-I write with my right hand
-I cut ppl of when they talk , but i hate it
-French Vanilla Cappicinno, the only kind i like
-I dont like being talked about, yet i do it
-I sleep with alot of blankets
-I hate being lied to
-I have a fear of dying
-Blood grosses me out
-I hate mosquitos
-I think smoking is Disgusting
-Im an outgoing person
-Me and my friends are crazy when were together
-i sing in the shower
-I hate hotdogs
-Im inpatient
-Im a pretty happy perosn most of the time
-I dont know what many large words mean
-I dont really get along with my parents
-I LOVE Thunderstorms

If you need some advice i will try you my best to help you =]

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